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writes: Help,I am in steady relationship, my partners ex came round to the house on a Saturday pm, and played with thier son for an hour ( late evening ), must add that I work away from home..Am I being paranoid, I told partner that this is not right, but not a problem if I was home.In addittion, her best friend is at the house constantly, it is irrating to say he least. My problem is that I phone her too much when I am away, I have agreed to stop this nonsense, where do I stand?
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reader, lani +, writes (1 May 2006):
hi no i dont agree that his ex should come round when ur not there or her friend its time u stopped this as it will destroy your relationship ur man should make arrangements 4 his ex 2 pick up her child at a reasonable hr if this is not possible then supervised visits at another add. like his mothers or other fam member where the child can be dropped off+picked up later also the friend commin round, speak 2 ur man tell him she only comes round when shes invited by both of you.if theres no friends or family member 4 the child 2 go 4 her 2 visit spek 2 ur health visitor they will arrange help.
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reader, jimmy2  +, writes (1 May 2006):
 HiPersonally I would not be happy with this as it seems as though your feelings are being wiped from the equation by your partner, your partners EX and her best friend.You need time to think about what would make you happier here and what you clearly feel uncomfortable with and confront your partner with the suggestion of a better arrangement.If he listens and accepts this then fine, but if he has issues then you need to sit and have a long talk about where your relationship is going.
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reader, philly +, writes (1 May 2006):
It seems to me that you are insecure when it comes to your relationship with your girl. Whereas, i understand your concerns, he has a right to see his child and i feel it would be akward for him to spend time with his child if you are there. Keep the lines of communication open between you and your mate and discuss a more appropiate meeting place than your home. By being overly paranoid and too controlling, you are only going to drive her into his arms.
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