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My name is Hannah, I'm 15 years old and my birthday is on new years eve!Also I live in the united kingdom-England.
I love to help people, and most people think I'm too young to be giving such important advice as i give on here, but believe me i'm not.I love to help people, and i always think of others before myself.Which is why when i leave school i want to be a Psychologist.
I have had many problems in my life, self harm, smoking for stress relief and things like that.
Also i'm finding life hard at the moment as my parents are splitting up, I am finding it very difficult to cope with.
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Is it ok to date my Brothers ex?
Q. I would like some answers on dating my brothers ex girlfriend My brother and his ex girlfreind split up 21 years ago and he passed on 3.5 years ago. Is it ok to date her now?...
A. 18 January 2010: Yes I would say that this is fine. They broke up a long time ago. So I'm sure they both moved on. I think that your brother would want you too be happy and would want the best for you.
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Is he a friend or a bit more? I don't know what to do about him seen as I have a boyfriend!
Q. I have known my friend for nearly twelve years now but we never got close until secondary school, now he is always on my mind but i have a boyfriend and have been with him for two years and i do love him but its my friend we always talk we are so ...
A. 18 January 2010: ok hun, well this is down too you. Know one can tell you what to do it has to be your own decision although we here at Dear Cupid can help guide you in the right direction.
Ok so you say you love your boyfriend, and you have been with him for two ... (read in full...)
I'm a girl starting to notice girls??
Q. Ok so this is totally weird for me. I am straight, but recently I have started to notice girls too. I don't really like them that way, but I'm interested in their bodies more than guys. I don't think I'm bisexual, but I don't know if this is just a ...
A. 17 January 2010: ok hun,
well when every girl is your age they probably all secretly feel the same way. It is all part of growing up. You are so used too only noticing guys in "that" way that you are just merely curious about girls. Everyone and I mean everyone ques... (read in full...)
Can a lost tampon make me ill?
Q. On Tuesday my b/f and I had sex and there was a really bad odor. My b/f didn't say anything because he is too polite, but it was definitely coming from my vagina. So after he left I used a douche. Yesterday we had sex again and the smell came b...
A. 9 October 2009: Hey yes I think you should definitely get it checked out because it could turn out to be quite serious...Go and see your doctor or GP and see if they can check it out for you... Hope this helps xxx... (read in full...)
To kiss or not to kiss?
Q. UGH!!!!!! I hate this, I hate this, I hate this! I just started dateing this guy i really really like, lets just call him S, but he is a little bit of a geek and not as noticable but those are just the guys i always seem to like. The boyfriend i ...
A. 9 October 2009: Hey hunny, ok well everyone is different babe and it really depends when YOU as a person are ready, do not do anything that you don't want to do with any boy, never get pressured into anything, to me it sounds like your not ready because if you were ... (read in full...)
If you swallow sperm, can you get pregnant?
Q. Hi, my question is really embarrassing and I know a lot of people will feel awkward answering it... but I have always wandered but I am to embarrassed to ask any one else... Ok so I'll cut to the chase... basically if cum (sperm) gets on or in any o...
A. 17 December 2008: can i just say i am not planning to have sex at this age..believe me!!! It was just something i wandered...... (read in full...)
How do I stop being horny all the time?
Q. Ive been single for about 5 months, which has ment no sex, the problem is im horny all the time, its driving me crazy and its all im thinking about How do i stop thinking about it? and how do i stop being horny 24/7? Should i just go and have a on...
A. 2 September 2008: just masturbate, that should help
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I think he likes me but his actions sometimes confuse me!
Q. Well theres this guy and well basically i'm confused. We're mates and eveything but i like him and i mean i REALLY like him. ut anyway lately we haven't been talking much, we went back to school on the 1st and we barely spoke then but today [...
A. 2 September 2008: ok well i think he does like you very much (in that way) but he probably wants to know how u feel about him. I would get him on his own and tell him all the things that you've noticed him doing to you and ask HIM what it means because he's the only... (read in full...)
I want to start having sex with him, but I'm afraid of the idea because I'm a virgin and he's not!
Q. Guys, I need your help! I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months, I'm a virgin, he isn't. He is absolutely perfect and wonderful, a really nice person, caring and lovely and all of that, and before he asked me out we were pretty much best ...
A. 2 September 2008: Ok, well DON'T rush yorself what ever you do... You will honestly know if your ready and when your ready if there is honestly all this doubt then you are NOT ready! If he truly does love you then he won't compare you. To be honest i think if you w... (read in full...)
The guy who broke my heart came back into my life. Should I take him back?
Q. i went out with a guy last year and really fell for him..but he ended up hurting me real badly..i never forgot him.. and i still love him.. the thing is that he came back into my life again.. asking for a second chance and telling me that he has c...
