Should my sister be fasting now that she is pregnant?
Q. Hi My sister is pregnant- she is only about 7 weeks and is eating so much. She says she is hungry all the time. Is this a sign of anything? Sign of more than one baby?? Also, she does fasting days when she does not eat anything for 2 out of 5...
A. 17 January 2014: Obviously we are not doctors on here, so i while i think this doesn't sound healthy I ultimately have no way of knowing. She NEEDS to tell the truth to her doctor and get the relevant information and advice. If you are worried she won't tell her ... (read in full...)
Does love exist still? Should I save my virginity for "The One"? I want a better marriage than my parents have.
Q. Hey everyone :) So I'm 19 and still a virgin which is kind of part of the problem and not. Anyway I need to know am I being way too expecting of love and sex? My parents had a unsatisfactory marriage and still do. I grew up in a home where...
A. 9 January 2014: I think it's great you're waiting for someone special, just as the other posters have said there's nothing wrong or weird about it at all. Our parents marriages often play a huge role in the way we see relationships altogether, but don't let yo... (read in full...)
No physical attraction?
Q. Can a relationship work if you get on well with a person but don't have much physical attraction?...
A. 15 June 2013: In my opinion no, it's sometimes sad and annoying but no matter how much you like someone's personality, ultimately if you're not physically attarcted the relationship is ultimately doomed. As you feel attarcted to the person's personality, you may ... (read in full...)
Do parents who coddle their kids actually love them?
Q. I was dating this guy and everything was going good and it seemed we were becoming serious until I started finding out more about him and his family dynamics. A few months in I found out he lived with his mother (he was 36 at the time). I was ...
A. 15 June 2013: In my opinion, some parents think that merely love is enough when raising children, they raise them not too different to the way people raise pets-they keep them healthy, housed, fed, happy. And they think that's all that's necessary. Unfortunately ... (read in full...)
Is he just a total liar? Why would he put up pictures that are found online? And make out that they are him?
Q. There's this guy I know and who hits on me a lot. We've hooked up quite some times. He tells all this stories about being in the military, being deployed, being hurts in battle, the military training, the special courses he has, that he wakes up...
A. 19 May 2013: I think he sounds very insecure, and sees this kind of brave hero military guy as the kind of guy he wishes he was, so he invented this lie to get away from the reality of being himself, and being someone he likes better. Once he started living in ... (read in full...)
Should I confront my ex-bestfriend who is now sleeping with my soon to be ex-husband?
Q. My best friend and my husband are now lovers. She left her husband, he left me. She has two kids and we have one. She and he have discussed kicking me out of our family home and them moving in. I suspected something was going on for so long...
A. 19 May 2013: So sorry for your horrible situation,
However I also agree that it's not a good idea to confront her. While you may think it will bring you closure, unfortunately in reality it won't. Whatever you were to say it would never be able to express your... (read in full...)
I'm trapped in a loveless relationship. Should I just pay him to leave?
Q. Trapped in a loveless relationship. I am not married. I've been in a on/off relationship for 8 yrs. my problem is that after a split of around 9 mths I stupidly got back with my ex. He had lived with his mother most of our relationship which had ...
A. 30 April 2013: It sounds as if he is just completely using this relationship for his own personal needs such as housing, companiionship but in fact has absolutely no feelings for you (not to sound harsh), rather that it's all very comfortable for him, the easy ... (read in full...)
Should I just stay out of it, and not offer my opinion? Is it his choice alone to plan ahead, or not plan ahead?
Q. I just had a fight with my bf and I don't understand what went wrong. He's been in school for the past year and a half getting an associate degree and planning on going to a different college next. He's also 32. The argument was about why he's g...
A. 28 March 2013: By the sounds of it you both have valid points, Personally I think education should be an ongoing thing, in fact it's hugely important, who says that just because you're 32 you can't try and achieve a better education? He may well have goals, thou... (read in full...)
Some like it rough.....
