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writes: Since my separation with my husband, I have met lots of different men off internet dating sites and newspaper ads. Ive had no luck whats so ever and have been let down so many times. The only man I see now is D, He was one of the first men I met, ive known him since Sept last year. I do fancy him and always have, we still see each other, normally once a fortnight.We havn't seen each other a great deal in this time, as in the beginning, his ex wanted him back and he was mixed up and needed time to sort himself out. He knows he doesn't want her back now.He has a little boy from his ex and he is going through the courts to get proper access to see him at mo.He does go to his exs once a week to visit his child.D was also ill and we couldn't see each other as he was in hospital. Now we see each other once fortnight, he rings me most evenings, we do get on very well and im starting to feel for him more and more but my biggest fear is that his going to turn around and say he doesn't want to see me anymore and it will make me feel distraught and is there somthing wrong with me? I' ve been hurt so many times.He also says he wants to take things slow, he admits he puts his barriers up at times. He has met lots of women and most of them seem to dump him, so if he dumps me, it makes me feel like there must be somthing wrong with me. I enjoy his company and I don't want to be pushy, so I tell him now to ring when he can and get over to see me when he can. I don't want to frighten him off. He is easy to talk to, he is down to earth and I fancy him, he has the two qualities I never find in a man. I fancy him and his lovely. Pleas help me to know what to do next and to know how to handle this fear of rejection. thankyou
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reader, Hunny Bunny +, writes (5 April 2006):
All i can say is go for it girl the worst that can happen is that he will say no. If so than its his loss after all. You no the saying "theres plenty more fish in the sea"So go for it!!
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