A. 2 September 2008: I would give him that chance but as soon as you smell even the slightest hint of danger then get rid. But he might be tellinbg the truth he might of changed... x... (read in full...)
How can I tell him that I feel he is smothering me?
Q. Hi everyone, So been with this guy nearly 4 months now. We get on most of the time apart from when we argue and that is quite a lot. He is going on saying Im the one and wants to move in together, get married and have kids yet when we kiss I d...
A. 2 September 2008: You need to try harder then...... sit down in an environment where you both feel comfortable and safe, then tell him exactly what you've just told us here on dear cupid. Only you can do something about this. x... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sent his ex an email. What's the best way to handle this?
Q. My boyfriend has sent an ex-girl friend a email reading "remember me? thinking of you" now this is making my skin crawl!!!! How should it be handled? fuming red...
A. 2 September 2008: Well this does sound strange..... I think you should definitely confront your bf asking him whu he emailed her and what he meant by this email. x... (read in full...)
Why did my boyfriend tell me I was too young to get married?
Q. I don't know where this question will fit in. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now and everything seems to be going pretty good. He seems very happy, I'm very happy. I'm not expecting a marriage proposal anytime soon, he's looking ...
A. 2 September 2008: It just sounds to me like he's just saying in his own way not to expect a marriage proposal soon. But you weren't expecting it any way, so he was just making sure you new. Try not to worry to much x... (read in full...)
Am I too close to my cousin?
Q. okay this is really gonna be strange... me and my cousin have been having relations. he lives in mex, and we go visit almost every summer and christmas break.im 16 ,im about a couple months older,than him.well i know what were doing is very very wro...
A. 8 August 2008: ok well, it doesn't sound strange that you have feelings for him because to me it sounds like he has feelings for you aswell.
It isn't "wrong" to have a relationship with your cousin and after all no one can physically stop you two can they? And ... (read in full...)
How can someone forget how they feel??
Q. I have known this girl for over a year (we are in the same college and attend the same lectures) and we became the best of friends. But then she broke with her bf and she was completely broken down. I tried to help her out and we started spen...
A. 7 August 2008: No hun you can't forget how you feel about her because its a feeling and something trigers the feeling which means something will eventually triger it to go away again.
Just say to her "look we need to talk I didn't mean to upset you and you are ... (read in full...)
Am I too close to my cousin?
Q. okay this is really gonna be strange... me and my cousin have been having relations. he lives in mex, and we go visit almost every summer and christmas break.im 16 ,im about a couple months older,than him.well i know what were doing is very very wro...
A. 7 August 2008: It doesn't sound strange atall hun but what you need to let us know here on dear cupid is what sort of stuff you have done with him as you are very vague you say "oral stuff" well that all depends on your definition of it.
At the moment it just soun... (read in full...)
My period was last Tuesday but not due until the end of the month. Could I be pregnant?
Q. i was wondering is i missed like 6 birth control pills and i had unpretected sex but i got my period on tuesday but i usually get my period at the end of the month could i be pregant?...
A. 7 August 2008: Yes you could be pregnant but you also couldn't your period might of just come early.
I think its worth taking a pregnancy test. Just incase.
Good luck
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No butterflies when my latest boyfriend kisses me. What is wrong with me?
Q. I've only been dating my boyfriend for a month and a half and I don't feel butterflies. I really really like him though and think he may be the one, but I can't understand why I don't feel butterflies when we kiss or when he touches me! I get ...
A. 7 August 2008: Hun there is nothing wrong with you, you don't HAVE to get butterflies when a boy kisses you. You can get other feelings as well don't worry even if you don't get butterflies you say it feels right so the chances are with or without butterflies he's ... (read in full...)
He said he liked me and we kissed, then said he is attracted to my friend more. Now he calls often and comes to me with his problems. What's the deal?
Q. sit back and relax this is going to be a long story. there is this guy who i have liked since the first time i met him. the first time i met him was at a friend's birthday party and he was very sweet. He was the first guy ever to say this to me. ...
A. 7 August 2008: Ok hun well, it sounds to me as if this guy is very confused about who he likes and what he wants.
I think he does still like you because other wise he wouldn't of kissed you or said all of those nice things that made you feel special.
I just thi... (read in full...)
I feel I am losing his love
Q. am in a relationship of 1 month and 2 weeks with this guy i met in a bus while i was going to my home country,we exchanged numbers and he started calling me while i was away in my country.my phone got lost including the number for this guy was gone ...
A. 7 August 2008: Ok hun, u can't MAKE some one love you it has to be there own decision. Otherwise it'll never work.
However you can talk about it and ask him if he still feels the same about you as he used to because you feel that you are drifting appart.
