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writes: I am 18 and my boyfriend is 19.He said to me the other night;"If you love me you'll sleep with me, and my dad as well."I told him that the idea was disgusting but he just repeated the idea again and laughed my opinion off.I can't understand why he wants me to sleep with his father; it sounds sick and disgusting to me. I wouldn't do it, and it seems so vile!He's a pleasant guy otherwise; what do I do about this situation and how is this affecting our relationship?Jodie (18)from the Wirral, United Kingdom Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2005): he is f*****g crazy and you are too if you don't tell him to buzz off. You will never ever be comfortable around him or his father again, you will never see him the same way. This will always loom over you. It will always be a problem. Is his dad a pervert? Your boyfriend obviously is. Get rid of chester, you're very young, you don't need this. Go find someone else...WHO DOSN'T WANT YOU TO SLEEP WITH HIS DADDY.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2005): What a loser. How many tattoos does he have?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2005): hell, if a guy makes you that uncomfortable, no matter how he does it, he is *completely TOTALLY* not the guy for you. move on, and get the hell away from him.
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reader, averageblonde +, writes (13 November 2005):
Dump him please. This relationship is very unhealthy. I would suggest that you find someone else who loves you and won't pressure you to do anything ridiculous. Sex is a wonderful amazing thing, but only when both parties consent.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2005): ask him if hes interested in incest because thats what it sounds like. tell him you love him and that you wouldnt go near his dad in that way with a 20 foot bargh pole.
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reader, angelicdivauk  +, writes (8 November 2005):
 As above, I agree with everyone - he is a nutter!!! He is only using you and if he's using the old "if you ;love me routine" then this is not a good sign for your future relationship with him, what will he get you to do next...murder?!?!? Good Luck, Hugs and Kisses xoxox
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2005): This guy probably has mental problems. In what kind of origin was he brought up to think that this is a suitable propsition??? Don't ever have a thing to do with him again, I say. You don't sound that close to me, so what are you losing?
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reader, Ellen +, writes (6 November 2005):
He has got to trying to get you to break up weith him or he is crazy. Both ways girl you need to remove yourself from this right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2005): Dump him fast! You are being used. This guy doesn't know how to respect women due to poor role modeling behaviour on the part of his Father. Obviously, his dad is asking to have sex with you and your bf has complied by asking you. You are being used as a 'object, a thing' in this relationship. Keep your self-value and tell them both "to take a hike". Sharing your body is an intimate and private moment reserved for the man you love and one who loves you. I am sorry that this young man has done this to you. Better to learn this now, then later. Be strong and value your body and heart, enough to...simply walk away and please, don't look back. Good Luck
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reader, jackie222 +, writes (6 November 2005):
This guy is a lunatic. Get away fast. Thats just sick.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (6 November 2005):
 To even contiune a conversation after a guy suggests something like that boggles my mind. Sounds like yourself may have some issues to deal with, not to mention this nutball. Get away from him and get some counseling on the way.
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reader, beenthere +, writes (6 November 2005):
i know some guys are turned on by the thought of watching there girl have sex with someone else but wanting you to sleep with his dad is disgusting. your boyfriend needs help and if he loved or respected you, he would not ask you to do it. he is using you for his own perverted pleasure. if he won't get help, you're better off without him
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2005): any guy who ever says that i you love me youll do this.... and its crap he doesnt love you. he doesnt respect you. there is something seriously wrong with him if he wants you to sleep with his dad as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2005): You are totally correct, this guy is SICK. YOu do NOT need someone like this in your life. The answer is quite simple, get rid of him. Now. Before you get yourself in to any sort of heinous situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2005): What to do? Get away from this wacko as fast as you can. I am sorry, but why would you even write us for this advice? What he is asking indicates a very disturbed mind, and a strange homelife. You want nothing to do with what he is proposing, so get away from him. Be assured that if you continue to date him, his requests will continue, and may become even more bizarre. GET AWAY FROM HIM, NOW!
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