I just want an answer from him -- are we done?
Q. I was seeing a man who is 26. I am 37 with two kids who is recently seperated. We have hooked up a few times. text daily. The past week he seems cold and the texts are zero. He also was at my house and stayed over three times 2 weeks ago, but ...
A. 12 June 2013: Just forget it. You don't need to be chasing some guy around. Find someone who shows the same level of interest. Just delete his number, and carry on with life. There are plenty of guys out there who would actually enjoy your company. He isn't one ... (read in full...)
Is he cheating on me with his roommate? Do I just break up with him or trust him? HELP!!
Q. I am going crazy about my boyfriend... He give me so many mixed messages and I dont know what to do. He tells me he loves me, wants to be with me but then in the next sentence tells me something that contradicts what I know to be a loving ...
A. 11 June 2013: He does not see a future with you, and has plainly told you so. The roommate isn't the problem.. The problem is that he doesn't really care for you, so why put up with him?... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't think before speaking and says very hurtful things. Should I dump him? Or see if he'll change?
Q. Ok, tomorrow will be me and my boyfriends six Monthiversary or whatever. Im not exactly super exciting because i think we arent doing so well and my boyfriend thinks everything is fine. Here's a few problems we have: He hates picking me up now beca...
A. 11 June 2013: If he wont change for you, then why are you stressing yourself out trying to be perfect for him? No guy should treat their girlfriend like that, and intentionally make them feel insecure. I would leave. You shouldn't have to change yourself for ... (read in full...)
I'm sickened by what our relationship has become. What am I to do now?
Q. I was introduced to a friend of my now brother-in-law 10 years ago and I dated him for about a month. I wasn't into getting into a relationship at that point in my life and I wasn't even sure if I liked him in that way. Everyone would tell me how ...
A. 4 June 2013: You both are stressed out, and before you give up this seemingly wonderful relationship you need to figure out how to communicate with each other if you think your relationship is worth fighting for. Is it worth fighting for? If it is, you both need ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel guilty about ignoring him?
Q. I was in love with a guy for over two years but he only really wanted sex and the odd date here and there. I knew this deep down but I went along with it because I thought I might be the one person who actually could change a person. I guess the ...
A. 3 June 2013: You have two choices, the first being to tell him what is really up. Don't be mean about it, but let him know that whatever you had is over with and that you've moved on. After that, I would not respond to anything else he says. I know exactly ... (read in full...)
Is marriage a deal breaker?
Q. I've been with my partner for 3 1/2 yrs now and we still don't live together because of both our situations. He going through a divorce and almost at the end and me because 'im not working. I love him very much and he loves me too, i would really l...
A. 28 May 2013: I'm not sure if he will change his mind.. Only time will tell. The real question is if you want to stick around and wait it out. If marriage is absolutely necessary for you, then you may be wasting your time, but you won't be able to tell that right ... (read in full...)
He obviously likes me, so why doesn't he just tell me he wants me to be his girlfriend?
Q. How does one get a guy who shows many signs of liking them more than just a friend or hookup to ask them out officially? We have known each other a few years. Initially we started as just a college hookup thing when drunk but I got tired of that ...
A. 11 May 2013: He doesn't want to tell you to be his girlfriend because he does't want you to be his girlfriend. It's a simple as that. You date other guys, and in between them, you go back to him. If he wanted you to be his girlfriend, it would not take this ... (read in full...)
Can short guys have success with women? And if so how? I need advice on how to cope better with my height.
Q. I am a 5'4" male and i am very insecure about my height. I know that women love tall guys and that most of them turn their noses at the thought of dating a guy as short as me. However, I also know that some guys my height and shorter do have suc...
A. 11 January 2013: I'm 4'11 and I would date a guy who's 5'4 in a heartbeat. My dad(who has passed) was 5'5 and my mom is 4'11. My cousin married a woman who is 5'8 and he is 5'4 (and he's always loved women taller than him). So what do my examples mean? It's all ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant after a one-night-stand. How do I tell him?
Q. 4 weeks ago I had a one-night-stand with this guy. A couple of days ago I took a test. I'm definitely pregnant. I want to tell him but I don't know how to. The major problem is he is in a relationship and his girlfriend doesn't know we had ...
A. 16 December 2012: This isn't a Disney movie. You're not going to get a fairy tale ending. No, he's not going to leave his girlfriend for you just because you're pregnant and no, you're "friend" isn't going to forgive you. I don't know why you seem kind of happy that ... (read in full...)
What should I do about this resentment that he won't try to lose the weight he has gained?
Q. In March, I started dating a guy I've known for 4-5 years. In may, I decided that I wanted to lose weight and since then, I've lost about 25 pounds, but here's the problem. My boyfriend was about 20 pounds overweight when we made it official, but ...
A. 23 September 2012: Thanks for your answers! To get a little more into detail, I still find him attractive enough to have sex with, but I think the issues lie more with the fact that he's been saying this for quite some time. I try to get him active with me, like ... (read in full...)
How do I not sabotage things in this relationship?
Q. I've been with my current boyfriend for about 5 months, but I've known him for about 4 years. I can say without a doubt that this is the happiest I've ever been. The problem isn't with him... It's me! He treats me like a princess, but I'm very ...
A. 28 July 2012: Thanks guys :) So far so good with us!... (read in full...)
He's unwilling to commit to me. Any suggestions or ways to encourage commitment from a guy?
Q. I need help... I love this man and he loves me. We do really care about each other trully. I want to be with him only. We've been "dating" for 6 mos now. But he wont make any commitment to me. Im not asking for a wedding ring just a standard re...
A. 28 July 2012: What do YOU want? He's telling you who he is, and you're chosing not to accept it. You want to be his girlfriend, and he doesn't want you to be. To me, that's a black and white answer, and it's unlikely to change. It's going to hurt, but it's time ... (read in full...)
LDR boyfriend doesn't know the color of my eyes?
Q. I am in a long distance relationship and I have been for about a year. We've been together in person multiple times so I expected the right answer today when I playfully asked him "What color are my eyes?" I could not believe it when he told me he ...
A. 28 July 2012: You're over reacting. I don't know the color of my boyfriends eyes and I see him nearly every day. Just kiddng.. they're brown. But back to the point.. It's just not that serious. If this is the ONLY fault that this guy has, then you'd better thank ... (read in full...)
Reasons I should, or should not date, my boss?
Q. I saw a post here recently about someone who wants to date their manager. Well I've been in this predicament for awhile. My boss and I get along great as friends and I can tell he likes me. I obviously like him too. He's only 3 years older than me ...
A. 28 July 2012: Have you ever heard the saying "Don't eat where you shit?" This saying applies directly to your situation. Don't do it... It'll only cause problems. Truth is, my boyfriend is my FORMER boss. We both left the place we were working in, and several ... (read in full...)
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