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| | *annahgolightly's profile:I have made thousands of mistakes in my life, particularly in relationships, but I have LEARNED from them. I am wiser for having had these difficult experiences. I have enough imagination to come up with new mistakes to make! This is why I am a wealth of knowledge and experience, which I'd like to share with others to prevent them from suffering as much pain as I have in the past. My friends come to me for advice, telling me that I always help them to see things from a fresh angle and that I give constructive advice and rather than judging the rights and wrongs of a situation, I see clearly to the heart of what is going on and am therefore able to make suggestions about how to fix things and move forward. I have a very caring nature and love to help other people. I currently live in North Wales, UK, but I like to travel and spend time living in other countries. I am currently single as I have raised my standards when it comes to the men I chose to date... it took me a long time to work that one out ;-) |
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Help! How can I make things better?
Q. My fiance and I are extremely happy together and his family is really happy for us, and I get along great with them all except for his father. I am a full time college student and my fiance and I live an hour and a half apart. I see him only on ...
A. 9 November 2009: Hello, sorry to hear about that... I suggest a guy called FatherlyAdvice on here. I have mentioned you to him. I think he'd be the man for the job. Good Luck. Hope things get better soon.... (read in full...)
Ever since I became happy with myself, I seem to repel men!
Q. I am a 27 year old editor and I have the worst luck with dating out of anyone I know. This year, I have been on dates with seven men, every one of whom has not felt compelled to continue seeing me, almost always after three dates. ...
A. 3 November 2009: Hello,
this is a difficult question to answer with so few details about what happened on your dates. I can only offer potential reasons so that you can explore and experiment until you get to the bottom of what's happening yourself.
1. Your... (read in full...)
Ever since I became happy with myself, I seem to repel men!
Q. I am a 27 year old editor and I have the worst luck with dating out of anyone I know. This year, I have been on dates with seven men, every one of whom has not felt compelled to continue seeing me, almost always after three dates. ...
A. 3 November 2009: Hello, this is a difficult question to answer with so few details about what happened on your dates. I can only offer potential reasons so that you can explore and experiment until you get to the bottom of what's happening yourself. 1. ... (read in full...)
We have just become 2 people sharing a house not a home.
Q. As I can tell by many of the responses to my early question about private email, does my wife have the right to view my email. Let me go a step further and explain and ask my question in a a clearer and more understanding way. My spouse had an ...
A. 31 October 2009: Hello, no doubt your wife will have another post up here after reading this, explaining even more details of the situation that contradicts what you have just written. You two could probably keep this contest up for the same amount of time a... (read in full...)
On the second date would you rather be asked before he kissed you, or just kissed?
Q. Hi, this question's to the ladies. Imagine you were out on your second date and the guy wanted to kiss u. Would u prefer it if he looked into your eyes and asked "would u mind if i kissed u?" and kissed u only if u said 'yes' or would u prefer it if ...
A. 31 October 2009: Hello,
I prefer not to be asked with words. Questions like that should be asked with the eyes! I like it when the guy looks deep into my eyes and then glances at my lips and back into my eyes... I prefer it when a guy comes very close so you know... (read in full...)
Am I unreasonable to ask to see his email.
Q. My spouse has in the recent past had an affair. He hides his income He tells me that it is none of my business. i have no access to, or knowledge of his income. He tells me that it is not my business who he knows or what he does, and that i just ...
A. 31 October 2009: Hello,
I understand how you are feeling. You and your husband clearly have issues that need to be addressed. Having said that, your husband has the right to his privacy. If you did have access to his email account, what would that solve anyway? ... (read in full...)
Should privacy still be allowed even although you're married?
Q. My spouse and I are at odd ends! I want to know if it is wrong of me to not give my spouse my email password. I have been told time and again that when you are married your not allowed to have personal email's or anything that is not disclosed. My ...
A. 31 October 2009: Hello,
your wife's request is outragious! Marriage is about sharing your LIVES with eachother, not sharing a LIFE. You are both two seperate people and that is vital in any relationship if it is to survive and thrive. A little mystery on either s... (read in full...)
Help! How can I make things better?
