How do I leave this relationship
Q. I first met my boyfriend at a party some time last year. I went outside to get some fresh air and he followed me and stayed with me the entire night. We were working together at the same place at the time, but in different departments so we never ...
A. 6 December 2011: Sweet heart, i was with this very guy for 12 years. This was the relationship that nearly literally drove me int the ground and killed me. I finally rose up in my faith to defeat this demon. This guy is messed up. Youpicked a desperate, pariasitic, ... (read in full...)
Why won't this man commit? And did I make the right decision?
Q. My boyfriend of two and half years broke up with me the first week of December, and shortly after I started talking to new guy. For the first month, we just communicated via texts, but we really got to know each other and we were both starting to ...
A. 11 February 2011: I think if you guys actualy like each other as people, then arrange to stay in contact as friends. If You say you would not be able to do that, you may want to break it off then for your own emotional well being.
Long distance relationships that... (read in full...)
She waited for me to get a divorce for 4 years, got tired and dated, now wants me back, should I give in?
Q. I met this young lady a fews years back. I thought she was a real sweetie.We hit things off very well. The problem was that I was still married and living with my wife. I decied that I was going to divorce my wife before I met this young lady but i ...
A. 9 May 2009: She had every right to finally go out and date someone else. Why not you had someone in your domain the WHOLE time she was waiting on you. You didn't get up and leave your wife for her, and why not? You claim it was because of money, yet you would ... (read in full...)
How can I keep away from him?
Q. I am starting to feel very stupid, there is a guy I work with same building different areas we only see each other 3/4 times a week very briefly but we have stayed late to chat sometime for over two hours, I thought he felt the same as me (I am ...
A. 26 February 2009: You can keep away from him by realizing that, in blowing YOU OFF, he was keeping Away from You. So it ought to be easy for you then-SEE!!!! Good Luck... (read in full...)
I want to hang out with someone but I have a hard time making friends. I need to get my mind off him...
Q. So my boyfriend and I broke up. I want a relationship but we agreed to be friends and hang out. I am supposed to go to his place this weekend and I can't wait. We had been living together and that meant that I was almost never alone. Now I am moved ...
A. 25 February 2009: Well, I was just thinking back to when I was your age, and I really liked math, so I dove into my numbers. Do you skate? Ride bikes, like to get in to the gym ?? You have to put your mind into what YOU like to do, put your mind into that- THE ... (read in full...)
I'm sure she likes me but I'd like your help... what do you reckon?
Q. Hi, I need advice fast... I worked for a rail replacement company called First group for 3 years and left recently to start a new job... My parents continue to work for First... one of the contract coach operaters they use often has a driver cal...
A. 6 January 2009: Well Kido: it's obvious you both are interested in eachother, as she always asks of you, you wonder of her, and now send eachother kisses. Just ask her out with a chaperone if you must, talk with her, ask her questions about hobbies and interest, ... (read in full...)
Virgin Girl that is waiting until marriage...
Q. When I was starting to get to know a boy and the guy getting to know me But, later confused that I was a virgin and his response was that he liked me so much to have sex that he couldn't stop for me that he said that I had to lose my virginity... ...
A. 6 January 2009: I know not your age, but trust me, wait wait wait for the right guy, sex usually isn't all that great with them anyway, so wait til you are with the right guy, no matter how long it takes, and by pass all the emotion that will well up in you, and ... (read in full...)
I like my boss, I think he feels the same, but we both have partners and he has kids!
Q. What do I do, the chemistry is there, the eye contact is there, we still blush even though we've been working together 3 months now. I think about him almost everyday and when he goes home on a friday im the last person he says goodbye to and he ...
A. 24 November 2008: The most important thing to do is be cordial, and don't make eye contact until you gain some strength. Always be polite, because this IS your JOB. Avoid touchinig him back if he touches you, after a while he'll take notice, if not immediately. You ... (read in full...)
Does this means he doesn't care about the relationship?
Q. I have a little bit of a weird situation with my 9 months boyfriend. He is a very wonderful guy, and he does everything to please me, but the fact that he is very introverted sometimes makes me think that he doesn't care about me, I know I am his ...
A. 12 November 2008: WOW! You're pretty harsh then to ask such a question like "does this mean he dosen't care about the relationship he had"? He DOES CARE that is why he at least want to still be friends. in other words you are so important to him, that even if you no ... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me advice on how they got back in touch with an ex?
Q. Succinctly put: I broke up with my ex a month ago and I'm like to get back in touch with her so that we can remain friends but don't know how to go about it. Some more details: I don't believe that it was possible to remain friends after...
