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We have sex and I'm in pain for days after. I think his penis is too big! What can I do?

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Question - (5 April 2006) 7 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2008)
A female , anonymous writes:

i have a problem everytime me and my boyfriend have sex i`m in agony for days i think maybe his penis is to fat please help me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008):

Hi, well, i am not sure of the answer, as i have recently experienced the same problem! I have had many sexual partners, and this guy is so big, that after it hurts for days, it feels like razor blades!! I am going to try and be more gentle about the whole thing, and maybe this will help, i will let you know how i get on!!

My sympathy is with you, as i know how upsetting this can be! This pain, has actually nearly put me off seeing this guy, but i am going to try again!!

Good luck with everything!

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A female reader, Angelicc United Kingdom +, writes (8 April 2006):

Angelicc agony aunti dont think his penis is too big i just think you a little bit too tight. you need to relax alot more or you gonna find yourself getting really sore after sex.

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A female reader, Wendyg United Kingdom +, writes (7 April 2006):

Wendyg agony auntWithout a doubt get to the docs!!! At least if they get you checked out your mind will be out at rest. Sex should not be painful, if it is then you need to do something to resolve this. It could be something very simple, but at least get it checked. The sooner you do the better all round for you...and you can start to have a wonderful sex life.

Take care

x x

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A female reader, Hunny Bunny +, writes (6 April 2006):

What i would do first is see your doctor explain to him that it hurts after sex for a few days, as sumtines there is an underlieing problem. Maybe try useing some lubricant to help plus it heightens the feelings for both of you. Also maybe try doing more foreplay before hand. Talk to your partner an let him no about the problem an maybe he can help by going a bit softer an slower.

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A female reader, willywombat United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2006):

willywombat agony auntSometimes there can be other problems which can cause this. Is this your 1st sexual partner? If you have had previous partners this could be caused by pelvic inflammatory disease (sometimes an after effect of untreated chlymidia) or it could be caused by some genetic/physical problem of yours.

I would strongly suggest that you go to your GP and have a full checkup. You can ask for as much advice as you like on here, but it is a medical professional who will be able to help you best.

Good luck.xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2006):

You need to see a gynecologist; do this as soon as possible.

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A female reader, Suzie767 United Kingdom +, writes (5 April 2006):

Suzie767 agony auntHis penis isnt too big. Your pelvis is designed to fit a babies head through so a mans manhood is no problem! You may want to try a little more fore play. You will then naturally lubricate yourself and this should help things no end. If the problem persists i suggest you see your doctor.

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