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I love writing stories, poetry - You name it. I love life and spending time with my friends... I love smiling and laughing.. and life has gotten complicated beyond explanation. I'm not... As joyful as I used to be. And I could really use some help outside of my circle of friends. As for thee advice giving - Tbh, I am not qualified to help people BUT I am not adverse to doing so, I qive my opinion/advice just like anyone else. :)

Her dating our friend's brother on the sly seems like a betrayal

Q.   So, this is not necessarily about me. It is about my best friends Elen and Leila. Leila and I have been close for four years, and then we met Elen, and have all three been close for 3 years. I've even stayed with Leila and her family for a couple of ...

A.   21 January 2014: Thank you all for your help. I really appreciate it and I realize that while it may not be Leila's business, it's also not mine. So I'm gonna take the advice of telling her to just not tell me anything anymore. So thanks! ?? ... (read in full...)

I let a date get out of hand and now I feel guilty

Q.   So a lot has happened since the last time I was here OBVIOUSLY because I'm 17 now. Not much in the relationship/boy department just life in general... Until last night. SO Sunday, I met this boy. He was the friend of a friend and he asked me for ...

A.   13 May 2013: So I've decided to stop talking to him .. I havent been back to his house and he's called me everyday this week .. But this experience has made me realize that I wasnt ready for a boyfriend or anything to do with boys yet .. And also, I feel like ... (read in full...)

I let a date get out of hand and now I feel guilty

Q.   So a lot has happened since the last time I was here OBVIOUSLY because I'm 17 now. Not much in the relationship/boy department just life in general... Until last night. SO Sunday, I met this boy. He was the friend of a friend and he asked me for ...

A.   10 May 2013: And to chigirl he's 18, he did smoke too, and he did stop when I said to.... (read in full...)

I let a date get out of hand and now I feel guilty

Q.   So a lot has happened since the last time I was here OBVIOUSLY because I'm 17 now. Not much in the relationship/boy department just life in general... Until last night. SO Sunday, I met this boy. He was the friend of a friend and he asked me for ...

A.   10 May 2013: I want to thank all of you for replying, and although I'm not completely there, I am slooowly starting to get over it. He did call the next day and he actually did apologize for putting pressure on me, and then we continued talking to eachother. I ... (read in full...)

How can I have clean fun at work when my husband works there too?

Q.   Help!!!! I work in the same department as my husband and we have been married for three years. However I find one particular man at work very attractive and sweet. He is young and I am so sexulay attracted to him. We talk and work together but I ...

A.   8 May 2013: M'am that is just dangerous. First of all, flirting is always a risk of more because the person you're flirting with can assume that you are doing so because you desire them and because you desire them, there is a possibility of intercourse. In ... (read in full...)

Why am I not comfortable (and I mean AT ALL) with being vulnerable to someone?

Q.   Okay, I don't think I'm weird for this, but I just wonder why I act in the way where, I shut everybody out? When it comes to friends- I joke with everyone, and I have a lot of them, and I have a few I can even say are my best friends. And I t...

A.   4 January 2011: Thank all of you for replying. I understand, and sort of agree with a lot of your answers to my questions. To Mr. "Strongfp" that thing about your girlfriend actually did help me out a little bit, and I understood everything you meant. Thanks a... (read in full...)

Does it matter who texts first?

Q.   Who texts who first, the girl to guy or guy to girl? Is it always the guy to text the girl first? What if a girl texts you first? does that mean she thinks about you? and If you text her back first and she takes at least 10-15 minutes and after sh...

A.   3 January 2011: Ok... One, no it isn't always the guy that texts the girls first- Depending on what kind of girl you're dealing with..some girl's liked to be chased, some girls like to do the chasing, and some just say whatever. Two, if a girl texts you first, i... (read in full...)

Why is he so mean to her but nice to me?

Q.   The other day my brother went on a roadtrip, he'll be gone for a week. his friend (who I am really in to) came to say bye and what not. as his buddy was leaving a friend told him that he could still come over and hang out with me, teach me to play ...

