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writes:Hi, I'm 16 and i'm in love with my teacher he's way older than me, married and have kids. but how can i stop this feeling? I know this is wrong but it feels so damn right.. Have u been in the situation i am right now?I love him cos he has everything that i am looking for a guy and he's absolutely genius. i love him because he makes me a better person, he makes me feel special, he makes me want for more cos he's absolutely hot, i got butterflies everytime i see him and i want to see him everyday.. I've tried to hide and keep distance from him but i just can`t help it.. i love him :( And we've been texting but not always and he told me he likes me..i dont know if twas true but i believe him though.. Help me, i respect him and his family but how can drop off this feelings? I love him and i know this isnt just a simple admiration..
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reader, hardnut  +, writes (5 March 2013):
typical powerful man in your life. Just know its a feeling and not something you act out on. If he rejects you, will be embarrising. If he accepts you, he's a pervert.
Just take your time and work your frustration out on some guy you might like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2013): I feel you should hold off any actions of that would result in you get any closer to him at this time. Wait until you've graduated, wait until you're done with school. If its true love for both of you, it'll still be there. If it's just infatuation, it'll cool and you'll find someone else. Either way, I wish you luck.
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reader, Cripes  +, writes (20 February 2013):
If this is true love, it will still be love when you're 18. Back away, wait until then. Chances are you won't feel the way you do now, but if you do, then is the time to act.
If you really loved someone, you wouldn't want them to be imprisoned and shamed as a pedophile - and he will be if you do anything to take this further.
Go home, watch Buffy, get on with your life. Take a cold shower. Go to a gig. Try and meet some nice young boy your own age, and revisit your mr. Humbert in two years time. If you still love him then, you have my blessing to chase this up.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 February 2013):
 You have a crush.... they are painful and powerful.
my only concern is that you are texting with your teacher.. that to me is inappropriate behavior and possibly could get him fired. It might here.
Step ONE... stop having inappropriate contact with him. NO MORE TEXTING....
I'm sure he likes you AS A STUDENT.
He goes home he kisses his wife and kids... and says "OH what a day I had, that little girl with a crush on me is doing such and such "
It's not love sweetie... it's a crush...
what you do is have no contact other than class and related school work...
you go out and spend time with your friends.... you keep busy...
I had a crush on my 11th grade English teacher... to the point that I still remember what he wrote in my yearbook... (in 1977!) and I looked him up the other day... I cried. He died in 2007 and I did not even know it. and at the time I had a crush on him I was 17 and he was 23.... NOT a huge difference....but he was MY TEACHER and as such they are not our friends... nor are they available to be our friends... they have a role that makes them responsible adults and therefore we are not seen as anything other than students to them (as it should be)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2013): Hi,
i gone through the same situation.....but the difference is you are 16 and i am 23....my lecturer age is 36,divorced with 1 kid....
not only me,he too had the same feeling and said as he loves me....
i too accepted that.but now he's cheating on me and says that he don't have that idea.
i truly showed my love, but he used me for granted....
it hurting me more, but he is fine now....
so my advice is if you want to continue loving your teacher, also get ready to getting hurted and lose your future.....!!!!!!!!
try to control your feelings....it is wise....
it's my experimental advice to you....
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