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writes:hi i dont know what to do,im head over heels in love with someone, but the problem is he dont love me back. we've always been close but now i love him. i cant get him off my mind, and im getting really depressed because although im 15 i feel like ive been waiting for love my whole life. i thought it wasn't real untill now, and now i finaly got the feeling, i can't get him.hes a big flirt with me, and i think sometimes he is leading me on, even though he has a g/f of his own. in lessons we get quite close and i think sometimes maybe he likes me too, but hes only ever like it in lessons and i never really see him the rest of the day because hes with other girls.im not really the jealous type and this has never happened before to me. its driveing me crazy! i cant stop thinking of him. im even falling behind on my course work beacuse i cant get him off my mind.please help,
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reader, kellyO +, writes (6 April 2006):
 Hi there, my advise is that if he doesnt love you back then perhaps it is best to try and forget him. i know it is difficult having been there myself but i am sure there is a guy out there for you.if he doesnt want to date you then dont encourage him to flirt with you tell him to save it for his girlfriend.
Also, you know u could try having others friends to hang out with. dont focus your attention too much on this guy. Go to friends parties, join social clubs and groups in your school.
All the best dear
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reader, Hunny Bunny +, writes (6 April 2006):
Oh honey we've all been here trust me. I agree with you,i think he his leading you on an giving you the wrong impression. It seems like hes doing it all for the attention your giving hie especially if hes the same with other girls out of lessons. My advice would to try an ignore him for a few days an see how he reacts then. It may make him realise that he misses having you all over him. If not than its his loss. Your young an believe me love will come aroud again. Try an put him to the back of your head an show him you dont need his attention to feel beautiful. Dont let your coursework suffer because of your feelings as it will be your loss at the end of the day an not his. good luck sweetie.
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