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anonymous
writes:Hey, aright so last month this boy really liked me and i liked him, but not as much he liked me. I hookedup with another boy and he gave me another chance, then i did it again with someone else and he fully ended it, he said he didn't want me in his life or anything. I guess i wanted him so much more after that because i couldn't have him. He finally got over it like 4 weeks after and we started talking again as freinds. During this time he was "together" with this girl. He ended up coming over friday with his freinds and i hookedup with him again! i would have never thought that would happen. We told eachother we werent going to tell anyone. HE goes to the girls house after me and hooks up with her. the next day they got in a fight and he told her he hookedup with me. She ended it with him , but still likes him but knows she can't trust him. Now here's my question i don't know what do. I feel like i'm his toy when he doesn't get attention he comes to me. Yesterday we did not talk at all he did not text me or anything. and i really think i have to get over him because it's killing me and i'm getting so hurt. I like him so much more now and i don't think he likes me at all. - do u think i should not text or do anything first and see if he comes to me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): Hi Hun sent u a pm take it slow and see how things go if he asks you, Enjoy yourself but just be you and dont expect anything from him..If he is interested he will show you hunny (good job on the txting though) TAKE CARE LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey guys, so just a little update.
I was away on vacation and did not text him for 5 days straight!. when i got home he IMed me (aim) and say yo long time no talk.
he is so confusing! im slowly trying to get over him and just go along with it. but i will always have feelings for him. I have to repsect my self though.
when he asks me to chill this weekend, if he does, should i say yes or no?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): Hows things going apart from all the kissing sweetpea :} LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhah sorry! by hooking up i mean KISSING.
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reader, Skeez  +, writes (20 March 2008):
 You should deffinetly move on with your life. You know it upsets you and its boaring a deep whole inside of you and its getting you more and more sad. Sometimes, the people who dont like you are the ones you try most to get attention from. Its a vicious cycle that will keep on eating at you and you need to stop it. Dont let him have his cake and eat it. Your independant and even though you like him now, you certainly wont in a few months once you have got over him. You will probably be very thankful that you got away from his mind games and can start settling down with someone if the situation turns up.
Hes your toy, his safety net when other relationships dont go right and you should never let one guy ruin your life.
ditch this loser and start having some respect for yourself. Stop all contact, if he comes to you and acts all lovey dovey, just remember, something went wrong with another girl and hes just using you, so walk away.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (20 March 2008):
 Wow, so much 'hooking up' going on it sounds like a fishing competition.
Not to mention, the problem with the term 'hooking up' is that it means everything and nothing at the same time. I'm guessing you mean kissing, right?
Anyway, this guy clearly doesn't respect you. Because of that you should stay away from him. Don't spend time with him, and whatever you do, don't 'hook up' with him again. He doesn't deserve it, and you're only going to get hurt and upset even more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): Hi Hunny
NO!!!!Dont text there has been to much 2ing and frowing here between different boys and different girls, I really think hunny you need to let everything calm down....Everyones hooking up with everyone and Im glad Im not that age again hunny :} It is sooooooooooooooooo confussing...Just let it calm down for abit and see what happens ok give yourself time to breath, Trust me I no Im old ok well not old but older ok :} YOU TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, hanz1993 +, writes (20 March 2008):
 hiya hun
well its kind of hard to answer this questionas you haven't really explained what "hooked up" means.
But I'll give it my best shot.
ok well yes i think you should give him a taste of his own medicine and treat him the same as he's been treating you. Then he'll realise how mu ch he needs you and wants you and he's bound to come back.
good luck
Hanz
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