I asked if he considered me to be his girlfriend, and that's when the trouble started.
Q. I've been dating a guy for a month and a half that I really like. We have a lot in common, we see each other about twice a week, and we talk almost every day. We had never discussed the relationship status, until yesterday. I asked if he ...
A. 13 March 2007: Wow, I know that must've hurt, I'm sorry...you know it's only been 6 weeks, give it some time. I would suggest *Don't give up yet, and don't rush him* into acknowledging your status. Also are you in a sexual relationship? If you are, I strongly ... (read in full...)
Contraceptive advice - side effects?
Q. Hi. I have a question about birth control. I just started Yasmin about 3 weeks ago and i have this tingling sensation in my right foot and sometimes it's like an itching feeling in my lower calf muscles. I've been on Junel and experienced "charlie ...
A. 18 December 2006: You should be taking vitamins. PreNatal vegetarian vitamins work best for me ---look to see what works for you; I'm on Yasmin, and have experienced only on the first week ever, (6 months ago) of starting Yasmin, incredibly bad leg cramps, one night ... (read in full...)
She has given me unconditional love but there are parts about her I just don't like...
Q. If I have someone's unconditional love, should I be "blinded" by feelings ? To get a bit more into details, I'm in a relationship with a woman that trully loves me for who I am and I know she would just do anything for me. I do love her too,...
A. 4 December 2006: in a relationship, there is always the one that person that loves more than the other. if you've talked about how things are going and she's ok with how you feel, than continue the relationship--until you or she is ready to make a change, (ie, you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hates it when I'm "on"... Should I let him sleep with other girls? Is there a "third way"?
Q. I'm having some problems with my boyfriend. He's a great guy but, lately, he's been annoying me a bit. I'm 20 and he's 27. We have a good sex life but he moans when I'm on my period. I am usually on for about a week and he moans that we can't have ...
A. 30 November 2006: I think it's stupid to even consider letting him sleep with other women while you are on your period. Obviously He's not that into you, and you are just now figuring this out. Dump him and move on. ... (read in full...)
My long distance boyfriend has got a lot of new friends and is having fun... How do I deal with this and stop being needy?
Q. Please, please somebody help me - it would be great to get a psychologists view on this, I know there are some of you out there!! I have been having a two year long distance relationship where we see each other every two weeks or so. Recently, he...
A. 13 November 2006: I agree with eddie and you should also make an effort to expand your circle of friends. go out with other people; make new friends. sitting around and moping because your BF is out having a good time with his mates is no excuse for you to sit and ... (read in full...)
LAdies, why does this girl walk in and out of my life and hurt me all the time?
Q. ladies please help i need your advice. Well here it goes I was with my ex for about a year when she broke up with me. It hurt more then anything in the world because i loved her. After about 2 months of no contact she called me out of the blue one ...
A. 13 November 2006: Ok, first of all, you need to get this girl out of your system. avoid her, ignore her phonecalls, when you see her on the street, smile politely and walk on by, then turn around and flip her off. she's a user, she's a player, and she's jerking you ... (read in full...)
My relationship is on the rocks--should I move on or work at it?
Q. I'm a lesbian in my mid-30's. My 4-year relationship has been in trouble almost since the first year we were together. She is a lovely, sweet person, and some years my junior), and I feel very affectionate and loyal toward her. But living ...
A. 12 November 2006: Yes I agree you are moving on. For both parties involved, make it a clean break, say goodbye and hold on to happy memories. ... (read in full...)
I think I have lost him which really hurts...should I try and contact him?
Q. I posted some previous questions about my relationship with a guy i met 6 months ago. we live in 2 seperate cities. He has been pulling back from me, after him pursuing me with constant texts/ emails and calls. I sent him a 2 page e-mail telling ...
A. 12 November 2006: wow, i sort of feel your pain but at the same time i think both of you need to sit down and talk and stop jerking each other around. if you really miss him and like him a lot, tell him and ask him if he feels the same way. if he is evasive with his ... (read in full...)
We talked online but we met for the the first time and now she's gone off me. What can I do?
Q. Theres this girl i really like n we used to tlk a lot on msn bt since we met up for the 1st time she seems to have gone off me (i would like to point out im very ugly) is there anything i can do to go out wiv her?? ...
