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writes: When me and my partner are drunk she wants to act sexually, but I would prefer to do so being sober. What's your opinion?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2005): Come on what's wrong with drunk sex! I love to have sex with my man when I am drunk. But of course being sober is even better! Just have sex when you want it!
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reader, Ellen +, writes (14 September 2005):
I like to suggest that maybe the drinking helps your partner loosen up a bit but if being drunk is the only way your partner can have sex there are some reasons for that. Having a drink now and then can help spice things up a bit. It is possible that is what your partner is trying to accomplish. However, sober is usually better for the most part. You may want to consider that there might be initmacy issues. They way to overcome these things is by talking them through. Hope this helps.
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reader, lildeesbg  +, writes (13 September 2005):
 Alchol and drugs can make a person more sexual. It makes them lose their ambitions. Now,how long have you and your partner dated? If this is a new relationship then having drunk sex isnt a good sign. If she can only be sexual if she has been drinking means that she is not comfortable with something. You might want to ask her about it. Maybe she isnt confident in the bedroom, or she feels the only way to initiate sex is to be drunk. The only way to fix this is by having that chat.
However, dont get me wrong if one night you two are out and having a good time and you both are drunk and have sex, their is nothing wrong with that. The problem is if she drinks purposely before sex.
dee =)
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reader, pops +, writes (13 September 2005):
I am with you. And, when you are sober, maybe you can work on your grammar, too.( Its" When my partner and I are drunk...")
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