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I'm a sensitive 30-something woman from the United States who has lived A LOT in my lifetime. I guess you could say that I am, and have always been, a risk-taker. Sometimes that has allowed me to experience the most exceptional aspects of love, sex, desire, friendship, passion, and freedom. Sometimes, on the other hand, it has led me to make some large mistakes. On the whole, however, I regret none of it. I think I have gained wisdom from all the experiences. I guess it is for this reason that I can, hopefully, offer some advice. |
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4 May 2007: Love, arguably the most widely discussed and pondered subject in all the world, seems to be the greatest mystery to us as humans. Love makes us feel alive. It makes us feel whole inside. It gives us purpose. It fuels our hopes and dreams. It ...
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She seems to want to copy me all the time and it's really starting to get on my nerves!
Q. Hi all...I need some help coz I've been getting annoyed with this friend of mine. She and I go to the same university. Recently, she started buying the same perfumes that I had, so I stopped wearing mine because I didn't want us to smell the same. ...
A. 25 March 2007: Ever heard the saying, "Imitation is the most sincere form of flattery..?" I think that this is a very true observation. While I certainly understand that you find it annoying for this friend to keep adapting aspects of your look for herself, I do ... (read in full...)
I used to think I was straight but now I'm thinking... could I be bi-sexual?
Q. I used to think I was straight all my life but I am not sure any more. I wonder what it would be like to french kiss a women and have sex with her. I know that I like men for sure but could I be bi? ...
A. 25 March 2007: Having healthy curiosity about kissing other girls is very normal at your age. Don't criticize yourself for it, and don't worry about it. One day, you will meet someone who makes you see sky rockets, and whether it's a girl or a boy, you will find ... (read in full...)
What is the first step for me to stop being emotionally abusive and controlling towards her?
Q. Hello. First off let me share my background. I'm a 21 year old guy, in a relationship with my 20 year old girlfriend. Although the relationship has only lasted 3 months this far, we've known each other for over two years, being best friends and e...
A. 25 March 2007: You sound like a very sweet and honest person. Your candor regarding your relationship and your shortcomings is to be congratulated. The first step in healing this relationship is by admitting your mistakes, and you have already done that, so we... (read in full...)
I am a woman with female partner. She is a wonderful person but I'm just not interested in her sexually any more.
Q. I am a woman and have a female partner. On paper she is perfect for me and for the first 6 months I really fancied her. After that the attraction for me has whittled away. It's been two years now and I'm finding it increasingly difficult to be intim...
A. 23 March 2007: I empathize with you very much. I've had several long-term relationships, but it seems that the passion fades away after a period of time. I often think it's the familiarity of them and the fact that the "mystery" disappears and, then, so does the ... (read in full...)
I've gone off sex and its killing my marriage can you help?
Q. I've gone off sex and its killing my marriage can you help?...
A. 6 March 2007: If I knew a bit more, I might be able to make suggestions. For instance, how long have you been married? Are you still in love with and attracted to your mate? Is he still into you?... (read in full...)
Is this normal behaviour for a girl??
Q. So i've been dating this girl for four months. Everything is great and i think i'm falling in love with her. It's very complicated because she was dating my friend before we ended up getting together, and we also work together. So i kinda jumped ...
A. 4 March 2007: Dear Loving Boyfriend, I think everyone feels a bit insecure with their romantic partners at times. C'est normal. And, I guess that how you react to your gf's friendliness with other guys depends on your level of self-confidence. How you *interpr... (read in full...)
I'm a lesbian and love my GF but can't stop thinking about an old female friend...
Q. Before i meet my gf of 8 years i was really close to a female friend. Looking back (perhaps through rose tinted glasses) i can remember times when things got a little heated, such as the time she came out the shower with nothing on, knowing full ...
A. 2 March 2007: Ah, me. Yes. I understand how you feel. It's so hard to stop thinking about those instances in the past when friendship spills over into the arena of sensuality. As a fellow lesbian, I have had many such episodes myself. In fact, I recently had an ... (read in full...)
I would absolutely love to have a 3-some but how do I approach the wife about it?
Q. so...i kinda wanna have a threesome but how do i ask my wife if she wants to get involved? this could be a touchy area. i think it would be so hot to be with two girls but yeah asking the wife.......
A. 2 March 2007: Let me tell you a little story. Once upon a time, there was a married woman with three kids who decided with her husband that they should have a threesome with another woman. The married woman finds a gorgeous, single lesbian online and the two ... (read in full...)
We flirt.. but how can I let my female cousin know I'm interested in her - and is she interested in me?
Q. I am a 25 year old male living with my very attractive 30 year old female cousin who I am very attracted to. We have much in common. She often brags about how sexy or alike we are but I am not sure if her intrest is sexual. Whats the best way to ...
A. 2 March 2007: I think we all have fantasies about the "forbidden" fruit, and I see nothing wrong with that. However, pursuing your cousin, a woman who it sounds like you have a close friendship with, is probably not the best idea. There are lots of ways to ... (read in full...)
How do I stop thinking of this sex dream I had about this couple we know?
Q. I am married and we have hang out with this married couple that we love dearly. We are very close and get along great. Last night I dreamt that my bestfriend was in her bed and I was wearing a see-through thin silver satin nightgown and sh...
A. 1 March 2007: I once received some very wise advice from a friend of mine. I was telling her about my fantasies (at the time, I was in a committed relationship and was fantasizing about being with someone else). I told my friend, Bianca, that I felt guilty just ... (read in full...)
Planning on doing "it" tonight... but should I trim first?
Q. Im 14 and planning on having sex at a house party. It is my first time and I was just wondering if anyone knows if teenage boys prefer shaved or natural hairs? Please reply asap as the house party is tonight and I would like to know. so i can ...
A. 1 March 2007: Mon Dieu! Ma petite fille, you are so young! I'm sure you don't want to be lectured, so I won't do that. But, darling, take it from a woman somewhat more experienced in these matters, don't worry about trimming or anything else. In fact, don't worry ... (read in full...)
I Absolutely Adore Older Women
Q. Hi, this is going to be very short, I am so attacted to mature womens, (aged 45-55), I am only 37, is this normal? should I be worry? I am not saying I don't like the younger age, but they just don't do it for me the same. please advice Thank...
A. 28 February 2007: I think it's wonderful that you like older women. Women are like fine wine, they only improve with age. I mean, look at Monica Bellucci?! She's 42. And, Helen Mirren! She's 60 something, and she's seriously sexy. I say, you only live once. Enjoy ... (read in full...)
I can't get my beautiful therapist out of my mind, now that my therapy has ended. What can I do?
Q. I am a very feminine, attractive, educated lesbian. I have never had any trouble meeting other women for relationships, but I recently had some emotional issues that needed sorting out, so I sought the help of a therapist. Ah me, that is where th...
A. 27 February 2007: You make several very, very good points, and you have given me a lot to think about. I agree with you that she transgressed some boundaries with me in therapy, and I suppose that my concerns have been keeping me from contacting her because I don't ... (read in full...)
I can't get my beautiful therapist out of my mind, now that my therapy has ended. What can I do?
Q. I am a very feminine, attractive, educated lesbian. I have never had any trouble meeting other women for relationships, but I recently had some emotional issues that needed sorting out, so I sought the help of a therapist. Ah me, that is where th...
A. 26 February 2007: Thanks so much for your reply. I will consider ringing her and perhaps getting together for a quick drink if she is amenable to that idea. It would be wonderful if that happened. But, I don't want to push her professional boundaries in any way or ... (read in full...)
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