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writes: I have a problem. I'm 16 and I fancy girls, I fantasize about girls, but I also have an extreme attraction to transexual pornography.Does this make me gay or bi sexual? Even the thoughts of gay porn arouse me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2008): I'm 18 years old and at your age I was really attracted to transsexuals and at age 17 I had sex with a transsexual but after I did I really didn't feel attracted to them any more so get your self a transsexual and bang her to get it over with
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2008): It sounds to me like you are bicurious. I was that way as a teenager, but then hid from it using charismatic Christianity. Just now at age 51 have I come out to myself that I am bisexual. I like heterosexual, bisexual, transexual and some gay porn. However, I'm married with two boys and don't want to do anything to mess my family up. So I fantasize using porn and sex toys.
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reader, HotANDcold  +, writes (28 September 2008):
 Hey buddy guess what? That’s a normal thing it happens to all of us when we’re becoming young adults. Many people would say hell no I am a man and I do not think of other man because I am not gay, think about this have you ever being with your dudes at the pool or in the gym and it gets you curious what it would be like to feel them closer?Well if you do don’t be afraid I believe we all being in a certain situation in which we do not desire to do what society considers to be wrong but inside of us we’re curious about it. Remember life has different stages and you are the one who decides what to do, if you fantasize about girls, but also have an extreme attraction to transsexual pornography it might only be curiosity. Remember a transsexual individual looks exactly as what their trying illustrate. A man who looks exactly like a woman in a porno flick only guides you to think he is she.In the other hand if you still arouse by your gay porn thoughts you might consider watching a gay one so you could find out if there is an actual attraction to men.I hope it helps you buddy.
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reader, princeofsorrow  +, writes (27 September 2008):
 Transexual pornography is just porn featuring men (or women) that have had a sex change. Plenty of former men turned woman have happy, healthy relationships with men. It doesn't mean you're gay or bi. It's perfectly natural to feel sexually aroused by a woman who looks good, even if you know she used to be a guy. (I always thought labeling some porn as 'transexual' was pointless).
Now, onto the part about being aroused at the thought of gay porn. There's one solution: Try it.
To really see if you're gay, go onto a gay porn websites and look at pics of guy on guy action. If that gets you going but you still fancy girls, then you are definitely bi-curious. Not neccessarily bisexual, as when faced with the real thing, you could find you don't enjoy it.
There's nothing wrong with being curious at your age. Everyone is, no matter what they say.
Hope this clears things up for you.
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