That'... (read in full...)
I'm worried about what happens when I have sexual thoughts.
Q. When i think about things like, 'kissing' my crush and sexual thoughts and things like that, white gew comes out of my vagina. I am very worried about this and I havn't started my periods, am i abnormal? HELP ME! Jessica xxxxxxx...
A. 5 August 2008: Ah hun don't worry. It is perfectly normal. This liquid that comes out of your vagina is called discharge. It's juat your bodys way of telling you its working properly a bit like having your periods.
Its just when your body is feeling some sexu... (read in full...)
This guy is pressuring me to take my clothes off....what do I do??
Q. Ive been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks now and he keeps trying to pressure me into taking my clothes off. I keep saying no because Im not comfortable with that yet as its too soon. But I do like him. Anyway, today he said something to me ...
A. 3 August 2008: This guy is not worth it hun and he is obviously making your life very miserable and unhappy.
How old are you? because its worse the younger you are but this is pretty bad no matter what your age is!
I have been in a relationship like this and my e... (read in full...)
Should I sleep with him?
Q. Ok, so my problem is with my mate, who is a boy. We've known each other for around 18 months and we really do get on well. Recently we've been flirting, texting each other loads, now we've got on to discussing sex. He wants us sleep together even ...
A. 1 April 2008: thats ok hun private mail me 2 tell me how u get on
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Should I sleep with him?
Q. Ok, so my problem is with my mate, who is a boy. We've known each other for around 18 months and we really do get on well. Recently we've been flirting, texting each other loads, now we've got on to discussing sex. He wants us sleep together even ...
A. 31 March 2008: right honey NO you don't because of the age difference he is probably just interested in one thing and one thing only getting his grubby little hands all over your body.
Sorry to be so harsh but you need to be told hun.
Sex isn't about getting ... (read in full...)
I feel I'm his toy, when he doesn't find attention elsewhere?!
Q. Hey, aright so last month this boy really liked me and i liked him, but not as much he liked me. I hookedup with another boy and he gave me another chance, then i did it again with someone else and he fully ended it, he said he didn't want me in his ...
A. 20 March 2008: hiya hun
well its kind of hard to answer this questionas you haven't really explained what "hooked up" means.
But I'll give it my best shot.
ok well yes i think you should give him a taste of his own medicine and treat him the same as he's been tr... (read in full...)
What questions can I ask her to get to know her better?
Q. hey I need some advice I met this girl and i really like her a lot! I think this girl likes me, we were talking about a month ago she stopped replying to my qustions on bebo site, I have not spoken to her on msn as well not to sure why?? I'm ...
A. 20 March 2008: ok hun, well u could start wiv her previous love lifes (only if she doesnt feel awkward talking about them)because surely if you like her then you will want to know these things. Ask her that and the rest will follow
good luck
Hanz
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My long distance boyfriend wants me to go naked in front of my webcam..I feel awkward and like I'm doing something wrong!
Q. I am from a conservative family. yet i have opened up to my bf and have had sex with him many times. it is a long distance relationship. now i got a webcam and he wants me to go naked in front of it. although i trust him i feel awkward and i told ...
A. 19 March 2008: Well hun, it's up to you.
If you feel awkward as in you feel pressured then don't or you could do it and you never no you might feel ok afterwards.
take care
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I like this boy... but I don't want anyone to get hurt! Please help!
Q. I like this boy. The only trouble is, he has a girlfriend. Plus, his girlfriends is one of my good friends. She was talking to me just only last week, saying she has stronger feelings for someone else and might break up with him soon. I felt kin...
A. 19 March 2008: ok well hun, does your friend no how you feel about him?
Maybe you should tell her? After all if she is your true friend she'll understand your feelings for him.Also if you told he it might give her that extra push to split up with him.
Then ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but the only thing we do together is go to the movies with his friends...Any advice?
Q. me and my bf have been dating for 6 months and 8 days. i really do love he says he loves me too but im not sure if he really does because he always says he wants to hang out with me but then he always blows me off to go do something else. then he ...
A. 19 March 2008: hiya hun,
well it sounds like he isn't treating you right. If some one says the love you, it means nothing if they don't do anything that shows that there feelings for you are genuine.
Ok all I can really suggest is when you next talk to him on t... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me some idea of what might be going through his head?
Q. I went out with a pal about a year and half ago. We went out for about 4 months. But before we were really close friends. Even now, since the breakup, he tries to avoid me, (example, ill walk into a room and he'll then leave). can anyone give me ...
A. 19 March 2008: well hun i had this wiv 1 of my friends, we were best mates, u no the type where your always together and you do everything together, then we dated and when we split up it just wasn't the same any more.
All we needed to do was talk, we talked and ... (read in full...)
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