I can't have intercourse with my new wife, it won't go in!
Q. i am newly married just week before. and my partner have a problem regarding intercourse. as if she got her vaginal way smaller, so that i cant get in. and she is complaining pain when i try. kindly advise me. thanks victor...
A. 7 April 2006: Have you tried usein a lubricant, such as ky jelly. This might help it along a bit. Or maybe try usin 1 finger at first an work you way up to 2 possible 3. Then wen you have intercourse her vagine would have been used to having bein opend that ... (read in full...)
I'm going to have sex for the first time and would like to know about contraception!
Q. Hi all!! I'm a 17 year old girl(from the UK), about to have sex for the first time...I was wondering what the best method of contraception is...(we haven't really been taught this at school) I want to be completely safe so want two methods ie condo...
A. 6 April 2006: I would like to start of by saying that every women is different. i was on the pill for 3 yeras an cum of it for just 1 mnt an hey preston i got pregnant.i have now bin on it for 6 yaers all together an am cumming of it again to try for my second ... (read in full...)
She said I should write a poem....what's this for?
Q. Do girls around the age of 13-18 find boys who write poems attractive? Because ive been telling a girl how perfect she is, and she said to me about 3 times i should write a poem. Eh?...
A. 6 April 2006: Just tell her honey. that your not very good at writing poams an that maybe you could try writing a letter insted.
As a women myself we like to have a reminder of the nice things you men say to us so thats probebly what she wants. So try a lett... (read in full...)
We have sex and I'm in pain for days after. I think his penis is too big! What can I do?
Q. i have a problem everytime me and my boyfriend have sex i`m in agony for days i think maybe his penis is to fat please help me ...
A. 6 April 2006: What i would do first is see your doctor explain to him that it hurts after sex for a few days, as sumtines there is an underlieing problem. Maybe try useing some lubricant to help plus it heightens the feelings for both of you. Also maybe try doing ... (read in full...)
She didn't want to celebrate our (1 month) anniversary... Should I let it go or get furious?
Q. since i have been going out with my girlfriend for a month. she didnt even want to spend the 1st month together nor get me a 1 month present. should i be mad? she says she doesnt think of the first month as anything big. she even forgot we made a ...
A. 6 April 2006: Honey i would just let it go. Dont make a big deal about it. Just say that you thought she would have wanted to do somethink special together an that you didnt mind that shes didnt. Theres always the 2 mnt, 3 mnt, 1 yr ect.
It doesnt have to be a an... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that my bf takes photographs of strange women in skirts?
Q. My boyfriend takes photographs of strangers (women) going to work, because he likes women in skirts? Should I be worried, he also looks at women on the internet in nice underwear, that i was not so bothered about until i found the other photographs ...
A. 6 April 2006: Honey sit him down an ask him about it. Then explaine to him that your not happy with him taking pictures of other women in skirts. Ask him why he does it an try an get to the bottom of it all. If he has a problem then tell him you will help him ... (read in full...)
He introduces me to others as "his very good friend"! We've been dating four years..so why is he doing that?
Q. my boyfriend of over 4 years introduced me to a male friend of his as his very good friend. what does that really make me?...
A. 6 April 2006: Honey i would simple ask him whats going on are you hie girlfriend or hie good friend.Tell him that you would like people to no that you are his girlfriend if thats the case, an that you are proud to be on his arm when he takes you out. Maybe next ... (read in full...)
Is 3 months too long for her to be away with her guy "friend"?
Q. My girlfriend knows a guy overseas. She wants to go over there without me for 3 months. Am I being overly concerned to think 3 months is a long time or not?...
A. 6 April 2006: I also think that 3 mnts is a bit long for her to be away. But on the other ahnd has she given you any reason for you not to trust her in the past. Try sitting down with her an explain to her that you will miss her and dont want her to be gone for ... (read in full...)
I take lots of time getting aroused and feel pain after sex!!
Q. Hey all, i was looking for my problem on net and found this site. I am 27yrs old and my hubby is 28 and we both love each other but the problem is i take lots of time in getting aroused plus i feel pain after sex. and i also cannot concentr...
A. 6 April 2006: Have you spoke to your Husband about these problems? i suggest doing so. Maybe try askin him to ues a comdom so that hes doesn,t orgasum inside you as some women find that when there partners do this it causes them sum pain after sex. Also try using ... (read in full...)
He hurts me when we make love..is it because he's jealous of other men and is being this way on purpose?
Q. hi, im hoping i can solve this. i am seeing a very hot guy..we are sleeping togther. im a 27 yr old female and he is 22 years old. We were good family friends and i had no idea he liked me. Until sometime later he told me. It wasnt until one night ...
