My cousin is going to blackmail me unless I do sexual things with her, and she's only 13!
Q. help cupids! im in a really BAD situation. basically, my cousin is blackmailing me for not doing sexual things with her. let me explain. my cousin admitted to me she loves me (though previously, i think she just adored me and now i know its jus...
A. 20 June 2011: I'd be telling your parents what has transpired with your young cousin for your own protection while you get a defence set up she is either troubled mentally or herself been a victim of being molested at 13 that isnt normal behaviour for a young ... (read in full...)
Relationships with ex-teachers - how does society view them?
Q. Do you know of anyone who got together with their ex teachers? If so, do you know how they deal with pressure from society in general? Like with the ex student's friends, the ex teacher's students and friends etc. How do people view the coupling in ...
A. 20 June 2011: Yes, and it depends on the teacher how professional they keep it. During my senior years as a young lad we had a very good looking young fresh out of Uni Physics teacher and she was involved with a lad in our year at the time but at school it was ... (read in full...)
Strangely attracted to a girl not my usual type. She gets made fun of a lot an I'm afraid friends will turn on me to What now?
Q. Okay so theres this girl that i just met and she likes me and i think shes kinda cute but my friends dont they were making fun of her really bad even though i kinda liked her i admit shes not my usual type shes short and not as thin as my usual ...
A. 20 June 2011: [Anonymous said: I think a real man wouldn't care for his mates' approval of his girlfriend. Sure, it's fun to be walking around with a girl that turns heads, but what are you more interested in -- a woman you approve of, or a woman others approve ... (read in full...)
I know I should wait to have sex, but I think I'm ready.....is this the right choice?
Q. im 14 and like other teen girls i think about sex A LOT and i think im ready to have sex with my boyfriend but im scared of the pain or what could happen if we (Im) not carefull......you might think "oh all he wants is sex" not really i told him i ...
A. 20 June 2011: 6 months into a relationship isn't fairly long to be deciding about being intimate especially at your age young lady. Besides the obvious nasties (std's if without protection) also risking pregnancy and at your age your far too young to be wanting ... (read in full...)
He's been very obviously staring at my body for four years. People have made comment. What is his problem?
Q. There's an older (married) guy who has been attracted to me for four years and has made it obvious. Unlike most guys, he is actually interested in me (not just my body) in getting to know the person I am. He never came up to me to talk or anyt...
A. 20 June 2011: As a father myself of two girls aged 10 and 8 Im sickened that a grown man would even think about looking at you with desire when your old enough to be his daughter how old is this man? Stay away from him sweetheart he sounds like a creep if he was ... (read in full...)
She will not let me see my son even though I pay child support. I can't afford lawyers. How can I legally see my child?
Q. My ex girlfriend has banned me from seeing our son for no reason at all. I'm 22, she's 21 and our son has just turned 1. It all started when we broke up because I found out she cheated on me before she got pregnant. I moved out but said I'd always ...
A. 20 June 2011: Man up and shoulder your responsibilities some women are heartless and cruel i agree yes. But if you've already done paternity test (more than likely when the child was born since these days they seem to do it with all young parents of your age, ... (read in full...)
Would it be a fools hope to think the relationship could be salvaged after 8 years of not being together?
Q. Well I never thought i'd be lowering my standard to ask complete strangers outside of my own circle for an outsiders opinion but current circumstances contact with my own family is irregular and well majority of my closest peers aren't sound for ...
A. 14 June 2011: Thanks for the advice and yes it's been a long time but we do tend to do alot of family outings together with our daughter as well as times where it's just our daughter and myself when her mother is sick. I actually had cold feet per se last week... (read in full...)
Why do I only get a boner half of the time we want to have sex?
Q. People I have a biiig problem. Me and my gf have been together for 3 months now and we were both eachtother first time. The sex couldnt be any better ... but lately half of the time when we want to have sex I either don't get a boner from the s...
A. 14 June 2011: This can happen for many reasons too much alcohol too much dope if you smoke that rubbish, heart and circulatory problems, stress even fatigue. Try to get a good nights sleep beforehand prior to being intimate with her again see if that helps the ... (read in full...)
