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writes:Is taking a girl's anal or oral virginity important?I know there is no such thing but this is best way to describe it? or is vaginal the only one guys care about?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): Virginity is purity. Virginity is pure as the driven snow. BJ's and anal are more intimate than vaginal sex ... They are certainly not the acts of a pure virgin... male or female.
Virginity is about being untouched... If all virginity is... is a technicality on the orifice used... then it is not virginity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2010): My ex was excited to give me her anal virginity... was her idea, and we both loved it! Oral was nothing... like asking who she gave her first hand job to... she may remember the first cock she sucked, but I don't think anyone cares.
As for being someone's first, personally, I want a woman who's been there, done it and gotten better!
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reader, Finn +, writes (18 December 2010):
You're a guy. What do you care about? Is it important to you?
When I was younger, I knew a girl who would do oral and anal, and yet saved her "cherry" for some nameless guy in her future who she would really love. Seemed silly to me.
To me, the moment a girl gets naked and lets a sweaty guy hump himself against her, she's no longer a virgin... The particular orifice in which the guy warms his member is irrelevant in terms of "purity."
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reader, MissKin  +, writes (18 December 2010):
 Depends what kinda guy it is and what kinda girl it is. Some people see the first time a girl gives oral / gets oral or partakes in anal intercourse very important, other people don't view it as anything important and don't have a virgin grace period (meaning they don't treat it as a special thing, and don't take it gently etc). It's a personal thing. I think they're important. Anal more than anything as to some it's a very unnatural experience. You should treat them they way you feel they should be treated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2010): Why should you care?
Why would it be important?
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reader, AliceSullivan +, writes (17 December 2010):
 it is important... sex gets you attached, bonded and for your first time you better make sure its the one and not just "someone" you want to go and have sex with
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reader, happy140 +, writes (17 December 2010):
 a girl's anal or oral virginity is to most guys a given. Men want sex, so do woman but they have something they can “save” for the special guy and still have sexvaginal the only one guys care about? Hard cold and fast YES YES It took more willpower to save and should be cherished
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reader, yvonica +, writes (17 December 2010):
 Depending on the girl I'm sure the girl takes her virginity as important. Virginity has always been important to me. I don't know how some girls think nowadays... i never tried anal though.
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