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writes:I am starting to feel very stupid, there is a guy I work with same building different areas we only see each other 3/4 times a week very briefly but we have stayed late to chat sometime for over two hours, I thought he felt the same as me (I am totally smitten). Anyway we were supposed to meet up but he has blown me out, he didn't come to say he wasn't going to meet me and he didn't text me either. We have been working together for about 2 years and have been having these chats for about 1 year. I felt we were starting to get somewhere but I now think that I don't mean anythng to him and he is just having a laugh with the other guy I work with. I am really into ths guy and I suupose deep down I know that I should just stay well away because he isn't interested. How can I keep away from him?
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reader, Hobbit22  +, writes (26 February 2009):
 You can keep away from him by realizing that, in blowing YOU OFF, he was keeping Away from You. So it ought to be easy for you then-SEE!!!! Good Luck
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reader, Leanne S +, writes (20 February 2009):
 I would be honest with him, the next time he wants to chat I would say that you had the perfect chance to and he let you sit and wait without the decency to txt, ring or email you that he wasn't coming. It sounds like he likes the attention but has no intention of commiting to anything. You are worth more, dont let him bring you down but more than that, dont feel like you have to hide from him. Hold your head high and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): He says he is single but I am not sure. Normally I would just stay away but I feel very attracted to him.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 February 2009):
 Stop the staying late to chat, aviod the places tyou usually bump into each other. Is he perhaps already in a relationship?
Change your routine.
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