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I am a 34 year old single guy who has just come out of my first major relationship, who has suffered many anxieties in my life, and, knowqing what it's like to feel used and down-trodden, would not wish to see anyone else suffer in any way. I am a very compassionate guy with a big heart who is determined to help people in whatever capacity I am able to and to this end have joined this site to help others resolve difficult issues and so that others can help me with any problems I encounter. |
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Am I wasting my time here?
Q. [MOD NOTE] PLEASE SPECIFY YOUR AGE, SO OUR AUNTS CAN GIVE YOU THE BEST AGE APPROPRIATE ADVICE. THANK YOU. Hi, I am a 39 year old guy. Anyone who has read my previous posts will know that when it comes to finding love, I've not had the great...
A. 16 January 2011: Hi AngelDlite,
Thanks for your response. My gut instinct is here that the things she has used as excuses are genuine reasons enough, I think that her ideal is to meet someone who can match what she has in a material sense, which is a car and a ho... (read in full...)
Ladies, Would you date a 40 year old virgin?
Q. My friends tell me to lie about being a virgin because they say, if I start to become intimate with a woman and she learns that I am still a virgin, she will be scared away. My friends say by this time, women want experience so my best avenue is to ...
A. 16 January 2011: I have to agree with the other two answers. I am a 39 year old male who has thus far only had 2 sexual partners and only went 'all the way' with one of them and that was 5 years ago & I've had nothing since save for a friendly date last week! So I'm ... (read in full...)
If I tell him I miss him do you think it will scare him off?
Q. For several months now, I've been in this sort of involvement with someone. Nothing official, and I want to take things steady due to past experiences of rushing into things. I feel positive about this relationship and I am sure that he likes me. T...
A. 16 January 2011: As a guy and if I were in this very happy situation you seem to have found, I can honestly say that this would not scare me off at all - in fact I'd be flattered and probably respond with something like I miss you too and how I can't wait to see you ... (read in full...)
Virgin at 22... thoughts?
Q. Hi Guys, so im just wondering what people think. I'm almost(!!) 22 and im still a virgin. I mean i have done fooling around with guys and i have had lots of boyfriends but i have never had sex with any of them. Im not sure what the issue is, im not...
A. 16 January 2011: Hi D,
It's possibly a little different for guys but I'm a guy who, believe it or not, didn't lose my virginity until I was 35! When I was your age, I thought exactly the same way you did - I felt like I was in despair and that this would never be... (read in full...)
How can I end this painful and perpetual cycle and finally get together with someone? Preferably her?
Q. I am a 38 year old guy with not much experience of sexual relationships but a lot of experience when it comes to missed opportunities. 5 years ago I met a young woman who I really hit it off with. I worked with her but every time it came to asking ...
A. 2 April 2010: Thanks for the latest post. Just in response to that, we did nothing but communicate and I'd hope that due to the raport we struck up she must have realised I really liked her. I'd love nothing more than to have had a longer chat with her but ... (read in full...)
How can I end this painful and perpetual cycle and finally get together with someone? Preferably her?
Q. I am a 38 year old guy with not much experience of sexual relationships but a lot of experience when it comes to missed opportunities. 5 years ago I met a young woman who I really hit it off with. I worked with her but every time it came to asking ...
A. 1 April 2010: Thanks guys,
Your advice has really helped to put things into perspective.
As for the suggestion about asking her what times the pub opens - I did mention that I went past and it wasn't open and all she said was 'how strange' but this was whe... (read in full...)
He told me hes attracted to this girl at work and now I cant trust him!!
Q. Iv been with my bf for 2 yrs now. He just recently told me he met this girl at work who he really gets on with and was attracted to, he gave her his number and given her lifts home a few times. When he told me I was so hurt, he told me he instantl...
A. 1 May 2006: Hi, I have to admit that this is a difficult situation, but you have done nothing wrong here and that is the first thing to remember. You both need to sit down and have a serious talk about how to better your relationship. He needs t... (read in full...)
