It bothers me that my g/f slept with someone she didn't even know
Q. My girlfriend slept with a lead singer from a band. It bothers me everyday that I know this. She said she did it because at the time she was mad at her old boyfriend. It just makes me so sad that she would lower herself like this to someone...
A. 29 September 2009: Oh lord, man, we have way too much "Phil Donahue" going on here. The answer is to dump her, my friend. Anyone that sleeps with someone they don't know and just met is a slut. Do you want to be with a slut? No. Neither do I. Neither doe... (read in full...)
My wife revealed her real past and I'm finding it difficult
Q. My wife of 9 years has recently got back in touch with an ex-boyfriend. She admitted a few weeks later to having been on a date with him, but insists nothing happened. However, she felt she could talk to him about everything, and that she was fed up ...
A. 29 September 2009: Dump her.
Who wants to be with a slut? C'mon man!
You can believe the rest of this drivel or you can come to terms with the truth. Her promiscuous past disgusts you. And that is okay. You didn't sign up for that. She told you she was a go... (read in full...)
Are guys put off dating a woman who's a virgin?
Q. This is a question for the guys. I'm in my early twenties and I'm a virgin. I'm saving myself for the right person. Do men prefer experienced women? Are guys put off dating a woman who's a virgin. What are your views please? thanks alot...
A. 2 July 2009: It's a good thing for you.
While some guys might be put off, I think they are in the minority and that would only be because they just want sex.
Any guy who is sincere and interested in a serious relationship would not mind if you were in a vi... (read in full...)
I worry my wife has gone back to her slutty ways, have I married the wrong person?
Q. I think my wife is a s___/w____ or whatever, I'm not trusting her at all. She was 'around' a lot before we dated. We're both only 23, we met when we were 21, but I know she's had sexual contact with at least 20 or more men before me. And that was...
A. 25 June 2009: What were you thinking, brother?
Why would you even get serious with a girl like that? You know better.
Notwithstanding that "grave" error in judgment her lies and current behavior is unacceptable, unless you're into being lied to, a doorm... (read in full...)
Why are women sluts if they sleep around and men Gods if they do?
Q. why is it that if a woman sleeps around she is a slut, but if a man sleeps around he is seen as a God? this is just something that my friends and i were talking about and made me think that it would be good to get a guys perspective. ...
A. 24 June 2009: No, we're not, actually. LOL Sorry, but it's just the way men are wired. Why does equality have to mean "sameness". It doesn't. Permit me a metaphor. Men are hunters. And if the prey is too easy it's not a challenge. And if the prey ha... (read in full...)
He masturbates to my cousin's naked pics! I'm so angry about this..am I over reacting?
Q. I have a 20 year old cousin who works as a model. Recently I found my husband keeps naked pictures of her in his sock drawer. We see her at family gatherings and I'm scared he will want to have an affair with her. She flirts a lot with him but ...
A. 24 June 2009: Well, you have a right to be upset, it's how you feel after all. But if you're looking for advice from a man's perspective I can tell you that it probably doesn't mean anything. Men are soooo visually oriented. We like to look at women's bodie... (read in full...)
Threesomes and the mess that comes with it... is this slutty behaviour?
Q. I am dating this girl who is without a doubt the greatest person I have ever met, however, I recently inquired about her having a threesome with two guys, mostly because I made a joke about us having a threesome with some random 10/10 I saw, then ...
A. 24 June 2009: Come now, you have to ask? That is slut city, my friend. You know it, too. Of course it's going to drive you crazy - it'd drive any guy crazy. Don't beat yourself up for getting worked up over it. You're normal. I wouldn't like it one bit.... (read in full...)
Do boys see girls who give blow jobs as easy or slutty?
Q. Do boys see girls who give blow jobs as easy or slutty?...
A. 24 June 2009: If you do it right away, then yes. It's that simple. If you are in a committed relationship and you wait a while and you never, ever, ever, ever, did I say "ever", tell him about a past experience then he will be very happy. It's a wonderful... (read in full...)
I just can't get over he watches porn!
Q. ok so me and bf have been going strong for nearly a year and a half but the other day he told me he watches porn and now i cant get the thought out of my head!! does it me he doesnt love me? or does he not find me attractive?? i guess because i dont ...
