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28 September 2008: Relationship abuse is a big term that many people might not understand correctly while there people who might have an idea but not know completely what is it. Do you know what relationship abuse is or you just do not care at all? Well every single ...
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Any techniques that will help me last longer?
Q. Hey there, I just wanted to ask you guys if you knew any tips or techniques on how to make sex and masturbation last longer. It doesn't take me very long to cum, and I was wondering what I could do to lengthen the pleasure. ...
A. 5 December 2008: This is an answer to a similar question I answered before:
I been there and its okay dude, it happens. Some times stress makes you weak and as a result it affects you’re sexual life, in my case it did happen that way. Sex with my girlfrie... (read in full...)
My much older girlfriend is pregnant and moving away. should I marry her?
Q. My brain says its wrong but my heart says its right: I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 43. I have only had one girlfriend before her and this relationship is way better. We have been going out 15 months. The last month she was offered a new job ...
A. 13 November 2008: This is a serious issue, it is not a decision you could take base on what you love and what you like, it is a decision you need to take base on your standards. You mentioned she said you treated her as a real gentleman and also something really ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want a baby at such a young age?
Q. is it bad to want a baby at such a young age? i feel myself really wanting to be a mum and i don't know why. i had a pregnancy scare a while ago and i was actually happy about it. me and my boyfriend are very happy together and i just reli want a ...
A. 13 November 2008: Listen it’s not wrong it is just not right at this moment. You still growing up, there is a cycle you haven't complete yet and if you accelerate your life without completing the cycle it would come back to you in the future and you would regret ... (read in full...)
I don't want just sex !!
Q. Okay maybe someone can help me with my dillema, I'm 21 and gay, open about it. Now whenever it comes to relationships I always hit a wall. Most guys approach me and compliment me on my good looks and appearance and then immediately ask me for a ...
A. 8 November 2008:
i am completely on your side,it had happen to me many times and it bothers me a lot when boys would just come to me because of mine"good looks". i really wanted a serious relationship which didnt just depend on sex but i must say its hard to find... (read in full...)
We never bicker but we always flirt! And he's straight?
Q. What's up everyone!!!! its me lotmoney13!!!!! well lately my feelings for the str8 guy have been getting stronger!!!!!we've been talking and we've gotten to know eachother really well. we hang-out, we talk, we laugh, we have fun. the story is...
A. 8 November 2008:
There are many factors already according to what you said. your not 5 years old anymore like when you still little and you promise your best friend you would never go away.
if its happening in the way your saying then i really think he ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't know I used to be gay. I want to tell her but honestly have no idea of how.
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for the best part of two years. We love each other to bits and we're going skiing in Canada over Christmas, just the two of us. But the thing is that before i met her i used to be openly gay. Not camp or ...
A. 8 November 2008:
Listen your case its just a normal feeling anyone would have, you love this woman and she loves you if you are completely honest according to what you said,i dont think your lying to youself about not being gay anymore,if in this two years of... (read in full...)
My wife is a very attractive woman but I can't stand her!
Q. Hello, I have been married for 4 years. We have two boys, one is 4 and the other is 2. My wife and I have fallen apart, we literally sit at the dinner table and all you can hear is the silverware hitting the plates, anyways my real problem is that I ...
A. 8 November 2008:
In this case,there are kids in the middle,you want to provide them with a safe non violent environment and violence is not only physically it could also be mentally and emotionally so if you can't stand your wife no longer think about your kids... (read in full...)
How do I convince my older girlfriend that age does not matter?
Q. I am a 19 year old guy who has been dating a 27 year old girl for 8 months. She has recently been concerned about the age difference because she believes we are in different parts of our lives even though we have talked about or future and agree on ...
A. 8 November 2008:
I always had a thing for older people matter or fact im always the younguest anytime i start a relationship and i think it even works better then with people of my own age. they take things in a more mature way,they have goals and dreams f... (read in full...)
She thinks I cheated but I didn't. How do I get her back ?
Q. ok everyone well my girlfriend just broke up with me because she thought i was cheating on her when i was like rubbing on another girl but i realy wasn't i was just playing around with a friend but im desperate to have her back. i would do just ...
A. 8 November 2008: Love and lust are not the same thing,i don't know you at all but i being in the same situation and i think you should learn how to differ one from another. if your relationship is base on trust then she should give you a chance to explain her ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her or not?
Q. i've been madly in love for this girl for a lot of time. and i guess she feels just a bit attracted for me. but i suffer from an early case of borderline personality disorder. it makes me a very problematic person. but i care so much about her that ...
A. 8 November 2008: Hey dude being honest is the most importat thing in a person and i am completely sure she would appreciate that. don't judge yourself base on that problem because its not fair. i think you should tell her and let her be the one who decides if s... (read in full...)
She told me she wants to date other men as well as being with me.
Q. I have been dating this woman for only 3 weeks, but in that time we have spent a lot of time with each other. She seems to be really into me as I am to her but she told me she also wants to date other men. I am newly divorced and have not been in a ...