Q. My fiance and I are extremely happy together and his family is really happy for us, and I get along great with them all except for his father. I am a full time college student and my fiance and I live an hour and a half apart. I see him only on ...
A. 31 October 2009: Hello,
Wow! Your fiance's Dad sound tricky! He clearly has issues that are nothing to do with you, so well done for recognising that you are being blamed unfairly.
I think you need to speak to your fiance about this. He has a responsibility... (read in full...)
Is this why he's suddenly given up on things?
Q. Hi, I'm an 19 year old girl and I've been seeing my new fella (he's 21) for about 6 weeks. He's amazing :) However. The sex started off great - loving, sexy, respectful, lots of foreplay. Now he is still loving and sexy and respectful, but he ...
A. 31 October 2009: Hello,
I can understand your confusion, but I can see what's happened with your man. Ok a quick lesson in Men: Men like to feel CAPABLE and TRUSTED... when I say trusted in this context I mean, they like to feel like we trust them to be able to ... (read in full...)
Involved with married man. Where do I go from here?
Q. hello, i'am 22 years old and i am breaking over this situation. 3 years ago i got involved with a married man 14 years older than me @ one of my previous jobs. everything just started, we both knew it was not right. I kept on because i liked him and ...
A. 31 October 2009: Hello,
first of all, well done for sorting your life out after the affair, that must have taken strength and effort.
I believe you are attracted to the married man, partly because of what he represents to you: the ability to have a grown up,... (read in full...)
Should I compromise and give him a call or ignore him forever?
Q. I've been sort of seeing this man for the past 5 or so months...we never slept together but the chemistry was so there-it was on a mental level maybe the most intense relationship I've ever had. Part of the reason is he's 15 years older than me ...
A. 31 October 2009: Hello,
I know EXACTLY how you are feeling as something similar is happening with me at the moment. It sounds to me as if your man is aware that the chance of a 'real' relationship with you had gone when you moved away. He sounds like he is weani... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of running him off by requesting things for myself!
Q. Dear cupid, I recently being three months ago started dating a guy 9 years younger than me I am 29 he is 20. I lost my father on fathers day and then my husband left me 2 weeks after his passing. I was freinds with the guy I am dating now for a...
A. 30 October 2009: Hello,
I understand how you are feeling. You could probably do with more support from the man in your life than you are getting.
I am all for relationships that bridge large age gaps, BUT only when these relationships are making the peopl... (read in full...)
Advice on having sex with an older man?
Q. i always enjoyed hav sex but now am married with really old guy an we dont have sex for a year now and i also dont want to cheat on him,we love each other very much,we enjoy each others company but i really want to have sex any advice...
A. 30 October 2009: Hello,
in my experience the ingredients necessary in a healthy hot sexual relationship are these: Attraction, Communication, Trust and Love. I suggest it might be the attraction that is waining here, since you seem close and happy in every ot... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is embarrassed to be dating me because of my age!
Q. Im a 14 year old and i´m currently dating a 19 year old, but he wont tell anyone because he´s embarrassed of dating some one so young. Do you think the age difference is a problem ? ...
A. 30 October 2009: Hello,
I am glad that you are mature enough to question your situation with your boyfriend. At 14 you are quite likely to be rather grown up in a lot of senses. Unfortunately, your boyfriend is likely to be breaking the law by going out with you... (read in full...)
I enjoy his company but the passion is gone!
Q. Im a 49 year old divorcee. I've been going out with this man 18 years my senior for 4 years right after my divorce. I enjoy his company as he fills the empty place in my heart. Four years on, the passion has gone I feel like he is my dad more than ...
A. 30 October 2009: Hello,
first of all, most relationships go through high and low points of sexual attraction. That's the secret really- sex begins long before you enter the bedroom. If it is no longer there, then it is important to work out what has changed ... (read in full...)
Should I go the whole way?
Q. Me and my current bf have been going out now for about six months and are thinking about going the whole way, and having sex. He asked me to do it about two months in and I said no but now it's been playing on my mind and I feel like I really am not ...
A. 30 October 2009: Hello. First of all, well done for questioning his request and giving it some serious thought. Going all the way is a very big decision. Although you are part of a couple and need to consider your partner in decisions that affect him, this decision ... (read in full...)
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