Am I nuts for worrying that she'll keep my personal information to herself?
Q. Can someone give me some advice? I've always been a person that will be honest in a relationship. I think its a good attribute to have just so there are never anything to worry about, coming back to haunt me, etc... I have been very honest with...
A. 27 October 2010: I've always said to only trust your family...
As for me it's ALWAYS come back and slapped me round the face like a wet fish unless it's been those closest to me (i.e family).
But if you honestly consider that you two could be together for a real l... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have cracked nipples and discharge?
Q. I know this is an awful question to ask, but I wouldn't know where else to go for advise like this. My nipples seem cracked and yellow stuff keeps appearing on the tops? Is this normal? And is there anything that could possibly get rid of i...
A. 4 September 2010: No worries, I went to see my GP. She said it's just Eczema and has given me hydrocortisone cream 1% and it appears to have healed up nicely. Thanks for leading me into seeing my GP, I suppose I was just a little embarressed.... (read in full...)
I met a guy online and then saw him in person. Should I be upset if he's seeing others?
Q. Hi all. Here’s the problem please can anyone give advice? I’m talking to a guy online for maybe 8 months, not online romantic relationship because he was with someone else but we just talked as friends. Then they split, and after a wh...
A. 3 September 2010: If you weren't in a definite relationship it of course isn't cheating. Of course, you we're hurt because you had feelings for this guy. But I don't think that you should throw away your 'friendship' for him sleeping with someone else when he didn't ... (read in full...)
My fiance of 5 years has just left me, is there any way to make me feel better?
Q. I've been dumped by my fiancé of five years. Is there anything anyone could suggest that might make people feel better?...
A. 2 September 2010: Babe... There's never an easy or simple solution to getting over someone... In ways it is like grieving but over a lost relationship... Time will heal it. You are so young and you will find someone because you want to be loved and you will get it. ... (read in full...)
What is better, to be lonely or to be miserable in a relationship?
Q. I just dont know what to do, my boyfriend does not find me attractive anymore i dont know if its because i gained weight after having our son i just dont know but its mainly me with the sex initiating and everything i get no pleasure from him what ...
A. 5 August 2010: You have a son, you won't be lonely. But I don't think walking away is the right answer, he could just be going through a patch in his life where he isn't finding sex interesting at the minute, or has a lot on his mind. I don't think you should pick ... (read in full...)
Should I make peace with it being over and move on?
Q. Hi world. My question involves the one thing we all battle with...forgiveness. Well, it has been a moral struggle with me for over a year now, but technically 8 mos now. My ex-boyfriend and I dated almost 3 years and within in those 3 years we lived ...
A. 5 August 2010: Oh baby, I've got to say that I really don't think this man is any longer finding an interest in you. I'm so sorry to say it because you sound like such a lovely person. I think that you should get your glad-rags on and find someone new who will ... (read in full...)
Can you have sex on the first date without looking like a slut?
Q. Hi, I am a 25 year old female who recently met a 38 yr old guy while drunk at a party....we ended up talking for about 20 minutes then making out and I wound up performing oral sex on him...Not something that would usually happen, but I was drunk ...
A. 5 August 2010: First date sex isn't exactly classy and you could just be being used.
Second date sex also isn't very classy and you could still be being used.
Third date sex is perfect opportunity because he's obviously interested enough in you to ask you out ... (read in full...)
Is my FWB jealous and trying to find out if I have a new man?
Q. This guy i was seeing more like a f**k buddie and we havent seen each other for other a month anyway last night i asked if if he would like a lift somewhere and we do txt everyday any as i said me and my mate he replied, we whos we? i explaned it ...
A. 4 August 2010: I think he is very jealous. But for him to think along the lines of you having someone new, I personally think he has got someone new. And yes, it's pretty obvious he was getting jealous because you had not been in contact for a while and not really ... (read in full...)
How do you get over a broken heart?
Q. How do you get over a broken heart? Over the past 12 yrs of dating guys including 4 long term (between 1-5yrs) in that time but I've never been in love before. I recently met someone and I fell head over heels for him but then I did something that I ...
A. 4 August 2010: Ah, broken hearts.
Well I'm afraid that nothing but time heals wounds. But time will heal all wounds no matter how big or small they are, and sometimes things take longer or shorter amounts of time to get over depending on how badly your hurting.... (read in full...)