I think this guy doesnt like me anymore because I wouldnt flash him!!
Q. hey! okay there is a guy that i like and i was talking to him and he was like i like u to but then he wanted me to like flash him and all other stuff and i said no and then he was like oh i thought u were different and he all this stuff and i do...
A. 1 May 2006: Hi, I think that personally you could find a much better guy than this. If any guy makes requests or demands of you that you are not comfortable with, and you say no, then he should accept this, not play the card of making you feel the one who has ... (read in full...)
Dropped by my new friends and I have a drug problem!
Q. Hi, I hope you can give me some advice for my problem. About 2 years ago, I fell in with a bad crowd and began to do drugs alot. At the time I had a really nice boyfriend but we split up cos of the way I was changing. I didnt care that we split up...
A. 1 May 2006: Hi, You fell into the same trap as I did when I'd left school, the need to go out and have some fun, the need to go a bit wild. I fully understand what you are going through. When now at 34, I look back, I realise that I'd wasted 10 years of my li... (read in full...)
My partners ex came round and the exs best friend is always hanging around our house!!
Q. Help,I am in steady relationship, my partners ex came round to the house on a Saturday pm, and played with thier son for an hour ( late evening ), must add that I work away from home..Am I being paranoid, I told partner that this is not right, but ...
A. 1 May 2006: Hi Personally I would not be happy with this as it seems as though your feelings are being wiped from the equation by your partner, your partners EX and her best friend. You need time to think about what would make you happier here and what yo... (read in full...)
I told my friend about my feelings for her and now things are not the same!
Q. I recently told a female friend that i liked her and have some feelings, but only mentioned this because she was pressuring me into telling her, she made out that she knew what i was going to say so i told her because of this. She said it wouldnt ...
A. 1 May 2006: Hi, it sounds as though your 'friend' has a lot of pride in herself, probably too much. I think she suffers from an insecurity whereby she feels that she has to be accepted socially in every way she wishes before she can relax. She needs the brea... (read in full...)
My boyfriend watches other women...what can we do to fix this problem?
Q. my boyfriend has a problem with watchin other women and we both think that he needs help,so what can we do to get rid of his obsession of watching other women?...
A. 1 May 2006: Hi, When you say he watches other women, what level is this at? Does he simply just look at them in the street or is it more obsessive than that? A casual glance at a pretty woman in the street or on TV is something that most blokes do, the rule is ... (read in full...)
I slept with a girl on Holiday before we dated, but I told her I didn't, I'm feeling quilty.
Q. I have told my girlfriend that I didn’t sleep with this girl on holiday. It was before we started seeing each other. This type of thing has come up before and she has already told me that she would finish with me if I told her that I haven’t slept ...
A. 1 May 2006: Hi in my experience, talking about past experiences of this kind is, I feel, not particularly healthy for relationships as it makes the partner on the receiving end of this information feel as though he or she is being compared with this past exp... (read in full...)
Why can't I find girlfriend? I'm pretty good-looking so what's the problem?
Q. Hi, I am 19 years old and just graduated from high school. I am skinny and pretty good looking, but all of my life I have not really had any friends or girlfriends. I don't know what my problem is. I don't know why I can't find any friends or ...
A. 30 April 2006: Hi, You are living in what was my world for 30 years, but please, don't wait as long as I did. I know exactly how you are feeling and it's agony inside. There are many ways to sort this out. Try finding part-time work where you will meet a lot of w... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is slowly deleting me from his life, What can I do??
Q. My boyfriend and I were dating and we exchanged the I love yous and he told me he was falling in love with me more and more each day and he would be so upset if we didn't get to talk. We talked everyday for hours on end and everynight when he would ...
A. 26 April 2006: Hi,
I know exactly the way you must feel. It breaks my heart to hear how he has blocked you out of his life for no apparent reason. It would devastate me if my girlfriend did this and I would NEVER ever treat someone like this. If I'd fallen out ... (read in full...)
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