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Expert in many sex crimes court cases including sex offences.
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Should I Tell my boyfriend what goes on in my head?
Q. I have low self esteem. Its really bad to where I'd call out of work and miss school so i can stay home and hide under my blankets and cry. I am my worst enemy and for years Ive been trying to get better. But i cant help it when i have my moments. ...
A. 8 March 2013: See a Doctor before you destroy your life and relationship. Get some counselling help and make your life better. ... (read in full...)
Dating a gynecologist is bothering me!
Q. I've met this guy recently through friends I like him very much. We've been on couple of dates but my problem is that he is a gynecologist! I can't seem to see through that. I cannot imagine what that is like for a young man. It bothers me to think...
A. 8 March 2013: In my youth I said, thats the job for me. I became a police officer instead. I have seen a lot of nude women in my work. from rape cases to home made illegal porn. When doing my job I did not think of the rape victim as sexual. Its a job and ... (read in full...)
New baby last year. So how can I convince my husband that I need less visitors at home?
Q. Dear cupid, I am at the end of my tether with visitors in my house! I had a baby last year and since then I have never had any peace. I'm feeling overwhelmed by too many people always around here. I feel like my home isn't my own and I am running ...
A. 7 March 2013: let him run out of clean clothes. towels and dishes. when he ask why, tell him you are entertaing the guest. he will get the hint ... (read in full...)
Will my married lover leave his wife? Or just keep me holding on to hopelessness?
Q. I have fallen in love with a married man. He has not divorced her. Our relationship has been 3 yrs. I want to end the relationship but things keep getting better between us. She was in an accident last year and still in recovery. I am unsure i...
A. 7 March 2013: beyond him leaving her, its what you get after. I doubt he will leave her. having 3 years with you, means you are easy to string along. You will never be more than his side woman.
Now he breaks it off with her, he might date you. Will always be a... (read in full...)
Forced into a marriage and a year later I still don't love the man! What can I do to save the marriage?
Q. I'm 24 and I come from a very conservative christian family,and my parents forced me into marriage with this guy from the same community! I told my parents not to,they dint listen and I eventually gave up and thought may be I could love this person ...
A. 7 March 2013: Sounds like your dislike for him, comes from the pressure to marry him. Would guess he was pressured as well. Stop blaming him for your condition. He is not your parents and did not force you. If you get past this part, you might get to know this ... (read in full...)
The medication I'm taking is ruining our sex life!
Q. I had a really debilitating phobia for awhile and after only barely managing to get it under control with therapy, turned to medication. My medication is great, I feel SO much better now! My outlook on life has completely changed and it's just ...
A. 7 March 2013: ask your dr for options. might be other meds that allow sex drive. Could be meds that counter the sex drive part. ... (read in full...)
Being with a selfish man in bed makes me feel like an unpaid prostitute! Anyone else feel this way?
Q. I've been seeing this guy a few times, and I think he's nice. He took me out for dinner once and coffee a couple of times. After our coffee date yesterday, we made out a bit in his car before he dropped me home. I saw him again tonight and he did ...
A. 7 March 2013: If he is still intrested, you might have a convert. Lot of men have had women fake it and some just lay there waiting for him to finish. He could be a great guy who is ignorant to a womans feelings.
His desire to be with you could mean he want... (read in full...)
How do I end the relationship with a woman who has nothing?
Q. I have been with this girl for 14 years I use to love her but now it's gone. When I met her she was basically homeless living in a shelter. She has always been mentally unstable at times and I have found someone i think i love. How do i put her out ...
A. 7 March 2013: if she has mental problems, she needs help. She could get social service help including housing and money to eat. Get her signed up for the help and do not see her put on the st. Is wrong wrong wrong. To have and enjoy her for 14 years gives you ... (read in full...)
I am married but sexually frustrated. What can I do?
Q. I got married with 10 years age difference. Usually I get sex mood but he can't do no longer ..he leaves me a month for job .... Now in my mind I'm full of sex mood with another guy but I did not say to him.... What can i do plz help me....
A. 5 March 2013: when he gets home work out sexual frustrations. While he is gone, use fingers and or toys. But do something to release sexual desire.
