He says I'm being silly, but am I?
Q. I dont know my man anymore... Last night he really embarressed me infront of friends. we went to our friends and i cooked dinner. while at table my friend got up and asked if my man wanted a drink, he was talking and talkin to the guy ne...
A. 28 November 2008: Here's the way that I see it:
In his thinking you're blowing this situation out of proportion. He doesn't realize that when you're rehashing and discussing with him the details about what happened, you're simply trying to help him understa... (read in full...)
Is my husband making a fool of me?
Q. Hi i'm maried 31 years, we met 2 women in out local a few years ago and became friends as I thought. It seems now that my husband has been texting one of them for a while (shes a widow) and last month I caught him in her house, he said they are only ...
A. 28 November 2008: He's cheating on you with her. Hold him accountable and then ditch her because she's not your friend. Don't be a door mat and don't be anybody's fool. ... (read in full...)
I like my boss, I think he feels the same, but we both have partners and he has kids!
Q. What do I do, the chemistry is there, the eye contact is there, we still blush even though we've been working together 3 months now. I think about him almost everyday and when he goes home on a friday im the last person he says goodbye to and he ...
A. 28 November 2008: One worker bee said to the other: "Never get your honey from where you make your money."
Don't do it....walk away.
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How can I convince people that my 25 year old boyfriend is not wrong for me? I'm only 14
Q. ok this is hard...im a 14 year old girl...and i have a 25 year old boyfriend...i know he loves me very much...we have promised eachother that we will wait for sex till im 18..and till then we act like normal people...except till we talk on the ...
A. 28 November 2008: By the time that you're 18, he'll be almost 30. Do you really believe that a 25 year old man is going to wait 4 years to have sex? Do you know any normal, healthy 25 year old guy who can wait that long to have sex? Be honest.
I don't want to ... (read in full...)
I am thinking about suggesting to her about maybe involving other men so she gets satisfied but how do I go about this.
Q. Let me start by saying I love my wife so much but we have a little problem. We have had 3 great children and as things happen my wife is larger down below. I only have a small penis just under 5 inches, now we know that is not enough in that d...
A. 28 November 2008: Ah ha...I didn't realize that she'd raised the size issue. Well, for me personally, I wouldn't put this type of burden on my husband because his size isn't something that he has any control over. Since you've already brought into the relationship ... (read in full...)
Why can't I stop eating?
Q. hey, I'm female and 5" 4. I recently had a still birth. After the loss of Dillian I weighed 14.6 stone (202 lbs). In the last month I've lost 3.7 stone and now weigh 10.9 stone (149 lbs). I've often made myself purge after eating and do a lot of ...
A. 28 November 2008: Your boyfriend is right, you have an eating disorder...likely bulimia. Just as alcoholics medicate themselves with alcohol, you're doing the same with food. The behavior is associated with deep feelings of insecurity and abandonment coupled by ... (read in full...)
I like this guy but I'm really shy... how do I tell him how I feel?
Q. I just need a few tips on how to go about this. There's this guy at my college who I like quite a lot, he's in one of my classes, and I've liked him for a few months now. we don't really talk or anything, we just sometimes say hi to each other like ...
A. 28 November 2008: One, it's too early for feelings. You don't know much about this guy except that he's in your class and you speak every now and then. You shouldn't tell him that you have feelings for him because you don't know him well enough to do that. If ... (read in full...)
Why do girls act this way????
Q. okej hello all, I came just to ask about some activity that girls do and I want to understand why and what is it for. Well when you ignore a girl she will smile and look too much and sometimes come after you but when you give her just little a ...
A. 28 November 2008: It depends on the girl. Some girls are flirty and not serious so get shy when guys reciprocate. Others are flirty but aren't great communicators. I'd suggest that you simply consider flirting as a mindless ritual and not read too much into it. ... (read in full...)
Could a large penis have done this to me?
Q. I recently started talking to one of my ex boyfriends from when I was younger. Having sex with him always hurt a little, because his penis is very large. It had been a long time since I had sex, I would say about a year, and we had sex yesterday. It ...
A. 28 November 2008: The female vagina is only about 6 inches deep so anything that penetrates beyond that is forcing the vagina walls to expand. The guy probably had no idea that you were uncomfortable and often men with large penises who aren't as experienced are ... (read in full...)
Is this relationship over?
Q. I am 25 and have been with my gf for 5 years now, we are engaged and I feel as though our spark has gone. I love her more then anything else in the world and she is "in Love" with me. I don't think I'm in love with her any more, I take her for ...
A. 27 November 2008: It sounds as if you and your girlfriend are actually just good friends. To be only 25 and have no sexual agency in a relationship is a sign of a bigger problem. Please don't get married now because if you're already taking her for granted, then it ... (read in full...)
I am thinking about suggesting to her about maybe involving other men so she gets satisfied but how do I go about this.
