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*ecky1020
writes:am in a relationship of 1 month and 2 weeks with this guy i met in a bus while i was going to my home country,we exchanged numbers and he started calling me while i was away in my country.my phone got lost including the number for this guy was gone so communication was broken but i dont know how he traced me and we started communicating when i cam,e back to this country am in currently.he used to visit me everyday but eversince i slept with him he has changed he does come around my house and when i know he always says he loves me but i dont feel it anymore.i love him everymuch and i dont want to lose him but should i do to make him love me or maybe i should just let him go coz am dieing
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2008): If he says he loves you you just have to accept that. If you think your being messed around or unhappy in this relationship then you have to talk to him about it.
Remember you can't force people to like you. And you can't force feelings upon yourself.
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reader, hanz1993  +, writes (7 August 2008):
 Ok hun, u can't MAKE some one love you it has to be there own decision. Otherwise it'll never work.
However you can talk about it and ask him if he still feels the same about you as he used to because you feel that you are drifting appart.
That's all you can do at this moment in time really hun.
So good luck and keep me posted.
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