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*otmoney13
writes:What's up everyone!!!! its me lotmoney13!!!!!well lately my feelings for the str8 guy have been getting stronger!!!!!we've been talking and we've gotten to know eachother really well. we hang-out, we talk, we laugh, we have fun. the story is that today, we were having fun and he told me he was going to mexico for christmas and i was incredibaly happy for him but sad at the same time. so he said to me "yeah ima be gone for a while sam, try not to miss me too much.....k......you'll get wrinkles, but your too young to get wrinkles. so naturally i tried to trick him and gave him a friend-type of answer. "FINE!!! just dont miss me too much while your gone, i want you to have fun!" but i think it came-out kinda flirty and he said "Nah, that'd be too hard for me sam........". And a couple days ago, when i froze him-off on friday cause of LSU, he asked me if there was nything he could do to apologize, and i told him "eat this burned cookie.....that i made" so he ate it and said."there i ate it, are you still mad at me?" so i told him "nope!" then he said "good, i'd hate it if you were ever mad at me" so back to the real question!!!! is he making the first move on me? or do i just really want us to happen so desperately that im seeing it this way?
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reader, HotANDcold +, writes (8 November 2008):
There are many factors already according to what you said. your not 5 years old anymore like when you still little and you promise your best friend you would never go away.
if its happening in the way your saying then i really think he does likes you but his not sure if you do,so why dont you talk to him about it right before he goes to mexico that way he has plenty time to think about it.
i just can't think of a straight man who acts like that,good friends are good friends,lovers are more of passion and having fun.
you really need to talk to him about it,just do it in a way he would not feel embarrased. if his not your his friend and he should accept you the way you are.
Good luck
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