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Why did my ex contact me after 3 months? What does he want?

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Question - (10 January 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 January 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

hy would he email me after 3months of no contact? what does he want?

I loved my ex boyfriend so much. But he dumped me saying he doesn't want a relationship anymore.

I so hurt. He wanted to be friends I said no. But I gave it a shot, I thought we were getting back together. But he told me he loved me but can't love me again. Says I've got a split personality.

I loved him so much, I was the best gf, never cheated on him or lied to him. I worked out, great body for him. I was there. The sex was amazing. I thought we were in love.

I told him we can't be friends. I got an email from him asking if he can come say hello to me. Cos he's in my area. After 3months of not speaking.

Don't say he just wants us cos is not like that and that won't ever happen.

What should I do?

Thanks..xx

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A male reader, JakeChaucer United States +, writes (11 January 2012):

easy he wants sex

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2012):

This guy sounds like he's not sure what exactly he wants. But you shouldn't allow him to mess around with your feelings while he makes up his mind. You should be the more mature one, and write back to him telling him you don't want to be messed around anymore; you are sticking to your guns and don't want to be just friends. Tell him if he wants more than that then he has to be sure of his feelings first, because you don't want to be hurt by him again. Best of luck! 3

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