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She's everything I look for in a girl, but she's so secretive!

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Question - (14 March 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2006)
A male , *hadow_lion666 writes:

I just met a girl who has everything I look for in a girl, but she doesn't like me picking her up, or taking her to the train station, doesn't want me to go to her area, keeps me and her friends separate (ie, me on weekends, her friends after work), told me she hasn't got a house humber, and when I call her mobile, she is usually distracted or not too talkative.

I know it's only been 3 weeks, but something doesn't seem right, like she doesn't want to be seen with me! Or am I being too clingy by wanting to spend time with her and get to know her and her family and friends?

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A female reader, kellyO United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2006):

kellyO agony auntDearie, guess the best thing to do is talk to her about it. try and find out why she is so secretive about you meeting her friends and family. There are alot of conclusions that can be inferred from this. could be that she thinks it is too early for you to meet them or something entirely different.

Goodluck.

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A female reader, Hunny Bunny +, writes (6 April 2006):

well my advice would be to give it a bit of time. Maybe shes not used to having a boyfriend that wants to spend time with her an get to know her. If after a bit of time shes still being secretive than tell her you would like to get to know her a bit better i.e her friends an family an that you would like to meet them. Tell her your thoughts on the whole matter an try an worke them out together.

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