My friend has been diagnosed with HSDD - is this a real disorder?
Q. Friend diagnosed with HSDD----hypoactive sexual desire disorder. Never heard of it? Treatments involve therapy but it doesnt work. Any other advice and if you think this is a real disorder that she should be diagnosed with??...
A. 4 August 2010: Yes, it's a real disorder.
This disorder can be present in adolescents and can persist throughout a person's life. Many times, however, the lowered sexual desire occurs during adulthood, often times following a period of stress. Interest... (read in full...)
She always rejects me for sex!
Q. my girlfriend dont seem to be interested in having sex with me anymore she will hardly talk to me about it and when we do she make me feel as tho im just using her for sex. fair enough she is a mum and she is with the baby all day. but i do 12 hours ...
A. 4 August 2010: Personally I think that women do tend to get less interested in sex after giving birth for a few months after having the baby especially if it was via natural birth because she may feel uncomfortable that you will think she has a larger area since ... (read in full...)
My fiance lied to me about going out!
Q. okay, so i am engaged to a wonderful guy. We have been together for almost 4 years, and engaged for a little over a year. We are not only soulmates, but we are also best friends. He has been getting closer to this guy, and they are becoming pretty ...
A. 4 August 2010: Be completely honest and upfront with your fiance. You say your like best friends so he will at least sit down and listen to you. Tell him how hurt you were at not where he went but the way he lied - this will make him feel guilty. Tell him yes, he ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about meeting this girl who my boyfriend has some history with
Q. im going away with my boyfriend of 9 months, we really like each other, thing is there is a girl who is going to be there who he has some 'history' with. as he is friends with all her friends we will end up hanging around with her. i'm really ...
A. 13 July 2010: Don't be worried at all, if he is willing to let you meet her there is nothing there anyway.
And if she wants to cause trouble, he will be on your side, just say Hi be polite, not too friendly but not ignorant either. You might make really good frie... (read in full...)
When should I call back? Is this part of his mind games?
Q. My partner and i split up 3 weeks ago due to a major argument which is in his words 'beyond repair'. i love him dearly and can't imagine life without him. i bombarded him with texts and phone calls which obviously pushed him away and last week he ...
A. 13 July 2010: Babe, don't call him back not now, not next week, not ever. If he's never going to love you, he never did and he never will. So there is no point in setting yourself up for that much heartache, be brave sweetheart seriously and just give yourself ... (read in full...)
Am I bisexual?
Q. Im really confused about myself. Im a girl who has been out with a few guys, and i really enjoyed being with them. Im single right now, and im really close with my friends. when we see some guys at the pool or playing football with no t-shirt on, i ...
A. 13 July 2010: Darling, you don't have to be attracted to every guy. A lot of the guys my friends mention like 'oh, he is well fit' I will think 'well, no he really is not' but that doesn't instantly make me unattracted to males completely, maybe there is just not ... (read in full...)
Should I allow him to continue to see me when he has "chosen" another girl over me?
Q. I had been dating my ex for about 15 months or so. We met online, but we were virtually inseparable. Every moment of our spare time was spent with one another. Alright sex life for what you are capable of on camera/phone. We had planned to meet ...
A. 13 July 2010: Personally, I think you can do a hell of a lot better than this guy. His new piece of meat doesn't sound all that great either, so I wouldn't bother about her, she can find out in her own time what a jerk he is.
He is only using you to get off when... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to watch porn every night?
Q. I have trouble looking at porn every night when I am supossed to be in bed sleeping. Is this wrong. I dream of sex like 12 times every night....
A. 13 July 2010: Masturbation is a normal thing, and is very common in the usage of pornographic sites in young men your age.
But for it to be every night is very damaging to your sexual future, if you base your fantasies around women who are not the normal, with... (read in full...)
I'm too nervous to talk to girls at school!
Q. How do I impress girls at school. I can't seem to talk to them I get extremely nervous....
A. 13 July 2010: There is no need to be nervous, they are probably just as nervous as you, if not then more nervous.
You just need to build up your self esteem and look at the things that you have and can offer to a girl, but with no confidence a girl won't see what... (read in full...)
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