A. 12 November 2008: You say you want hem back in you rlife, to be friends with them again. Are you lonely right now, or don't have enuff friends in your life. Why did you break up with them. When they ask you why you are calling them, are you going to say cuz you miss ... (read in full...)
He is nice to everyone else, but acts like a jerk towards me. Why?
Q. There is this one guy that acts strange around me. He talks to my friends and not to me. My friends add him as a friend on Facebook, and he accepts them, but when I add him, he ignores me. (he does not even know my friends). He is nice to everyone ...
A. 12 November 2008: Sometimes people just don't mesch. People read things off of your 'ways' or 'character' that don't coincide with their 'likes'. In time that could change as the learn otherwise, and sometimes not. People just don't mesch sometimes.... (read in full...)
I can't sleep until I know... did he like her more than me?
Q. I need some clarification so I can sleep. Did he like her more than me? A guy I've known for a while and had a brief 'relationship' with is a player. He recently was dating this girl, however who sent her some presents, texted all the time, planne...
A. 10 November 2008: You say this guy is a player. Cheated on this other girl and who knows how many more, that's what players do. It's not that he liked the other girl more, it's that she served his purpose for what he needed at the time. You served your purpose. These ... (read in full...)
I can't sleep until I know... did he like her more than me?
Q. I need some clarification so I can sleep. Did he like her more than me? A guy I've known for a while and had a brief 'relationship' with is a player. He recently was dating this girl, however who sent her some presents, texted all the time, planne...
A. 10 November 2008: You say this guy is a player. Cheated on this other girl and who knows how many more, that's what players do. It's not that he liked the other girl more, it's that she served his purpose for what he needed at the time. You served your purpose. These ... (read in full...)
Do you have any input on what I should do, or if you think she likes me?
Q. So there's this girl I really like, and I think she likes me back, and one of her best friends thinks she does, but I don't want to ruin our friendship, by making things awkward. We talk a lot, and when I see there, or she looks at me it looks l...
A. 10 November 2008: I'd ask her out to a movie or something, see if she will spend one on on time with you. If she light up and is still fun and smiley with you, then comliment her and see how she responds. There are indeed, touchy feely people out there, is she like ... (read in full...)
My feelings have grown from those of friendship to love...
Q. I'm planning on moving out for the first time next summer with my Best Friend. Him and I have been Best Friends for four years now. We are so close and practically inseperable. We used to fool around, but now our relationship is completly ...
A. 10 November 2008: You need to tell him how you feel before you room together. You think your in torture now. Wait until he starts bringing girls back to your place, cuz, he thinks your just buddies. your heart is going to rip out and you won't be able to study and ... (read in full...)
Why has he done all of this even though he is married?
Q. why he done all these even though he is marries? i met gug at my work place he was top level manger in he working company he was begin my company... v had chance to talk ... it was normal mean time he said im un married... i feel it does matter f...
A. 10 November 2008: There are some people who just lie. Take advantage of others for some sort of personal gain, emotionally, financially..whatever. It's a game. Not a nice one. Glad you moved to a different company. Let it go. Try not to get too attatched too early. ... (read in full...)
Is he gay? Or is it something else? I'm ready to give up!!!!!
Q. I've been dating this guy for a few months now. Everytime we shedule a date something happens and we have to cancel. I'm beginning to think that maybe he's gay and he's just going through the motions of dating me but doesn't really want to do ...
A. 10 November 2008: This person does NOT KNOW what they want. You don't have time for that kind of non sense, effort and energy do you??
Quit contacting him and see if he comes around to YOU, to prove to yourself that he has not just been simply trying to 'sha... (read in full...)
Is he gay? Or is it something else? I'm ready to give up!!!!!
Q. I've been dating this guy for a few months now. Everytime we shedule a date something happens and we have to cancel. I'm beginning to think that maybe he's gay and he's just going through the motions of dating me but doesn't really want to do ...
A. 10 November 2008: This person does NOT KNOW what they want. You don't have time for that kind of non sense, effort and energy do you??
Quit contacting him and see if he comes around to YOU, to prove to yourself that he has not just been simply trying to 'sha... (read in full...)
What does it mean when he says "we've connected!"
Q. What does it mean when I guy says " we've connected?" I was getting on really well with this guy who I ended up giving my number to! We ended up meeting up and he said "I knew when you gave me your number we'd connected".. However, he promised t...
A. 9 November 2008: Hi: I have a friend who says that. "I knew when you gave me you're number we connected". Basicall, as I understand the phrase, it means that he knew you liked him, and the evidence is in that you actually gave him your number. SOme guys wait a few ... (read in full...)
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