I need some inspiration to get through this breakup
Q. Ah! I think I just need some support. I believe I have been unlucky about guys since the second grade. lol. But the reason I am asking for help is not that. I have recently been dumped. I think it is for the better but I have a hard time kee...
A. 23 December 2010: Hi Larusson Be aware of the kind of language you use because it will come true. For example - "I have unlucky with guys". Change the language and things will look up. I promise you. Thank him for leaving you - he did a good thing. And you ... (read in full...)
Is it me? Is he depressed? He won't open up to me!
Q. I have been seeing this guy for about 6 weeks now. Nothing is official, but he has told his friends and mum about me and everyone we work with knows about us. I am somewhat confused though. He spends alot of his time in his room and has sometime...
A. 23 December 2010: Hi Anonymous Are you kidding me? He actually insulted you that he likes skinny girls and you still hanging on to him? You must be very insecure and like a lot of pain. Depression is a thing that pulls not just the person down but everyone aro... (read in full...)
For the last 2 years she hasn't showed me any love or affection
Q. Been with girlfriend 4 years, she is 25. She says she loves me but for last 2 years she wont show me affection, or show her feelings for me, wont hold hands in public, wont kiss,denies we are dating if anyone asks and, makes me feel so bad that I ...
A. 23 December 2010: Dear Anonymous, When a woman doesn't show you affection that only means there is no feelings. I should know this I am a woman. Showing affection is how we express ourselves - we can't do without it. I am sorry you have wasted so much time on ... (read in full...)
How do I find a guy that isn't fickle?
Q. I'm the type of person that doesn't fall in love easily and when I do I fall hard. My ex turned out to be a very fickle person, he falls in and out of love easily. So how do I find someone who is the same type as me?...
A. 23 December 2010: Hi girlfriend Fall in and out of love? Sounds like someone who does not know what he wants. Do you really want to share your life with him? Seems a very insecure kind of thingy. My advise to you is first and foremost do not fall in love har... (read in full...)
He says that all I do is bitch at him but I'm just trying to help him!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year... I love him very much and want to spend my life with him... But he doesn't make the right decisions for his life... He's scared of having cancer, but he smokes a pack if not more of cigarettes a day, ...
A. 23 December 2010: Girlfriend,
You cannot help change anyone's life but youre. I guarantee you will not be happy with him because you are not accepting him as he is but is all out to change him. If you cannot stand his behaviour now what makes you sure you can stan... (read in full...)
Jealous girlfriend , my fault I hit her ?
Q. My girlfriend is bi polar and jealous. She caught me with porn and got really mad about it she wol't let me have female friend and I don't care about that because I don't want her to have male friends so we made a deal no friends of oppisite sexes. ...
A. 23 December 2010: Hi there,
There is no justification to hit anyone no matter how angry she makes you. You are fortunate that she did not make a police report or else you will be in deep shit man. I am wondering if you really do love her.
Her behaviour is... (read in full...)
Her interest in me is waning. Is it time to break up?
Q. My girlfriend 2 years younger than me finished her studies in NZ, and she went back to vietnam due to family issue. She will be there for at least a couple of years, and due to my personal issue, i cant work in vietnam. so, we are currently in a ...
A. 17 December 2010: First, let me just say long-term relationships are very very challenging. I have been on two and it didn't work. There is no familiarity anymore -nothing much to share. And by the sound of it, it looks like she has build herself a life that she ... (read in full...)
I'm a big strong guy but have overwhelming urges to cuddle. What's wrong with me?
Q. How do I start this? Let's see, I'm a masculine guy I guess you could say. I think people interpret me as being that way. I'm 6 foot 1, 250, broad shoulders drive a truck, play rugby, have tatoos, and own more than a few firearms. I wear overalls to ...
A. 17 December 2010: Whats wrong with that? Did someone teach you that a big guy like you should not like cuddling? BS, if you ask me. Send out the thought that you will find a woman who loves cuddling just like you. In the meantime, stop buying the idea that there ... (read in full...)
I want this guy back in my life but I don't know how to resolve this and I'm filled with anxiety over this problem
Q. I can't forget about this guy I was friends with; it's been months but I still cry over him. I'm pretty sure I'm in love with him, but I've been in a situation where I'm not around people and my social anxiety has become so bad I have trouble ...
A. 17 December 2010: Hi there! Yes, it is very very vague. Unless you can define the problem the solution will not come. Why did he dump you? By the sound of it, looks like he has moved on quite easily. Sorry to break the bubble, but your wanting and pining for him w... (read in full...)
Bigamy in my family. How can it be resolved?
Q. My sister got married 10 years ago in India. Her husband is working in Abu Dhabi. They have three daughters. For some reason her husband got an affair with another girl in india (through internet) and they got married without divorcing my sister and ...
A. 17 December 2010: Hi there. Who is we? Why do you have to cope with this? I think its your sister who should make the decisions. If you love her then just support her in her decision. She has to decide if he is worth holding onto or not. If she is a traditional ... (read in full...)
I feel so unloved and I no longer love my husband. Is divorce the answer, or is there another solution?
Q. I am 25 years old and mother of 2. I'm married for 6 years now and I find my self not in love with my husband anymore. I have been supporting my husband financially so he can graduate for the past 4 1/2 years. (he is supposed to be done next summer) ...
A. 17 December 2010: Hi. Sounds to me like you are letting this happen to you. Why are chicken to tell him? Don't you value yourself to not let this continue. This is not yet the stage for thinking of a divorce. Our loved ones take us for granted because we allow ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling empty even though all should be well. How can I improve things for the better?
Q. I have been happily married for 6 years and very proud to Have a pretty wife and a father of two lovely kids. Just when I should felt like I have everything in the world I have been feeling somewhat empty lately. I miss the time when I actu...
A. 17 December 2010: Hi there. I understand this, been married for 28 years. You want to relive that first kiss, first everything moment. You could go out and do it. How useful would it be? Are you prepared for the consequences? Not only losing your wife but your ... (read in full...)
I'm seeing a married man, but I really want to have a normal relationship, but nobody matches up to this married man, should I pursue it or give him up for good?
Q. I am in love with a man who has a partner and 2 small children. I know he feels the same way and is very unhappy with his current partner and stays for the children, but I am not sure I can live with breaking up a family. However, I just cannot get ...
A. 17 December 2010: Hi there, I have had two relationships with men who are married. And everytime its the same story - he is unhappy and I apparently make him happy. But, it never ended in him choosing me. If he is really unhappy. he should make a decision for ... (read in full...)
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