A. 6 April 2006: Ohh honey. you need to put the cards on the table with this one an tell him exactly whats right an wrong. For example its wrong to carry on havin sex with you wen you have said No. If hes making you cry when your both suppost to be having an ... (read in full...)
Suddenly, he stops calling and starts making excuses. What's happening with this guy?
Q. I am 22 years old and I met this nice guy at a wedding.I gave him my phone number and we started calling each other, all of a sudden he stopped calling me and he started to make excuses, but he is still telling me he misses me and that I captured ...
A. 6 April 2006: well honey i would get straight to the point. ask him. tell him what you are thinking an that your woundering whats going on with you an him. You need to talk things thourgh with him an be honest with each other. ... (read in full...)
She's everything I look for in a girl, but she's so secretive!
Q. I just met a girl who has everything I look for in a girl, but she doesn't like me picking her up, or taking her to the train station, doesn't want me to go to her area, keeps me and her friends separate (ie, me on weekends, her friends after work), ...
A. 6 April 2006: well my advice would be to give it a bit of time. Maybe shes not used to having a boyfriend that wants to spend time with her an get to know her. If after a bit of time shes still being secretive than tell her you would like to get to know her a bit ... (read in full...)
I really can't tell if he likes me, sometimes it seems like it and sometimes it don't!
Q. hi i dont know what to do, im head over heels in love with someone, but the problem is he dont love me back. we've always been close but now i love him. i cant get him off my mind, and im getting really depressed because although im 15 i feel lik...
A. 6 April 2006: Oh honey we've all been here trust me. I agree with you,i think he his leading you on an giving you the wrong impression. It seems like hes doing it all for the attention your giving hie especially if hes the same with other girls out of lessons. My ... (read in full...)
I'm not quite sure which to do to make myself happier!
Q. Please!!! Someone to help me!!! Should I decide to have a baby or/and buy a house to revive ten years of unhappy marriage??? Thanks!!!...
A. 5 April 2006: I would recomend none of these things.To bring up a baby you need to be in a loving an stable relationship. An if you were to a buy a house an then break up you wolud end up havig to sell an split the house, which woiuld be hard wrok. Instead sit ... (read in full...)
I really like this guy but am so scared of rejection!!
Q. Since my separation with my husband, I have met lots of different men off internet dating sites and newspaper ads. Ive had no luck whats so ever and have been let down so many times. The only man I see now is D, He was one of the first men I met, ...
A. 5 April 2006: All i can say is go for it girl the worst that can happen is that he will say no. If so than its his loss after all. You no the saying "theres plenty more fish in the sea" So go for it!!... (read in full...)
In the last three years we've made love five times. What are my options?
Q. I have been with my partner for 7 years. When we first got together we made love frequently but as soon as we moved in together (seven months after meeting)it stopped. In three years we only made love 5 times. I asked him what the problem was and ...
A. 5 April 2006: i woudl tell him stright. Tell him you dont like him useing all his energy looking at porn an that you would like to make love more. Tell him you miss the intamacy you both used to have with each oter and want to no what went wrong. Is it that hes ... (read in full...)
He said he would take me shooting with him, is it a date?
Q. Ok im just wondering what my good guy friend attention is with me. Earlier today on the bus i was talking to him in just a normal converstion. Then we got on the topic of guns and how he likes to going shooting up in the woods sometimes on the...
A. 5 April 2006: i recommend you go on the date an see how he acts around you. If he acts normale then maybe he just wanted to hang out, if not then maybe he wants more. If still in doubt ask him if he would like to go out for dinner as a thank you for the "lovely" ... (read in full...)
We have two kids, we're teenagers and now he says he doesn't love me anymore!
Q. 2n a half yrs agao i met this boy on the net we were 16 then and 6 months later we decided to meet things were going really well we both fell in love with each other n i fell pregenant every thing was fine till 7 months ago i found out i was ...
A. 5 April 2006: Honey i can relate to this problem like you my boyfriend did a similar thing to me. What i recommend you do is sit him down and tell him exactly how and what your feeling. Let him no that you think working down there is putting strain on the ... (read in full...)
My friends told her i want to have sex with her as a joke but now i just want to be her friend!!
Q. hi, there is this new girl in scool and i really like her and one of my friends told her that i wana have sex with her for a joke She took it seriously now i just want to be friends with her what do i do ? please help thnx...
A. 5 April 2006: I suggest that you tell her you wish to talk to her an take her to one side either after school or during a break. Tell her that it was your mates idea as a joke and that you just want to be friends with her at the moment.It wasnt your idea an you ... (read in full...)
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