A. 8 November 2008: I totally agree with you if she was totally into you she wouldn't be wanting to date other men. but in the other hand maybe she was in a difficult relationship and now she just wants to enjoy life and maybe find a partner for the future,im not sa... (read in full...)
My father is the most annoying person I ever met!
Q. Hey, my father is the most annoying person I ever met, he wants to know why I have a piercing in my ear, according to him only homosexuals have it there, am I wrong for telling him he has to learn how to be a better father instead of worring of ...
A. 8 November 2008: Thanks for the suppport i guess,i should just ignore his ignorance.. i did like your quote "I'd rather look like a homosexual to you then a homophobic porch monkey.(that one is a good one,but if i tell him that i'll probably would be sleeping in t... (read in full...)
Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??!
Q. Why are all men selfish, disrespectful, ignorant bastards??! Theyre so nice when they want sumthing then they discard you like a piece of rubbish. They can be the best boyfriend ever but wont think twice about dumping you for another woman and ...
A. 29 October 2008: Well I believe you haven’t find “Mr. Right” because you have certain expectations in your mind, you pictured him in a certain way that would not come to be true, but you must updated your mind to reality, be open to new things especially when it ... (read in full...)
I always have bad luck in love.
Q. I've always had really bad luck with love. I have only ever liked two people in my life, and the first was last year. I liked her for about a year without any hope, and nothing happened, except that she got a boyfriend (and subsequently broke up ...
A. 29 October 2008: Listen from my experience I really think you shall tell her because otherwise it will continue bothering you until you don’t know what to do. From my point of view I think girls don’t like a boy who’s super shy and doesn’t know how to make her feel ... (read in full...)
I finish way too fast when we have sex.
Q. Hi, I have a bit of a problem. My girlfriend and I have been together for quite some time, and we have always had really good sex up until about 2 months ago. Lately I have been finishing way too fast and we usually don't even have time to switch up ...
A. 29 October 2008: I been there and its okay dude, it happens. Some times stress makes you weak and as a result it affects you’re sexual life, in my case it did happen that way. Sex with my girlfriend wouldn’t last for more than 10 to 20 minutes the maximum and I was ... (read in full...)
Know the person who you are kissing!
Q. Relationship abuse is a big term that many people might not understand correctly while there people who might have an idea but not know completely what is it. Do you know what relationship abuse is or you just do not care at all? Well every single ...
A. 29 October 2008: Thanks a lot for reading the whole article, I must admit it is a long article that mostly not one would read, but you did. I totally agree with you about really getting to know the person even if it seems like you’re going crazy for asking too many ... (read in full...)
Know the person who you are kissing!
Q. Relationship abuse is a big term that many people might not understand correctly while there people who might have an idea but not know completely what is it. Do you know what relationship abuse is or you just do not care at all? Well every single ...
A. 29 October 2008: Thanks a lot for reading the whole article, I must admit it is a long article that mostly not one would read, but you did. I totally agree with you about really getting to know the person even if it seems like you’re going crazy for asking too many ... (read in full...)
My sister got beaten up pretty bad by her ex partner. Now she says that her ex has apologised and has 'problems' and she wants to help!
Q. My sister got beaten up pretty bad by her ex partner, whom she still lives with. She was punched and bitten on her face, and threatened with a knife. Now she says that her ex has apologised and has 'problems' and she wants to help! I unde...
A. 25 October 2008: Well dude I personally think this is a common issue in America especially in relationships where there is abuse not just physically but also emotionally and mentally. My oldest sister was in a really aggressive relationship in which she almost got ... (read in full...)
I have an extreme attraction toward transexual pornography. Does it mean I'm gay or bi?
Q. I have a problem. I'm 16 and I fancy girls, I fantasize about girls, but I also have an extreme attraction to transexual pornography. Does this make me gay or bi sexual? Even the thoughts of gay porn arouse me......
A. 28 September 2008: Hey buddy guess what? That’s a normal thing it happens to all of us when we’re becoming young adults. Many people would say hell no I am a man and I do not think of other man because I am not gay, think about this have you ever being ... (read in full...)
Please help me with this love thing!
Q. im 12 year and am in love whit a girl in my class. to valetine i gave her a card........... a friend of me told me that she tornd it....... is that very bad....do got a chance or do i just give up??...
A. 28 September 2008: Listen dude its alright it happens to anyone,but know when to make your moves if you see she's not into you then retreat otherwise you would be wasting your time.... (read in full...)
My husband told me he flirted and danced with another girl in a club. Should I take this seriously?
Q. I 23 years old and married with my husbund, 32, for three years and have 2 years old son. Last night he went out from work, and came home at 1am, drunk, and told me he flirted and danced with another girl in a club. I dont know, what to do. Shall I ...
A. 28 September 2008: Listen its alright you don’t have to panic it happens to man who feels empty in certain areas I would advice you to entertain your husband just as much as the girl in the club did, remember you’re beautiful yourself and if he stills with you is ... (read in full...)
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