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Is it wrong to not want your younger sister to live out the dream you wanted but couldnt do cause you had a baby?

Anyone else hate their husband's best friend?

Q.   This is driving me crazy does anyone else hate there husbands or bfs best friend? I do and it sucks cause were stuck living with him only plus side is i love his gf. I need advice on how to deal with this. Were stuck living with him till we can g...

A.   18 October 2013: We cant stay with family because we moved across country from them and my husband hasnt started working yet hes waiting on a background check. I have no clue how long itll be till we can get our house prob 2 years or more. ... (read in full...)

Anyone else hate their husband's best friend?

Q.   This is driving me crazy does anyone else hate there husbands or bfs best friend? I do and it sucks cause were stuck living with him only plus side is i love his gf. I need advice on how to deal with this. Were stuck living with him till we can g...

A.   18 October 2013: Bump... (read in full...)

Our marriage is hanging by a thread. My husband changed his facebook password and won't give it to me!

Q.   I need help trying to not let it bother me that my husband changed his fb pass on me and wont give it to me cause i cant trust him. Our marriage is hanging by a thread and im trying really hard to fix this prob. It doesnt help that most people I ...

A.   13 June 2013: no were married. we got married in feb of this year.... (read in full...)

Our marriage is hanging by a thread. My husband changed his facebook password and won't give it to me!

Q.   I need help trying to not let it bother me that my husband changed his fb pass on me and wont give it to me cause i cant trust him. Our marriage is hanging by a thread and im trying really hard to fix this prob. It doesnt help that most people I ...

A.   13 June 2013: Because hes broken up with me every year we have been together. And I know im the one hurting the relationship thats why i came on here asking for tips on how to not let it bother me so badly not knowing his pass... (read in full...)

Our marriage is hanging by a thread. My husband changed his facebook password and won't give it to me!

Q.   I need help trying to not let it bother me that my husband changed his fb pass on me and wont give it to me cause i cant trust him. Our marriage is hanging by a thread and im trying really hard to fix this prob. It doesnt help that most people I ...

A.   12 June 2013: No he hasn't cheated on me that I know of. We've been together 6 years but married only 3 months. yeah he flirts with other women but he married me. idk. alls i know is i want to save my marriage. I dont trust him cause i already had trust issues ... (read in full...)

Do couples share their passwords with each other or is it a trust issue to deal with?

Q.   I have a question about trust. Im having an issue with my bf keeping his password from me. I know its because of trust and im trying to work thru it but with all thats happend its kinda hard to.my question is how many of you share your passwords ...

A.   22 March 2011: Yeah i already have trust issues but really for no reason. Ive always had this issue though. He lets me go on his account but he wont give me the pass. His reason is because before when we were together i had his pass and still didnt trust him so h... (read in full...)

Do couples share their passwords with each other or is it a trust issue to deal with?

Q.   I have a question about trust. Im having an issue with my bf keeping his password from me. I know its because of trust and im trying to work thru it but with all thats happend its kinda hard to.my question is how many of you share your passwords ...

A.   21 March 2011: No its a password to his account on his pc. He made me an account to. So we have seperate accounts.... (read in full...)

After everything that has happened I'm not sure I can go back to him

Q.   I need help. I don't know what to do. My ex who broke up with me in September cause he couldn't see it working now says he wants me back. Part of me says to say no while the other part says go back. I don't know what to do. I still love him and want ...

A.   15 March 2011: The way he treated me when he first broke up with me. The fact he didnt seem to care and just weve been on and off for so long now kinda worry what happened before will happen again... (read in full...)

Whatever happened to holding hands and watching the sunset?

Q.   So, alot of things have been hard to adjust to since I got out of the Army. Not the least of which has been dating, or...not dating, I suppose. I like to think I'm a nice guy, outgoing in public, but private at home. I own my own house, and c...

A.   7 February 2011: Hey im all for holding hands and watching the sunset. Most people just like sex to much to not have it. Im sure someday youll find the right women for you. Im sure you have ur reasons for being celebate and if shes the right one she will love you no ... (read in full...)

14 and pregnant...Help!!

Q.   Okay im 14 and I just found out im pregnant. I dont know what to do because i dont want an abortion because im 100% against that. And i want to keep it but i have school.! i want to finish school but i want to have my baby.! PLEASE HELP...