Q. Let me start by saying I love my wife so much but we have a little problem. We have had 3 great children and as things happen my wife is larger down below. I only have a small penis just under 5 inches, now we know that is not enough in that d...
A. 27 November 2008: Don't invite anyone into your bedroom because, believe it or not, she will not respect you as a man afterward. All women want subconsciously want to know that they have a man who will take on the world to keep other men away from them. Women want ... (read in full...)
We're just sex buddies...even though we broke up 2 months ago! Any advice?
Q. Hiya everyone, i now this is sounding stupid and desperate but, me and my ex broke 2 months ago for the past month we've been having sex as in f**k buddies, the thing is we both we not getting any and he hardly has any money and so he puts it ...
A. 27 November 2008: Advice: Use the money that you're wasting on him to pay for therapy. He's not interested in you and is only using you for the money. I don't know a man on earth whose sex is so great that I'd pay him for it! You're having difficulty letting go ... (read in full...)
He's not well endowed enough for me so he wants a divorce....
Q. I'm 31, and married with a 5-year-old son and a 1-year-old daughter. I've been married for 4 years now. Last week my husband told me he wanted a divorce. I was shocked when I heard it. I asked him why, and he said "I'm not well-endowed eno...
A. 27 November 2008: He's using the endowed issue to cover up what's really going on. You need to tell him that you'll give him a divorce but only on the condition that he tell you what's really going on. Believe it or not, since he mentioned his sexual organ as the ... (read in full...)
I love a married man! I don't expect him to leave his wife, but I suffer so much when not being with him, what can I do??
Q. hello, i dont want any hurtful or rude comments, iam writing to everyone here because i think this is a site for evryone to write about their problems and feeling's. Well, iam seeing a married man. i have ben seeing him for 2 1/2 years now. i got ...
A. 27 November 2008: Do the following experiment: The next time that you're with your married man, tell him that you met a wonderful guy that you're also sleeping with. However, reassure the married guy that you still want to be with him and want to maintain the ... (read in full...)
How to heal a father/daughter relationship after his affair?
Q. My husband had a affair a year ago and it has been a long year.My 13 year old daughter is having a hard time, she started pulling her hair out we put her in counselling . This has helped a bit but every time she pulls her hair her dad gets on her ...
A. 27 November 2008: First of all, your husband needs to talk to your daughter about the affair. He needs to tell her why it happened AND he needs to apologize to her for causing her so much pain. She's traumatized by the ordeal because he not only betrayed you, he ... (read in full...)
Why can't he work harder to get my parents' approval?
Q. I am a very ambitious 21 year old girl from India. My parents are both doctors and have always been high achievers. My relationship with my boyfriend started when I was just 16 and this is our 5th year now, he was my class fellow. My family is one ...
A. 27 November 2008: I would get rid of this guy because, as much as you love him, no man with a low work ethic is worthy of marriage. From what you say, this guy is lazy and unmotivated. Although he's in college, he's not actually prepared nor interested in marriage ... (read in full...)
Will a woman go after the "working" man who's best for her - even if he's off-limits?
Q. Good evening! I've a silly question really. I'd like to know from the lovely ladies out there who frequent this web-site whether you can genuinely be selective about who you decide to date in a working environment. In other words, if a guy was 'off ...
A. 27 November 2008: If he's married, no matter what he looks like or how attractive he is, he's off limits. Some women will go for any type of man--married or single--but, for the most part, the general rule is that women don't want to be "the other woman." Most know ... (read in full...)
Is this intimacy?
Q. Is this intimacy....? I went out with this guy who ive been seeing, and we got pizza and was eating it in the back of this car, I was leaning on him, he was sitting behind me and my back was leaning on his chest and his arms were around my waist ma...
A. 27 November 2008: If you're getting mixed signals, then you need to check in with him to see what's up. That is, he may be interested in pursuing you sexually while you may be misinterpreting the physical contact as indication of something more developing. Men and ... (read in full...)
I don't think I love my husband anymore! Help!
Q. Hi I feel sick and utterly alone not being able to talk to anyone about my marriage. There is nobody I feel I can be absolutely honest with and the one person I should do my husband I don't want to hurt. We have been married 9 years and have 4...
A. 27 November 2008: First, I detect in you a great deal of anger and resentment. More specifically, the underbelly of what you're sharing is that you may be feeling that you that your husband abandoned you for a job that he loves and is happier being away from the ... (read in full...)
My mother criticizes me all the time, it is affecting my self confidence and worse, what do I do, to get her to stop?
Q. My mum is very very controlling and I dont know how to get her to stop being like this.. I am almost 20 and I have to be home at half past 10 every night!! She goes in the huff if I stay at my boyfriends, She shouts at me if I dont eat the lun...
A. 27 November 2008: Your mom was likely criticized by her own mother so she's simply passing on the the cycle of abuse to you. As your mom has a low sense of self worth (caused by her own abuse mother), the cycle was naturally passed on to you. To stop it, you need ... (read in full...)
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