Could you travel to him and enjoy sex every once in a while? ... (read in full...)
How can I stop the feeling of being in love with my teacher?
Q. Hi, I'm 16 and i'm in love with my teacher he's way older than me, married and have kids. but how can i stop this feeling? I know this is wrong but it feels so damn right.. Have u been in the situation i am right now? I love him cos he has every...
A. 5 March 2013: typical powerful man in your life. Just know its a feeling and not something you act out on. If he rejects you, will be embarrising. If he accepts you, he's a pervert.
Just take your time and work your frustration out on some guy you might like... (read in full...)
My 1st cousin once removed and I are in love. What can we do about this?
Q. Ok, here's the deal: I am in love with my first cousin once removed (my dad's nephew's son). We didn't meet until we were 13 and 14 and when we met we didn't know that we were related. He has two children and is planning a vasectomy in a f...
A. 5 March 2013: in some states, first cousins can marry and have children. ask your mom how she feels about it.
I had sex with my cousin many times. We loved each other but knew we could not be together. She married and would set up meetings for us. Just some... (read in full...)
My Boyfriend of seven years has asked another woman to join us on our Friday night outring. Do I have a right to be miffed? What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend of 7 years has asked a fellow dog walker to join us on out regular Fri night going out. I have chatted with her and had coffee and she knows we are girlfriend and boyfriend. So why did my Boyfriend ask her to come along for our regu...
A. 5 March 2013: why not ask him? could he be working up to a 3 way sexual weekend? Who knows, he does.
ASK him and let us know the answer. ... (read in full...)
Any home remedies for my skin irritation?
Q. Hi this is not relationship related,but I would love to here agony aunts remedy to my skin problem My skin has been very irritated lately,its become really dry and I have these red boils.and none of these market beaUty products help,my skin reacts b...
A. 5 March 2013: eat rasins for iron, use coconut oil for the dry skin. ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend won't have sex with me and now won't see me!
Q. I'm 26 plus n my girl friend is 22plus we 've dating getting to 4 years now,each time she pays me visit she refuse me to touch her breast,boob,kiss she prefer hug. The last time she visited me i tried all i could to get her to have sex wit me s...
A. 5 March 2013: I married a virgin and was not a virgin my self. It ended in total disaster when she had real sexual problems. I have a son and daughter, I hope both know how sex works before marriage. It sounds like she wants to be married first. Only problem is ... (read in full...)
Will love ever find me with the fear of being abused?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a single young woman raised three children on my own fell in deep depression after losing my first born daughter to natural causes I made it through by GOD's Grace. My second daughter has graduated and is now working. My son is ...
A. 5 March 2013: get your self out there and meet men. From bars to churches, there are single men of many ages who would enjoy you. ... (read in full...)
How do I impress a man who is 10 years older than I am?
Q. Dear cupid, I need some advice. I'm 21 years old, law student, and mature for my age, I've always been. Like a few years ago, a young litigator move into house next to mine and since then, I've got a huge crush on him. He works with my fathe...
A. 5 March 2013: my wife is almost 10 year younger than I. been with her 23 years and have 2 teen children. I would not have ask her out due ot age span. I did think she was hot looking, but did not want to look like a pervert. Her brother ask me ot take her out. ... (read in full...)
He cannot keep an erection, what do we do now?
Q. My husband is suffering from erectile dysfunction. He has been to many doctors, including a urologist, neurologist, , you name it. After many diagnostic tests, it seems that nothing physical can be found. He used to have full erections almost daily. ...
A. 5 March 2013: there are medical penis pumps and rings to help this. Simply pump it up slip the ring over and its hard til lyou take the ring off. Might give you the best you have ever had. Ask your dr for a RX for the tool.
NO pills no side effects and hard for ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my friend his wife is a pro?
Q. How do I deal with my friend, his wife offered to prostitute herself to me. She said for $200. I can do anything I want to her. Should I tell my friend what she said to me? I'd bet this isn't her first time she's prostituting herself. No I didn't ...
A. 5 March 2013: ask her why she said this. He might know already.
Ask him what he thinks of a wife selling her self to make extra money. Give your answer based on his answer to you. ... (read in full...)
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