Q. I have been seeing this girl for awhile (6 months) and we have some great times in and out of the sack. The other night, we were partying and she made the comment,"I like it rough too as long as their is no pain". I have never been rough, to women. ...
A. 28 March 2013: As a woman, my interpretation of this would be that she means with a lot of power, energy and heat, also fast, without any actions intended to cause pain such as with S and M. While we all love making love, sometimes rough can be enjoyabl... (read in full...)
How do I end this love, which I discovered is not "love" at all?
Q. Dear agony aunts I have been feeling very miserable for 2 weeks now, and I'm afraid I have no more tears to spare. I have been in a relationship with my bf for one year now, and I have loved him for 2 years. What I thought was love, appare...
A. 16 February 2013: You say you don't wish to continue the relationship, then you need to do that, the problem with controlling relationships is their tricky end as he will ALWAYS have some trick up his sleeve to make you stay,
My advice? create an action plan for ... (read in full...)
I'm going through a divorce and my 2 year old wants to call her father at night. Is this a bad thing to do?
Q. Going through a divorce and I have full custody of our two year old daughter. She's very sad, mostly around bed time. Saying she misses daddy and wants to go home, I comfort her and it breaks my heart she's hurting. He doesn't try to see her and I ...
A. 14 February 2013: One of the most important things for small children in stability and routine, the find comfort in this, since you say he doesn't always pick up perhaps you could try and explain that he's gone away for a while,
Explain to him that until he can sort... (read in full...)
Is this a "no harm, no foul" situation or is this the kind of thing I'll probably end up regretting?
Q. So, here's the situation. While I welcome any opinion I would very much like some female input. There's this girl I was working with (we both got laid off very recently) who I'm quite attracted to and really enjoy spending time with her. She ha...
A. 14 February 2013: I agree that it sounds like the boyfriend is on the way/i already completely out of the picture,
It sounds as if she's interested in you and since you're interested in her I would say don't come on too strong, but it's certainly worht seeing wher... (read in full...)
Is it healthy to be turned on by a girl because she did porn or sleeps with men for money?
Q. hi, i was talking to a friend of mine and he was saying how he was interested in this girl, and said that she once performed in a few adult videos and still does some escort work. Its a little beyond my stuff I'm used to so i was pretty surprised...
A. 11 February 2013: As long as she is using protection then why wouldn't it be healthy? It's unorthodox but the bottom line is as long as they are both happy then its ok.
Personally I don't feel that relationships can last long term in a situation like this beca... (read in full...)
Friend of 5 years ditches me for his girlfriend. I feel hurt!
Q. I'm lost, confused and feeling really down. I lost a friend a while back after we had an argument when he started ditches me and others for his new gf. I was always very weary of her, she was very much younger than him and had slept around alo...
A. 7 February 2013: I'm sorry to hear that, I've had similar experiences myself and it doesn't feel nice, unfortuntaely what I'm going to say probably won't feel nice either,
But ultimately you have to leave it be, he now percieves you as a kind of enemy so ther... (read in full...)
Other than a credit card? How to purchase sex toys without the small town bank staff knowing what I purchased?
Q. Hi! Very childish question here, but Im worried. Its a very miniscule problem but I am looking to purchase some "bedroom toys" but Im worried that if I use my debit card the bank will see my purchase! I live in an extremely small town Im taking ...
A. 5 February 2013: This is a problem many people, especially women face everywhere, which before massively affected sales of such items to these kinds of businesses, so nowadays privacy is number 1, ie. the billing name, item listings on the package are generally v ... (read in full...)
I was called a bad name by a stranger and it ruined my whole day. How do I stop caring about this kind of event?
Q. Hi guys, this may sound like a silly problem but it bothers me a lot, Basically while usually I'm a real tough cookie, sometimes small things people do or say bother me far more than they really should, I get really sad and insecure, For e...
A. 2 February 2013: Thanks for the helpful comments -especially that of the positive steps thing- Interesting twist of fate i had the weirdest cab driver of my life make me crack up on my way home from a friends tonight, i guess it's just fate right, throws you s...... (read in full...)
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