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writes: My boyfriend takes photographs of strangers (women) going to work, because he likes women in skirts? Should I be worried, he also looks at women on the internet in nice underwear, that i was not so bothered about until i found the other photographs he keeps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2006): Seems to me like he just has a fetish. Nothing wrong with that as long a he keeps on the right side of the law. If you feel confortable, ask him about it and see what he has to say
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2006): Lots of people have these fetishes but i agree with u completely. However innocent it may be it is making u uncomfortable. If he can't change u may have to rethink about your future with this guy. What he is doing could also get him into trouble with the police, is he aware of that possibility?
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reader, Hunny Bunny +, writes (6 April 2006):
Honey sit him down an ask him about it. Then explaine to him that your not happy with him taking pictures of other women in skirts. Ask him why he does it an try an get to the bottom of it all. If he has a problem then tell him you will help him deal with it, an that you will be there for him if he needs you. Otherwise oneday one of these women might notice him taking a picture of them without there concent an then were will he be? good luck sweetie.
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reader, tux  +, writes (6 April 2006):
 I would be concerned. Obviously he has an addiction. He's addicted to seeing women in skirts and panties. As for legality, it's hard because laws vary from place to place.. I think what harsh was thinking about was problaly what's called "upskirting." Legality of this does vary. I wouldn't classify this as stalking though unless it's the same girl. Stalking normally involves a person following or checking up on a person. Not just taking pictures of random strangers. I'm not too sure on the legality of just taking pictures though in a public thoroughfare.
But in the end, i would be concerned about thois behavior.
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reader, harshbutfair  +, writes (6 April 2006):
 If these are "intimate" photos i.e. panties, he may be breaking the law by taking them without consent, depending on where you live. So, he should bear that in mind.
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (6 April 2006):
 Not only should you be worried but id be calling the police or something because thats stalking, thats just sick.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2006): I wouldn't be too worried if he is only taking and looking at pictures. As long as he doesn't go after them as well. It may be that this keeps him from not being disloyal to you then it may be good.You should ask him about it, maybe he has a reason besides "he likes women in skirts". To have a good relationship it is best to be open with eachother about everything.
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