Does a life threatening illness affect your decision to enter into a relationship?
Q. I have met a really lovely guy. We have only had two dates so far but they have both been amazing. However before our dates I found out he has a few girls on the scene that he calls just for sex. He knew I knew about it so the conversation came up. ...
A. 1 February 2011: I would think most definately,but having said that,sick or not,he dosnt sound like a nice guy-he may treat you ok but a nice person wouldnt use these other girls for sex and mess them around for years-how would you feel if you were them?... (read in full...)
How do I step over that barrier with this chap at work, as it is so pathetic, I simply have forgotten how to get a boyfriend!
Q. I am a 36 yr old female. I ended a 10 year marriage that was abusive 3 years ago. My husband used to rage at me for everything, he withheld sex, he was addicted to drugs, he was addicted to porn and would push me away if I ever tried to initiate ...
A. 1 February 2011: talk to him,even if you have to have a couple of drinks first,then when you start dating,be honest about being scared to trust him and tell him why-you don't have to go into details if you don't want to-just tell him youve been hurt badly in the ... (read in full...)
Does he or does he not... like me???
Q. i need some guy help! it's not so much a question, more just me asking for a general opinion on whether or not he might like me or if he's just nice? so i really like a guy at work. he's a bit older than me, but i'm sure it wouldn't be too ...
A. 1 February 2011: I'd say he likes you-and I sense somebody has a huge crush on him bless you lol... (read in full...)
Should I forgive my girl friend for being ungrateful?
Q. I want a break from my Girlfriend because she returned a gift I bought for her. I love her and have been with her for 4 years, This is the first terrible thing she ever done to me! Must I forgive her? She returned a cellphone and wanted a blackbe...
A. 27 January 2011: well she's a bit high maintenance-but if you love her and you think you can cope with her then theres no need to break up over a phone... (read in full...)
I am 18, pregnant, and can't figure out what's going on with my boyfriend...
Q. I am 18 y/o and my boyfriend is 31. I am just now finding out that I am pregnant with an at home test. I am always the type of girl to be happy, outgoing, and talk loud..., and lately, I've been a lil bit cranky. Now, he has decided to seperate ...
A. 27 January 2011: for goodness sake tell him-today.Trust me he will overlook you being cranky when he finds out why and if he's 31,then you need his support,it's easier for him than it is for you at 18-in a way you are lucky that you have someone older... (read in full...)
I am 18, pregnant, and can't figure out what's going on with my boyfriend...
Q. I am 18 y/o and my boyfriend is 31. I am just now finding out that I am pregnant with an at home test. I am always the type of girl to be happy, outgoing, and talk loud..., and lately, I've been a lil bit cranky. Now, he has decided to seperate ...
A. 27 January 2011: For goodness sake tell him today. Trust me, he will overlook you being cranky when he finds out why.... (read in full...)
He's abusive, but I don't know how to live without him. What should I do?
Q. Im in 2 relationship for the past 4 years. My boyfriend beats me up. I've lost all my friends for him.now I have no one to tell me what to do. Every1, including his friends have told me to move on and I also tried. I tried getting into another ...
A. 27 January 2011: it must be awful not having anyone to talk to-that is the first step to getting away from him,you will never manage to leave him and not go back if he is the only person you have-Start mentally preparing yourself now-keep telling yourself that you ... (read in full...)
How many girlfriends should I have before I marry?
Q. iam looking for a girl who will be my wife.so before i marry ,how many girlfriends should i have? should i be trusting her? ...
A. 27 January 2011: It dosent matter how many girlfriends you have before you marry,as long as you know what you are looking for in a woman and you are ready for marriage,then go look for her-you might find that your first girlfriend indeed turns out to be right for ... (read in full...)
Should I keep my married boyfriend's baby?
Q. I have been seeing a married man for almost 4 years he has been married 6 yrs. I know I will be judged and for the most part for what I have read on this topic, answers seem to be one sided. Always blaming the mistress. It takes two selfish,cheaters ...
A. 27 January 2011: I agree with the poster who said dump the guy,keep the baby... (read in full...)
After no sex for 9 months will I bleed like I did the 1st time?
Q. Hi, I havent had sex in over 9 months reason being I broke up with my boyfriend and havent been ready! But now I have met someone who I want to sleep with and I am just wondering if I will bleed like the first time again? I will feel so ashamed if I ...
A. 27 January 2011: It will hurt but you probably wont bleed-it probably won't hurt as much as the first time though... (read in full...)
How do I improve my self esteem?
Q. At school all the boys say how ugly I am to my face, and also behind my back. But all my Friends say i am pretty. and I try to eat less but i generally think i don't eat a lot but all the guys say how fat I am. But i don't weigh that much I ...
A. 27 January 2011: Girl, for heavens sake, don't take what they said to heart, they will turn you into an anorexic! If you know your not fat, ignore it. They are just being nasty, either because you're weaker than them or because they know you wouldn't sleep with them ... (read in full...)
Should I go to this party where there's a chance I could cheat on my boyfriend in a moment of weakness?
Q. Im going away for the weekend because i've been invited to a birthday party ...but my boyfriend is going away too and i was moaning to him about how hes gonna cheat on me ..but the thing is the party im going to has this guy who fancies me and said ...
A. 27 January 2011: I only read the tiltle and..no-don't go to that party... (read in full...)
Should I be asking so much about my girl friend's past lovers or should I let it rest? It bothers me so much
Q. Ok. I met my sons mom in 2003,.,we now have a 6 year old son together. back in the begining when we first met we had one of those open conversations about the past.The things she told me didnt bother me at first, then because of the timeline she ...
A. 26 January 2011: please stop asking her about the past-it's obvious she loves you and does not want to mess you around.The fact that she is embarrassed about her past indicates that she does have some morals-allow her,she didn't know she was going to meet you when ... (read in full...)
I love my ex so much and I miss her. Should I send her flowers for Valentine's day?
Q. I just recently broke up with my ex fiance. We were together for 6 years, we broke up 6 months ago, but we kept talking for many months. I was trying to work things out, but she did not believe that i would ever change. Her reason for leaving ...
A. 26 January 2011: I would send them,but just put a nice friendly message with them not anything that sounds like you are pressuring her to come back to you-if it were me Iwould think it was a very sweet gesture... (read in full...)
How genuine is my guy? I've helped him so much, and yet I feel excluded from his life.
Q. My guy is a plumber by profession. I love him very much and we been in love for three years. When he had little money on him last year i rented an apartment for him, fed him through last year. Yet i don't know much about his life. He excludes me ...
A. 26 January 2011: I'm sorry girl but it seems like he has various different girls all over the place who he just uses for what he can get-I'm sorry but he sounds like an a-hole... (read in full...)
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