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writes:okej hello all,I came just to ask about some activity that girls do and I want to understand why and what is it for.Well when you ignore a girl she will smile and look too much and sometimes come after you but when you give her just little a re-smile or a back smile with her and you talk she will begin to ignore and don't make eye contact with you and the same again and againSo what is this called? and what for? and why? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): I have seen Guys behave this way.Most of the girls give in when the guy they like shows interest in them.
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reader, babyminow  +, writes (28 November 2008):
 from a girls point of view this is a good thing, it means that she likes ya. lol we are very complex humans, and we like it like that:) good luck
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reader, Tigerlily +, writes (28 November 2008):
I think it's a good sign. She would NOT be looking, or smiling, if she didn't like you a little. The ignoring you part when you pay attention is her trying to hide her interest. She is waiting for you to make the move. I assume based on your age that you are smiling at girls you age, who are young and perhaps have not yet built up the confidence to hold your smile or your gaze.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (28 November 2008):
 For the most part, I agree with the previous female posts (below), but let me simplify. Whenever you catch a girl looking or smiling, you may have a chance, but you must take the initiative. Be bold and approach them - say something about most anything, and do it again the next day or so. Make friends with her. You have absolutely nothing to lose. Even if she shoots you down, there is always another girl. Make a game out of it, because that is what they do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): heyok I'm a girl 19 so I'll tell you my opinion, some might disagree. If I smile at a guy and if he smiles back another time or something I won't smile to make him eager haha or just not in the mood, looks like the girls you've been smiling at are having the same effect on you. Not trying to be bitches, relax, sometimes I get fed up of smiling and wish someone would show some man and talk :)
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reader, Gypsii +, writes (28 November 2008):
It depends on the girl. Some girls are flirty and not serious so get shy when guys reciprocate. Others are flirty but aren't great communicators. I'd suggest that you simply consider flirting as a mindless ritual and not read too much into it. The girls that you want to take seriously are the ones who are mature enough to actually hold a conversation.Flirting is nothing more than a mating ritual and many girls have in their head that their entire purpose in life is to attract boys. They also have stereotypes about males that they operate around such as "all men are sex crazed animals" or "guys will do anything for sex", etc... Thus, some flirt to see how many guys they can attract. If you want the upper hand, look for the girls who seem sincere, confident, and mature. It's difficult to find this type of girl but she's out there.
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