He says he's bored with me and that I'm unattractive. Should I still try?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little more than two years now and we have been living together close to two years. Just a couple of weeks ago he had been coming home late at night around 4 in the moring every night. He says he is with ...
A. 18 September 2009: some one else will find u even more attracrive, and it totally sounds like hes cheating, find u a good 1!... (read in full...)
Common sense is telling me to move on. What do you think?
Q. I was in a very loving, caring relationship with a guy for almost two years. At the end of July he had to move to Pennsylvania for grad school, and I stayed here in Hawaii to finish my undergrad degree. He will be there for the next year and a half, ...
A. 18 September 2009: common sense dont lie... (read in full...)
Being stalked..what to do?
Q. Is it ok to hit a man or get someone else to hit him if he is stalking you and threatening to harm your child? I've been to the police but they say there is nothing they can do. I'm at my wits end. Help....
A. 29 December 2008: This is very serious, keep a gun on you, or a weapon you life is not worth this fool and his foolishness. Keep tabs on your child at all times. Always be aware of your surroundings, consider an alarm system for your house, so when you come home, ... (read in full...)
I don't get what I want!
Q. Im feeling down about the way I am. I'm an attractive 22 yr old female, I get hit on by guys all the time, I like the attention, but I don't take any of these guys seriously. Im so picky! At the rate I'm going, I dont think I'll ever find a good ...
A. 29 December 2008: Some may say that you have your standards too high and they might say something like dont be soo picky just go with it.
Thats the problem with alot of women, we are lowering our standards and settling for less, only to end up divorced, because ... (read in full...)
How to make friends?
Q. Ok so I've been so very lonely for the past 5 years because since 2003 I still don't have a single friend.. I do have many friends back in China but when I come here in Ireland things change.. I don't know what's the problem.. I dont want to be a ...
A. 29 December 2008: You have to have this additude like you are the one people want to talk to,be around, and be friends with. Learn what other people like, smile, make small talk with thoses around you, see what you have in common with different people, and you will ... (read in full...)
Would it work better if we didn't use a condom?
Q. Hi this is gonna sound so stupid but me and my boyfriend tried 2 have sex and couldn't.... it wouldn't go in and he was wearing a condom. Now he thinks there's something wrong with him and I don't know what to do.... Would it work better if we ...
A. 29 December 2008: No! Always wear a condom. He should see a doctor, to get this problem figured out, and if he is normal maybe you should talk to the GYNO.
If you dont feel comfortable going to the doctor, look online for a medical website, and ask the doctor o... (read in full...)
Help, I've ruined my relationship.
Q. HI there. I am in desperate need of advice; I have had an amazing relationship with my boyfriend who I consider my best friend, and my lover, for two and a half years; but now it has gone really astray. In the past 2 years I've suffered from pa...
A. 29 December 2008: Hi, I am going to give you advice how to get over it. I know you love him, but it really sounds like he is playing you. Tell him that you deserve more.
You need someone to love you unconditionally, what you are in is not a relationship, it just ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want to have sex/tatoo should I drop her?
Q. Hi can you help me out. My friends 8 of us have decided to go out on the town and have tatoo's done. Also we are all trying to get laid. However my best friend Susan is not coming and says we are all dim wits. Should i remain friends with her? ...
A. 28 December 2008: Susan respects her body, so should you. Understand that, of course you shold remain friends with her how she chooses to treat her body shouldnt effect your friendship.... (read in full...)
Should I just bite his neck some more and make him forget I am a virgin?
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Last weekend I stayed the weekend with him. I'm a virgin and he told me once before that he didn't want to take my virginity away. Well we started making out and I started biting his neck which REALLY turns him on. ...
A. 28 December 2008: My advice,stay away from the boys at this age, hang with the girls and work on you!... (read in full...)
Can a warm, kind feminine heart survive in the harsh environment we live in.
Q. Can a warm, kind feminine heart survive in the harsh environment we live in? Have they been hardened to survive. I know what I'm looking for but where is it? Should I look towards another country/culture? Become religious? Join some hippy commune?...
A. 28 December 2008: Surround yourself with people like you, wether they be sisters in a convent, "Hippies" make youself happy first so you will have the strength to hep others, you will feel good in your soul. NEVER GIVE UP, I KNOW YOU CAN SURVIVE KEEP LOOKING UP! ... (read in full...)
Use protection but still haven't had period
Q. hii all, every month i get my periods regularly but this month im still waiting for it. 10 days back i had light spotting but its not my regular periods. i had sex with my bf but always safely with pill or condoms. how can i get my periods soon? pl...
A. 28 December 2008: Yes, go to the drug store and get a test, you can also go to your gynecologyst, or family phsycain, Condems are not 100% going to prevent a pregnency, unfortunantly.
Alot of cases when a condem fails have to do with guys not properly using th... (read in full...)
Mood disorder?
Q. I think i suffer from some mood disorder, ro something. at time si feel EXTREME happines and at others i just want to dissapear, hurt myself then i sumtimes i feel very irritable and get moody easily. what could it be?...
A. 28 December 2008: I feel The same way you feel sometimes, and I am Bi-Polar. I never was just happy or sad it was either I am on cloud nine or Im thinking of suicide.
I have learned to deal with it very well now, I know that when Im at one of these extremes... (read in full...)
Love is it too complicated
Q. please help me. i dont know what to do. i have fallen head over hills for my best friend. and i just cant stop thinking about it. i think about him constantly, and i find myself wanting to txt him or just talk to him that way i feel close to him. i ...
A. 28 December 2008: Hey i know exactly how you feel, think of why you like him, and what he does for you and are your reasons for liking him legit? If so , If you say he is your best friend, pull him aside one day, and tell him discretely, its just a crush. Dont drop ... (read in full...)
Still young and desperately looking!
Q. Many of us teenagers seem to be looked at differently just because of the fact that we've never had boyfriends/girlfriends. Most of us are obssesed with the fact that a relationship with a person is needed ASAP. Well, I have something to tel...
A. 28 December 2008: Thank God that someone else is thinking like me. Our bodies our TEMPLES~ we need to treat them like that too!
With age come maturity and wisdom, qualities that most us young folk have not quite developed, our brains are still growing.
I believe ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and ready for sex --how to tell my boyfriend!?
Q. hi im 13 and my question is how do i tell my boyfriend im ready for sex??? me and my boyfriend been together for along time and told me to tell him when im ready but i dont know how...can u help me oh yea i thought this over for the last 2mo...
A. 28 December 2008: Hi im just a bit older than you, most of the people that I know have said that they are ready when they were your age, they feel like HeIS THE ONE, in reality you are soo much more than that, you are above that, im not saying sex is bad but I am ... (read in full...)
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