How can I make him understand it's too late?
Q. I could use some advise if anyone has any "insight" or experience or wise words... I have an ex-boyfriend who doesn't seem to understand what's wrong with what he does... Short: We date 3 years. He's always been open about having a crush o...
A. 11 January 2012: stay away from him, tell him the truth, maybe restraining order if things get out of hand? tellsomeone whats going on just incase crap starts happening you know... (read in full...)
Why did my ex contact me after 3 months? What does he want?
Q. hy would he email me after 3months of no contact? what does he want? I loved my ex boyfriend so much. But he dumped me saying he doesn't want a relationship anymore. I so hurt. He wanted to be friends I said no. But I gave it a shot, I thought ...
A. 11 January 2012: easy he wants sex... (read in full...)
My guy's great, but oral is BORING!
Q. I find it incredibly boring when my BF goes down on me. We've been intimate for about 3 months now and have decided not to have intercourse yet, but we've done just about everything else in the book (or outside it). My guy is great, he really turns ...
A. 11 January 2012: Im a guy, we need help tell him what to do, play a game, or make a game out of it, try different things get some books together, experient, try whipped cream... (read in full...)
Fiance broke off with me to be with friend, now wants me back. Can I trust her?
Q. Hi Guys I need some much needed advice, sorry this is soo long winded just need to get all the facts in to get the best advice that may change my life.... I met the girl of my dreams 3 years ago and it was basically love at first sight after goin...
A. 11 January 2012: Im a guy, from US. Honestly DONT TAKE HER BACK. Your her plan B lee dident work out then she comes back to you! It may be love at first sight for you but not her, she cheated on you lied and ran off with another guy and came back when it dident work ... (read in full...)
He said mean things to me only because he was mad?
Q. what would u do or think if your bf tells u are clingy annoying and needy....and then when u tell him if u think im all those thing why are u with me.then he tells u he was just mad and that he does love u and that i need to just enjoy being togther ...
A. 11 January 2012: hes just pissed everyone says mean things, tell him your not gonna put up with it and set limits, sometimes people have a bad day!... (read in full...)
A moral friendship question?
Q. Ok. I'm cool with a guy who was really close with this girl who just recently passed away of cancer. I didn't personally know her. The girl who died was married. Ok. I'm really interested in getting to know her husband. He is also cool with my guy ...
A. 11 January 2012: He will need a friend, maybe a female one, take your time, bring him food ect.... If I ever die (which I wont because im immortal, like highlander) I would want my wife to find a good guy to make her happy. Give this guy time, hes gonna feel guilty. ... (read in full...)
I am lonely and need words of kindness.... Advice for making friends and dating??
Q. Hi Aunts, I'm just feeling a bit low and need some words of kindness. Where do you suggest I go? I don't feel like going to a place of worship and I have no friends who would ever help me. They'd only get me to help them. I'm nearing 30 and h...
A. 11 January 2012: never to old to make friends, be outgoing, ask for advice, go places, meet people face to face not online. Do the oppistie of what you normally do... (read in full...)
I cheated and he just won't stop bringing it up!! Advice pls?
Q. Hi. So, I'm 18 now from the last time I posted, which I was 17... I now have a new relationship, been with this guy for 6 months. anyway it's been the hardest relationship I have been in. First of all I will state that after my ex, I ...
A. 11 January 2012: I have no idea why he stayed with you. Best bet is break things off for him... (read in full...)
We had something but he has a girlfriend. How can we remain friends but set clear boundaries?
Q. I'm very confused. There's a guy I met who's in an long distance, long term relationship with his girlfriend. We live far away, but will live near one another in a few months time. After we first met, he pursued me heavily, despite his girl...
A. 11 January 2012: im a guy trust me hes gonna keep pushing it dont be friends with him... (read in full...)
We are only having sex once a month! What is going on?
Q. ive been seeing my boyfriend for nearly two years,we get on brilliant and have great times together ,but when it comes down to sex its just not happening ,we getr lots of free time together, my boyfriend also does 12 hour shifts and sometimes feels ...
