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writes:I have been having an attitude problem lately with my boyfriend. It seems any little thing that he does that aggravate me, I get pissed off. I then regret it later and wish that we weren't arguing. For example: Yesterday he left for a 1/2 hour without letting me know and I was waiting for him so we could leave. I got really pissed when he got home and told him he shouldn't do that, but I was mad for about 2 hours afterwards. I know this is stupid, but it's like I can't help it. We live with my parents at the time and are trying to save up some money to buy a house, so I do see him everyday. Is there any way to prevent me from getting so upset all the time? I can go from being really nice to really mean in a matter of seconds. The thing is, he knows that what he does aggrevates me, but he still does it. He knows I have an attitude problem, can you help me please? I don't want to lose him due to this. Thanks in advance:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't start throwing things or anything like that. Most of the time now, I just try and hold what I'm mad about inside because I know I'll get over it and most of the time it is stupid, but then he asks what's wrong and I just try and be quiet and that starts a fight anyways. I have not tried sitting down and talking about anger, because I wouldn't know how to start. Can you give some tips on how to do this? I'd greatly appreciate it!
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reader, roxysuperx +, writes (21 January 2006):
 Im am SOOO not trying to sound mean at all but maybe you should look at yourself here. I have an anger problem and I get mad at my b/f allll the time. Mostly he isnt doing anything wrong I just dont know how to voice my feelings so I get so mad and start throwing things and being all crazy. DO you guys commmunicate ok? Like when you fight are you able to sit down and talk? I thought that was a joke until I tried and honestly, it works.
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reader, Ellen +, writes (21 January 2006):
leaving the house without telling you? yes that is irritating and you should be mad. that isnt something you do to anyone much less a partner. i don't leave my office without telling coworkers. that is respect not attitude. maybe, just maybe it isnt you.
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