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writes: since i have been going out with my girlfriend for a month. she didnt even want to spend the 1st month together nor get me a 1 month present. should i be mad? she says she doesnt think of the first month as anything big. she even forgot we made a month, she thought it has only be 3 weeks. should i be mad or i should just let it go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2006): I would be extremely mad but I believe I am anyhow super jealous and super in love. One reasonable person would advice no you should not be furious because this is not important. I believe it is though, it is not romantic, and definetely this girl makes me think she does not feels so much special for you. I might be wrong. But I completely agree with your feelings.
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (8 April 2006):
 well i personal remember every anniversary my boyfriend and i have, if the begin of our relationship he's never forgot one but after the we hit the one year mark he's forgotten two but its okay because okay i just make fun of him and amek him pay for it later lol..haha.. maybe she doesnt think one month is very speical...but dont worry about it too much
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reader, Hunny Bunny +, writes (6 April 2006):
Honey i would just let it go. Dont make a big deal about it. Just say that you thought she would have wanted to do somethink special together an that you didnt mind that shes didnt. Theres always the 2 mnt, 3 mnt, 1 yr ect.
It doesnt have to be a anniversary for you to do somethink nice ofr her women like suprises.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (6 April 2006):
 I have to say in my experience celebrating one month in such a way is rare. It is something I have only ever done in one relationship and probably wouldn't do it again. Obviously it has some significance to you but just because she doesnt put much stock on it doesnt mean she doesnt view the relationship as important.
It seems to me here that you are in danger of being too hung up on something that is a detail compared to the fact of your relationship which is the important thing. I wouldn't put to much pressure on it myself; maybe plan a romantic night close to the anniversary night but make sure its about you and your gf enjoying each others company which is the most important thing.
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