A. 12 November 2006: i'm not going to say your ugly cos i think there is beauty in everything. but perhaps there are other reasons she's gone away...email her and ask her-- be honest & upfront and tell her you would like to find out why she's being distant. if she's not ... (read in full...)
Is losing one's virginity as bad as everyone makes it out to be?
Q. hi im a virgin and i was wondering to all those girls who have lost their virginity, is it as bad and scary as people make out? x...
A. 12 November 2006: it's only bad and scary if you don't want to have sex. ... (read in full...)
I'vre had sex two times and I haven't enjoyed it at all. Is this normal?
Q. am i normal? i have only had sex to times and i havnt enjoyed either? does it take a few times to get used to or am i odd!...
A. 12 November 2006: it depends on many issues. one being, the person you are having sex with. if you're doing it to please him/her and not yourself because you want to hang on to this person for whatever reasons, than naturally it will not be enjoyable for you, cos ... (read in full...)
I suffer from premature ejaculation! How do I satisfy my wife with this problem?
Q. 2 years into marriage, but in this two years i can not satisfy my wife. what can i do now? help me when i have sex with my wife i discharge within 2 minutes. pls, help me...
A. 12 November 2006: well, if your wife is telling you she's unsatisfied and unhappy because of this issue, you should see a doctor and both of you perhaps a therapist, or someone you trust. premature ejaculation is a common problem for many men, you are not alone, and ... (read in full...)
In a relationship, but really like someone else, I cant dump my girlfriend she will be devastated!!!
Q. In a relationship, but I really like someone else. I have a girlfriend of almost 3yrs and I like another girl at work, call her Alexa. I have gone out to lunch with Alexa a few times we definitely flirt and tease each other all the time. I rea...
A. 12 November 2006: Your GF would definitely be devastated if she found out you were having fun lunches with Alexa! First of all, talk to GF, sit down and talk about what you both want in your relationship, listen to her and then have her listen to you. talk a lot. but ... (read in full...)
Do women act oddly when they find out their bf is a virgin?
Q. do women act oddly if their partner tells them they're a virgin like in my case - me?...
A. 12 November 2006: nope, just now, i asked 9 women. good luck!... (read in full...)
Scared she'll reject me if I approach her for a date!
Q. I'm a second-year student in college, and I'm finding myself becoming very attracted to a girl in my physics class. The problem is... I really don't know if she has any feelings towards me! It's very hard to figure out... She's very fun to be a...
A. 12 November 2006: rejection is tough. plus you've got school to add to your anxiety. just relax and enjoy the moments you hook up with her. she invited you to her play, you should invite her to perhaps study or a movie with coffee/beverage of choice? take it ... (read in full...)
Am I wasting time waiting to find out if guy fancies me?
Q. I met a guy at a friend's wedding. He was really nice and easy to talk to; at the end of the dinner, he asked for my Email so we exchanged addresses. The thing is, he lives in another city around 5 hours where I live, but his parents are here, so ...
A. 12 November 2006: i agree with the one-sided comment. you should invite him to lunch, cinema, a drink? tell him you want to go skating as it was mentioned when you first met. he's older than you and he might feel awkward and afraid of rejection if he were to ask you ... (read in full...)
Just out of a serious relationship..and getting offers from other guys. So why do I feel so lonely?
Q. I've just got out of my first serious relationship, in which I lost my virginity with the guy I love and plan to spend the rest of my life with him. Now it's all over, and i'm trying to go cold turkey on him, which is impossible as I haven't gone ...
A. 12 November 2006: you should go cold turkey on him. if possible go away for a weekend alone or with friends you didn't share with him. flirt, meet random people. it's hard to get over someone especially a first love, and you'll probably hurt for what seems like a ... (read in full...)
He insists we are a couple but won't break the news to his family? What should I do?
Q. Hello, i've been friends with this guy for years (10+)since HS. we finally slept together this summer. it was great for him, (guys can't fake it 4x in one long hot summer day, can they?) good for me (i wasn't as fulfilled, even tho he tried his ...
A. 5 November 2006: thank you for the insights, they are greatly appreciated!... (read in full...)
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