A.   30 December 2010: Okay, yeah...It SEEMS like he could actually like you.. whether it be as a friend or more, is still a mystery.. boys are weird! xP I think he's trying to warm up to you...And I'm guessing that you like him, so do you think if it ever led to that,... (read in full...)

Why am I not into the whole commitment before sex thing like most girls?

Q.   I am fourteen years old, and many people have told me that I was one of the most mature 14 year olds they've ever met. But this is my problem: A lot of the ways and things I think, are more like a typical boy's attitude towards things. Like, fo...

A.   30 December 2010: Okay, I want to thank everyone who answered me...even the only male guy, who I felt was a little brutal...but that's okay, because I agreed w/ you on some stuff...and there was another question that I posted on here that kind of related into ... (read in full...)

Should I really be doing this or am I getting a little ahead of myself?

Q.   Okay, so I'm 14 years old, and just recently, I've made plans with this guy, a friend, who I've known for years, to lose my virginity...and I know a lot of people might say I'm too young, but I know what I want.. my thing is, I have a fear of ...

A.   30 December 2010: I want to say thanks to all of you who answered. You really helped me sort things out. It's weird because after reading your answers, I came to regret something that hasn't even happened yet. I was already a little skeptical about the idea in ... (read in full...)

How can I convince my girlfriend to have a threesome with another guy?

Q.   HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP My sexual fantasy is to have a threesome with a hot guy and my girlfriend, but I am too shy to tell her, she is very religious... but it turns me on the idea of she being with another man...

A.   29 December 2010: Okay, first... NO, you are not normal...But it's okay, because everyone is a little weird ;) ..Two, only YOU know how your girlfriend is.. You know if asking this kind of question will offend her (and I'm guessing, if she's as religious as you say ... (read in full...)

Why is he so mean to her but nice to me?

Q.   The other day my brother went on a roadtrip, he'll be gone for a week. his friend (who I am really in to) came to say bye and what not. as his buddy was leaving a friend told him that he could still come over and hang out with me, teach me to play ...

A.   29 December 2010: Okay, there are multiple answers for his behavior, which could be: 1. He likes your friend, and is mean to her to get her attention, and [unconsciously, maybe] is nice to you to show her how he COULD be w/ her, if she felt that way.. 2. He actually... (read in full...)

Had sex with straight best friend, VERY confused!!

Q.   Hey, Firstly this is gonna be really long, but i need help because this is really confusing me! Im 17 and gay, my best mate is the same age and straight. He is very much the typical straight guy and would never involve himself with anything that wou...

A.   29 December 2010: Okay, dude, first off...Ur friend likes boys.. . ..second, you personally cannot really do anything because you can't control ur "Friend's" mind or his way of thinking... have you ever thought he gets uncomfortable because some of the things you say ... (read in full...)

Said he adored me. We broke up, so then he scared me when became abusive. Now wants me back?

Q.   Please help i loved someone, he looked cute. i dated him now 2 years together. He says he adores me, but one day we fought so hard, so i decided to break up. He started to scare me, with the msgs. He had he started to shout and say bad words, and ...

A.   29 December 2010: Okay, let me just say.. it is NEVER ever ever ever ever a good idea to go back to a relationship that was becoming abusive.. Trust me, my sister used to go through it with her husband all the time...and I was around for MOST of those times... so ... (read in full...)

How does a person gain confidence and not worry what others think?

Q.   Hi There! How does one gain confidence and not fear what others think of you? At 40 you would think I would know better! My story begins from when I was only 13. I was sexually-physically abused or maybe more like my uncle didn't penetrate m...

A.   29 December 2010: You know, I'm actually fourteen years old, and I've actually been sexually abused by my some of my own family when I was younger...and for a while, I was the quiet and shy girl who over thought EVERYTHING..and a lot of time I would always wonder ... (read in full...)

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