A.   28 October 2009: Don't abort if you don't want to. Yes you can keep the baby and go back to school. You can do what you want. Don't let anybody convince you to abort or adopt. You said yourself you want to keep the child so keep it. You can do it. I'm in the same ... (read in full...)

Would a baby be good for our relationship?

Q.   I'm 19, and my boyfriend's 45, and he wants a baby now. I've told him no, but he's insistent again and again that I have one with him. He says he doesn't want a baby to "trap" me, but because he feels it will be good for our relationship. I'v...

A.   28 October 2009: A baby is not going to rob you of doing those things. You can still do it just wait till the babys old enough to be babysat by ur family or something. Heck even take the kid with you. A baby is a wonderful thing. Though not with a 40 something year ... (read in full...)

Am I the only pregnant woman living apart from her significant other?

Q.   Help me. My fiances family kicked me out of there house cause I got laid off. They say I can come back after I get a job but I'm pregnant and don't think ill have much luck in it. Also my fiance told me if I ever got kicked out that he would come ...

A.   20 October 2009: Thanks for the replys but that's not what I asked for. I asked if anyone else is going through what I'm going through. ... (read in full...)

Pregnant, not ready for a child but cannot have an abortion either

Q.   Help me!!!!! Idk what to do. I skipped my period last month so I took a pregnancy test yesterday and it came back positive I'm gonna get myself two other test just to make sure its not wrong but I'm so scared. I'm only 20 and me and my fiancee arnt ...

A.   16 September 2009: Thanks everyone. I've decided to keep it. It'll be hard but I know we can do it.... (read in full...)

Can't have an orgasm since I'm pregnant

Q.   I have a question. Since I found out I'm pregnant everytime I try to get an orgasm I can't. Its weird the only thing I get now is tingling all over. Does it have anything to do with the pregnancy?...

A.   14 September 2009: No he doesn't really stilmulate me. He did last night and I almost had it but then lost it. So idk. ... (read in full...)

Pregnant, not ready for a child but cannot have an abortion either

Q.   Help me!!!!! Idk what to do. I skipped my period last month so I took a pregnancy test yesterday and it came back positive I'm gonna get myself two other test just to make sure its not wrong but I'm so scared. I'm only 20 and me and my fiancee arnt ...

A.   12 September 2009: Thank you all for the advice. Its much needed and appriciated. ... (read in full...)

Stories about getting back with the ex

Q.   Hi, Have any of you out there ever successfully gotten back together with your ex? How did you do it? How much time passed? What is your story? Please share! Thanks......

A.   18 August 2009: I tried to make him jealouse and it backfired on me and he broke up with me thinking untrue things. So that's what I kept appologising for. Also no but he said he loved me he just couldn't take me back because I hurt him to badly and he kept telling ... (read in full...)

Stories about getting back with the ex

Q.   Hi, Have any of you out there ever successfully gotten back together with your ex? How did you do it? How much time passed? What is your story? Please share! Thanks......

A.   17 August 2009: I've sucessfully gotten back with my ex. Um I think 4 months passed before he took me back and alls I did was keep talking to him and send him poems about how sorry I am and songs like back to your heart from backstreet boys. ... (read in full...)

Can a guy ever be just friends with a girl?

Q.   Is it possible for a guy to be best friends with a girl and never get feelings for her?...

A.   6 June 2009: Good cause my bf is best friends with this girl and there living together. She has two kids and they call him uncle. ... (read in full...)

My ex told me to date around but I want him back!

Q.   Question. My ex just started talking to me again. Its been like 4 or 5 weeks since we broke up. He says he misses me and loves me but he doesn't want me back yet because he can't trust me. I don't know what to do. Should I wait for him to want me ...

A.   21 May 2009: Thanks for the advice. Ill give him time. But how much time is to much?... (read in full...)

My ex told me to date around but I want him back!

Q.   Question. My ex just started talking to me again. Its been like 4 or 5 weeks since we broke up. He says he misses me and loves me but he doesn't want me back yet because he can't trust me. I don't know what to do. Should I wait for him to want me ...

