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writes:Who texts who first, the girl to guy or guy to girl?Is it always the guy to text the girl first? What if a girl texts you first? does that mean she thinks about you? and If you text her back first and she takes at least 10-15 minutes and after she replies texts you every other 5 minutes, does that mean she doesn't want to really talk to you?Thank you for answering/replying/reading
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 hi
i think its fair if one day you text first and the next day she does. sometimes we cannot always text some one straight back if we are busy or with people (if seems rude to people if they are with you or trying to talk to you and you are playing with your phone). try not to worry too much. i think its more important WHAT the texts say rather than how often she texts or how long it takes her to reply. if you are not sure how long to leave it to reply to her messages, you should leave roughly the same amount of time as it takes her to reply to yours. this is fair and she should be happy with it. for instance if she thinks its ok to wait 15 mins to reply to you then she should be happy to wait 15 mins for a reply from you
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reader, IKnowWhatIWanTButDoThey +, writes (3 January 2011):
 Ok...
One, no it isn't always the guy that texts the girls first- Depending on what kind of girl you're dealing with..some girl's liked to be chased, some girls like to do the chasing, and some just say whatever.
Two, if a girl texts you first, it's most likely because she wanted to talk to you...and yes, more often than not she could have been thinking about you OR scrolling down her contacts list and happened to come across your name, and decided to text you.
And as for your last question... ???
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