A. 20 June 2009: Get over it.
You want the truth? Men watch porn. All men do. It doesn't mean we don't love you or want you.
If you are looking for a guy who doesn't then you will be looking for a long time. And when you find him you will only really be f... (read in full...)
I am white , my boyfriend is black, my family doesn't like it,, how do I change their attitude?
Q. i am confused i have a black boyfriend and i am white and my whole family dont like it and his family dont really care i dont know what to do ive been with him for almost 6 months. what can i do to make my family understand skin color dont matter?...
A. 20 June 2009: This is one of those defining moments.
I shudder to think that anyone in this day and age can possibly condone racism. It's wrong, period.
Skin color doesn't matter. You have to stand up to them. Don't let someone scare you into reconsi... (read in full...)
I found Big brested porn on the pc. Should I be bothered about having smaller breasts?
Q. My fiance and I have been living together for a while and he never openly showed much interest in porn before and I liked that. I went out of town and when I came back our computer was completely messed up with viruses. I checked the history and ...
A. 14 June 2009: Agreed with previous comments. You have nothing to feel insecure about. Men are visually oriented. We like to look at naked women. Yes, all of us. And as someone else mentioned, most porn has large breasted women. It doesn't mean we ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says she's had sex with too many people, so she won't have sex with me!
Q. My girlfriend has had sex in previous relationships but now says she doesn't like it. I feel hurt because her only reason behind not wanting sex is that she doesn't like it and thinks she has had sex with too many people already, because she is only ...
A. 14 June 2009: At least she is showing some integrity, because after all, who wants to get serious with a girl who's slept around. The pity of it is, she should have said what she is saying to "you" to those other guys. Then it could have been really special. ... (read in full...)
I have a terrible issue with her past as she has slept with around 30 guys to my 6 women.
Q. First of all I am in a long distance relationship with a girl (33) who I have been seeing for the past year. She moved back to another European country 6 months ago. We fell very much in love, but like many guys I have a terrible issue with her...
A. 20 May 2009: Leave her and get serious with someone who doesn't sleep around.
You're a guy. You don't want to be with a slut and you know it. That's why you're suffering. You want a relationship, which is great, but you don't want that. You know it. I k... (read in full...)
Had sex on second date and now he is making excuses!
Q. Hello. I am 23 year old. I met this guy in the university, he is 29. He didn’t know how to approach me so he started talking with my friend and that is how he got my email. We chatted and invite me to a friend's party, of course with my friend too. ...
A. 20 May 2009: The answer is obvious. It's because you had sex too soon. Guys like the chase and they don't like girls that sleep with someone easily. At least not for serious relationships. He is no doubt now worried that you sleep around and that would be ... (read in full...)
How many is too many sexual partners?
Q. How Many is Too Many?? I am just curious, I had the post earlier about peoples opinions/views on casual sex? That got me to thinking, how many would you think is too many for past number of sexual partners?? I mean I know there are average...
A. 20 May 2009: To Smeedle,
Spoken like someone who has slept with lots of men. Why would you say anything different?
I find it hilarious that you think men are "insecure" just because we don't like to get serious with women who sleep around. It's not a mor... (read in full...)
Is 12 sexual partners considered slutty?
Q. I've just starting going out with a great girl, we are both 22, but recently found out that she has had 12 sexual partners, I didn't take the news well, she has only had 1 one night stand in her past but I am still concerned that she sounds slutty ...
A. 18 May 2009: The answer is yes. It's too many. And one one night stand is too many. Period.
You know it. I know it. Every guy knows it. Yes, we try to rationalize it. Logically and theoretically you could debate there is no number that is too many. I... (read in full...)
How many is too many sexual partners?
Q. How Many is Too Many?? I am just curious, I had the post earlier about peoples opinions/views on casual sex? That got me to thinking, how many would you think is too many for past number of sexual partners?? I mean I know there are average...
A. 18 May 2009: Okay, let's all get real here. There are two perspective's - from a girl's and a guy's. I can't speak from the girl's view point but I can talk from the guy's perspective. In fact I'll say what every single guy, that isn't auditioning for the new ... (read in full...)
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