A.   21 May 2009: Ok now I'm majorly confused. He says he wants me back but just can't right now because of how hurt he is. Then he also said that maybe were meant to be just not right now. Maybe in the future. But when I was with him everything felt right and I just ... (read in full...)

My ex told me to date around but I want him back!

Q.   Question. My ex just started talking to me again. Its been like 4 or 5 weeks since we broke up. He says he misses me and loves me but he doesn't want me back yet because he can't trust me. I don't know what to do. Should I wait for him to want me ...

A.   19 May 2009: Thanks for the help but now I need more help because apparently his best friend has been looking for him and he has been looking for her. I don't know if they like each other or not but I know they tried to go out before in high school but it didn't ... (read in full...)

A guy I like is leaving for the military, should I go with him or move on?

Q.   I need help. Ive fallen for this guy who doesnt want a relationship right now because hes leaving for the military and he doesnt want a long distance relationship and neither do i. But we both really like each other and make each other very happy. I ...

A.   7 May 2009: I dont know if he loves me to. Alls I know is that he really likes me. ... (read in full...)

Is there such a thing as unconditional love between a couple?

Q.   I have two questions. One is is there such a thing as unconditional love between a couple? Cause my ex said I had unconditional twisted. Isn't it where no matter what ur partner does ull always love them and stay with them? Also how can I prev...

A.   11 April 2009: Thanks for all the answers. Your all very right. Just right now it really hurts especially knowing its my fault the relationship failed and I had it good with him. But then I went and blew it and am just hoping he wasn't the one I was supposed to be ... (read in full...)

Is there such a thing as unconditional love between a couple?

Q.   I have two questions. One is is there such a thing as unconditional love between a couple? Cause my ex said I had unconditional twisted. Isn't it where no matter what ur partner does ull always love them and stay with them? Also how can I prev...

A.   11 April 2009: I can't see myself with anyone else. Do u think in time ill be able to?... (read in full...)

Is there such a thing as unconditional love between a couple?

Q.   I have two questions. One is is there such a thing as unconditional love between a couple? Cause my ex said I had unconditional twisted. Isn't it where no matter what ur partner does ull always love them and stay with them? Also how can I prev...

A.   11 April 2009: Its not that easy. He's my first love and my first everything. We've been together for 11 months. Its all my fault the relationship ended and he won't take me back. I'm gonna have to move on but right now I'm not ready to let go. I'm afraid ill ... (read in full...)

How do I move on from my 1st love, my best friend?

Q.   This is long but i think i need to tell every aspect for you to really understand. My ex boyfriend and I were together for nearly seven months, we fought a hell of a lot but there were the good times and the good times were perfect. As with every ...

A.   11 April 2009: Hey I wanna know the answer to that question myself as I'm going through something very similure. My first love broke up with me. It also being my fault and we to had thought we were gonna get married and he's done some pretty mean things but I ... (read in full...)

Do you think we'll get back together in the future?

Q.   Someone help me plz. I don't know what to do. I've been with this guy for 11 months almost a year and he broke up with me last week and kicked me out but then he got back with me saying he doesn't want to be without me. Then like a week later beca...

A.   7 April 2009: Thanks for the advice. Everyones basically giving me the same. But I think its completely over now because his room mate told me he's done with me and looking to see other people but he said he didn't say that and he didn't answer one of my ... (read in full...)

I want to surprise my fiance on our anniversary and dominate him sexually. Ideas?

Q.   I want to surprise my fiance on our anniversary and dominate him sexually. Problem is I don't know how to. I've tried googling it but it didn't give me what I needed. Someone please help me I really want to surprise my fiance....

A.   30 March 2009: Thanks for the advice does anyone else have any more advice for me? I can use all the help I can get.... (read in full...)

I want to surprise my fiance on our anniversary and dominate him sexually. Ideas?

Q.   I want to surprise my fiance on our anniversary and dominate him sexually. Problem is I don't know how to. I've tried googling it but it didn't give me what I needed. Someone please help me I really want to surprise my fiance....

A.   29 March 2009: Thanks for the advice but I kinda really wanna try to dominate him. He told a friend of his that he thinks he would like to be dominated but he doesn't think he can get me to do it and I wanna prove him wrong and surprise him.... (read in full...)

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