A. 11 January 2012: Ask him whats up directly, ask him if he still wants to be with you, ask him if he still likes men. Sup with that? make time for it before work before you guys get tired, suprise him ect... See what happens... (read in full...)
How can I change and show her I want to be there for her 100%?
Q. My girlfriend has distance herself from me because she feels im selfish and is inconsiderate and when she needs me im not there...what can i do to change that about myself, to let her know i what to be there 100% for her..i do have alot of self ...
A. 11 January 2012: Dont be selfish, you have to know what your being selfish about. Ask her make her be clear talk about it and fix it. If you cant fix it get a selfish girl and you'll see what its like. She puts up with your crap thank her for it and work on it. ... (read in full...)
I think she likes me, but so many things are getting in the way of us being together! What should I do?
Q. Well... I started liking this girl (freshman) a month or 2 into school... homecoming was coming up, and i asked her, but she declined because she said she couldnt... i didnt take it harshly because i knew she was taking honors classes (although i ...
A. 11 January 2012: Dude just come out and ask her, tell her you like her and what you want. Worse that happens is she says no, The other way you'll never know, life is too short, get down to buisness and ask her. ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for wanting to end the relationship over this?
Q. i just need some basic advice as to how i should handle this situation and if i'm justified for feeling how i do. i've been seeing this girl for a few months now. very slowly at first. very casual. but then it progressed into something more s...
A. 11 January 2012: If she lived with her ex husband would you tolerate it? It sounds like a mess, If she lied about that why would she NOT lie about other things. Think about how much you want this? Its a mess for the kid too. Me personally I would move on. Ask her if ... (read in full...)
My wife withholds physical affection. Is there hope she will ever change?
Q. I have been reading a lot of the stories on this site about men whose wives have lost their sexual desire. This happened to my wife, too, many years ago. I think we have had sex just once in 10 years and maybe only a few times in 15 years. We have ...
A. 11 January 2012: Im a guy, I know what that stuff is like. My best answer is write down everything you want to say to her make a letter. Tell her everything your feeling, Honestly any guy would feel rejection, and be unhappy. Communicate with her, give her a chance ... (read in full...)
I miss my ex so much it hurts and I can't stop crying!
Q. My story is a little complicated so I will try to make it short as possible. I was enganged to a guy. We were together for 4 years. I found out that he cheated on me... (several times) so I left him. I left him without a fight... I just packed my ...
A. 11 January 2012: why would you talk to him. Cut him off 100% he's dead to you. You would be miserable if you stayed with him. It would be a long term pain. Maybe your not with the right guy now thats the problem... (read in full...)
How does one make new friends at this age?
Q. I find myself in my thirties and without friends of either gender. I worked abroad and lost contact with everyone and now do a very solitary job which brings me into contact with people only on a professional basis where personal relationships with ...
A. 11 January 2012: Its all personality, some people can go out by themselves and have a great time. Find a way to honestly click with people and work from them, Take peoples numbers be straight foward about it, ask them Where to go out, what to do. Nothing wrong with ... (read in full...)
Can't orgasm with condom!
Q. So here's the prob, I can't cum whilst wearing a condom...I recently had sex with a condom for the first time (2 nights in a row and didn't cum on either) , I've had sex without before and had no problem with ejaculation. Is there anybody that has...
A. 11 January 2012: All mental dude, Try a ribbed condom or a thinner one. Also do more foreplay before, you must be 100% erect... (read in full...)
Did I wreck a chance at a third date?
Q. I met this guy online and after a couple of months he flew to see me. On our first real meeting he brought a friend and all three of us had drinks. He covered my portion of the bill. The second time I met up with him over coffee, I paid although ...
A. 11 January 2012: Im a guy, you did a nice thing, you stepped up to the plate. Relationships should be an equal partnership and a 50/50. How you guys decide to split up a bill is your buisness. Hes lucky to find an understanding person like you. Either way you Win, ... (read in full...)
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