Do you think I should continue to maintain military silence, maybe respond for him to leave me alone?
Q. Dear aunts and uncles, I kicked out my abusive ex about 4/5 months ago. The first three weeks of the break-up he called and begged non-stop and I maintained military silence. It seemed to work as he left me alone. Recently he has come out ...
A. 14 June 2011: change your phone numbers if its bothering you alot if that doesn't work and he starts turning up at your door I'd suggest making a visit to your local police station for a restraining order on him. I hope it works out for you.... (read in full...)
My worry is that love isn't real, or doesn't last... Am I right? Does anyone have a loving relationship that has lasted???
Q. Hey, I'm wondering if it is unrealistic to think that love can last? I've been with my bf 8 months, things are great, and he's talked about us moving in together in the next year and said that he'd like us to marry and have children some day, which ...
A. 14 June 2011: 8 months is a little fast to be planning any future with you just yet let alone marriage you both should be careful it isnt just the puppy love stage from a new relationship. Love does last though but it isnt automatically given like in most vomit ... (read in full...)
Is a total reboot like this and a reframing of myself in her life a good plan?
Q. After she showed lots of clear interest in me over a month +, a girl friend zoned me because I was always available to her as a pushover online and never flirted physically in person or pushed a relationship. We had a disagreement over this, but I ...
A. 14 June 2011: A pushover online and in person? Were you always going to see her? Sounds more like the chemistry was never there for you with her to begin with and you were nothing more than only a friend. Are you sure your not trying to interpret her polite r... (read in full...)
Trying to come to terms with being 3 months pregnant and getting hate texts from the father and his wife.
Q. i started meetin a fellow which i taught to be very nice. was seeing him for about two months when he told my sister that he would like to get me pregnant but for as i have 3 kids myself i felt like i had my lot and was in no way interested in havin ...
A. 14 June 2011: Is fearr Gaeilge bhriste ná Béarla cliste... I feel for you, i do, being a irishman meself but you left yourself open for the hurt in this by allowing yourself to see and sleep with a married that's just a recipe for disaster if you didn't want the ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's daughter despises the fact that I moved in without consultation by her mother!
Q. I am 34 years old and my girlfriend is 48. She has 15 year old daughter that despises the fact that I moved in before my girlfriend consulted her daughter. Any advice to lighten the load?...
A. 14 June 2011: I understand where the daughter is coming from an 18yr gap is fairly big too between you and the mother.... Thing is your girlfriend shouldve been putting the daughter first before allowing you to move in yes she very much should have been informed ... (read in full...)
I need a good role model to confide in!
Q. the last day of schools tomorrow, and then im back to being lonely.. no more confiding in my teacher for months.. whats even worse is that my brothers ex girlfriend, im not allowed to talk to her anymore. when she was the only one who tried to be ...
A. 14 June 2011: Young lady a interest in males isnt bad as long as your just seeking a little bit of affection from a boy your age without sexual thoughts. Why is it hard to confide in your father or mother your fears? I find it rather odd your father has a problem ... (read in full...)
Why did he text me wanting to meet up, after not hearing from him for weeks?
Q. There was this guy that i met one evening and he was such a gentlemen and one of the most decent guys i've met on a night out! He didn't grope me, put his hands on me or invade my personal space.. He was respectful and really funny! Anyways i did ...
A. 14 June 2011: Not unusualy for some guys to be lazy a month yeah thats a little young how old is the gent in question? Myabe he is still a little young and dumb if not be careful he isnt involved and has a girlfriend or wife and is trying to play the field if ... (read in full...)
I was giving my husband a blow job and my son walked in on us!!
Q. So.. I was having a rather pleasant time pleasuring my man... yes BJ ... we have been together 20 years - married for 14 and have 2 young children.. 2 and 5 yrs. We had not closed our door as we tend not too because we can generally hear o...
A. 14 June 2011: a few of the comments here are rediculous especially honeypie's vaseline on the door handle comment wth?? At 5 your child I doubt would even remember it or bring it up in a later conversation all he wanted was a bit of attention from a little tr... (read in full...)
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