Our families are fighting,what can we do?
Q. Hey. I am in a really bad situation. I am 17 and my bf is 21. I meet him through our family because be were really close friends, but now both our families are fighting and they have put us in the middle. My bf still visits my house and hangs ...
A. 30 January 2006: if you are going to act like an adult then you should behave like one. go to his house and tell them. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my good girl buddy that I'm "a gay"?
Q. Dear Cupid, Im in a bit of very hot water. I'm a closet gay, and I am involved secretley,with my man that ha been reassigned to take a project up in another state, no one knows as I pass off as the boy next door that attracts all the lovely girls, a...
A. 21 January 2006: i say tell her. ... (read in full...)
Whenever I can't be with my long-distance guy, he gets unhinged and insecure!
Q. Need advice. I had been in a long distance relationship with my bf for one year. I travel a lot to visit him, but it seems that every time I depart (back to my hometown) he immediately becomes this insecure guy and wants to break up with me. H...
A. 21 January 2006: one thing that worked well for me is that i started putting words in his mouth. when something mean was said i would relpy "so what you are saying is that you are going to miss me and dont want to be without me." to help him find the words. it has ... (read in full...)
Every little thing he does is... Annoying! How can I get past this?
Q. I have been having an attitude problem lately with my boyfriend. It seems any little thing that he does that aggravate me, I get pissed off. I then regret it later and wish that we weren't arguing. For example: Yesterday he left for a 1/2 hour ...
A. 21 January 2006: leaving the house without telling you? yes that is irritating and you should be mad. that isnt something you do to anyone much less a partner. i don't leave my office without telling coworkers. that is respect not attitude. maybe, just maybe it isnt ... (read in full...)
What can I do to keep my mistress's interest in sex alive?
Q. I am in my 40s and have been married for 26 years. During this time i have had a number of affairs but now i have found a woman i have been in a relationship with for over 3 years. My wife has poor health and I have work related ties. I have ...
A. 8 January 2006: aside from making the realtionship honost, i would say there is nothing you can do. best thing you can do for her is leave her alone.... (read in full...)
I'm tired of being my husband's maid and "mother"!
Q. I have been married for almost three years now and I am not attracted to my husband like I used to be. It's not because of his looks, it's the fact that he has become so lazy. I have to constintly clean up after him and nag him to get anything done. ...
A. 18 December 2005: personally, i would throw the tv out-or make it look like you did. that will get his attention.... (read in full...)
Is my package too small and does size really matter?
Q. I am curious about the old saying "Size doesn't matter". I am considered average size at 6 inches(from what I've read anyway), but find myself very insecure thinking that I am small. I am quite thick, but fear that I should be longer. I have ne...
A. 6 December 2005: another female to let you know that size does not matter. there is so much more than that!... (read in full...)
My boyfriend thinks I should also sleep with his dad, but I'm completely disgusted by the idea!
Q. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 19. He said to me the other night; "If you love me you'll sleep with me, and my dad as well." I told him that the idea was disgusting but he just repeated the idea again and laughed my opinion off. I can't understa...
A. 6 November 2005: He has got to trying to get you to break up weith him or he is crazy. Both ways girl you need to remove yourself from this right now.... (read in full...)
She wasn't allowed to date me because I'm an atheist and she's a person of faith...
Q. Hi I'm having a problem right now. I met this girl through a friend of mine and when we first met we fell for each other. The problem is we broke up after a few weeks because she told me that her cell group leader did not approve of our relationship ...
A. 5 November 2005: The Lord works in mysterious ways. This could be your calling. Listen to it. Try attending a few church services of different faiths on your own. Then maybe discuss some of the concerns or questions you may have with this girl. I am sure her leaders ... (read in full...)
What - if anything - should I tell my boyfriend about his ex?
Q. My boyfiend split up with his ex when she left the country for her career, about 4 years ago. Him and I have now been together for over two and a half years. All is going brilliantly. Recently I found out that she was paralysed in a horrible ...
A. 23 October 2005: its tempting to take the path of least resistance, however will you have respect for yourself if you dont tell. just imagine for one minute how deathly alone and scared maybe even hopeless this other girl feels right now. really think about it. then ... (read in full...)
Keeping tallies on sex and orgasm...
Q. I told my wife that 3 of my ex girlfriends would write down on a calender everytime we had sex. They would put a check mark if they got off. They would put a circle if they gave me a bj. My wife things that was weird and thinks no girls do that, ...
A. 17 October 2005: its weird girls dont do that... (read in full...)
I've told my boyfriend the truth now, but he still thinks I'm hiding things and lying to him!
Q. I just met my boyfriend about three months ago. We met on-line on a singles dating service. We started dating seriously after two weeks but before we started dating I told him that I had lied to him about the number of sexual partners I had in my ...
A. 6 October 2005: you should run like hell. he is just using your lie(which alot of females do fib about that one)as an excuse for his controlling actions.... (read in full...)
Sex. Should we do it drunk or sober?
Q. When me and my partner are drunk she wants to act sexually, but I would prefer to do so being sober. What's your opinion?...
A. 14 September 2005: I like to suggest that maybe the drinking helps your partner loosen up a bit but if being drunk is the only way your partner can have sex there are some reasons for that. Having a drink now and then can help spice things up a bit. It is possible ... (read in full...)
I got drunk and did something totally out of character for me...
Q. I have always been the biggest "goody two shoes" in my school. I recently graduated from high school and after I did I tried my first bit of alcohol. Later in the summer I went to the beach with a bunch of my friends. All of them have ahd sexual ...
A. 26 July 2005: yes consider yourself still a virgin. you would have bled and even still felt tender the next day. so dont worry and get some sleep. ... (read in full...)
Steve broke up with me because he wanted more passion... (very long)
Q. Dear cupid, My name is maria. I'm a 19-year-old college student and I just went through a break-up that really broke my heart. This might sound too upfront but I was hoping you could give me some advice on the recent break-up I went through. ...
A. 15 July 2005: Maria, you are a very smart person. That much is evident in your writing. It is a good idea for a girl to think about her actions and how they come across. It is important to not seem too clingy, not too submissive, etc. BUT sometime you just need ... (read in full...)
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