Why does he shut me out when things arent working out for him?
Q. The guy im dating shuts me out when things arent going well for him.Last fri we had a great night and he seemed so happy(normally we hang at his place but this time we hung out at mine and he had never been).He hates living w/ his bro, they have a ...
A. 12 November 2010: He is probably a bad match for you and he knows it. Trust 'em when they say you are too good for them. That means you are. I am sorry that I took so long to respond, but I hope you let him go. Please don't spend your life trying to fix people.... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't want to lose me..so why is he being distant?
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm 24 and I've been with my bf for just over two years now and up until a few months ago everything was great. Our relationship resides us between long distance (see each other at weekends) when I'm at university and being cl...
A. 12 November 2010: Dear Anonymous,
I am sorry I didn't reply to your question sooner.
Long distance relationships really take their toll. And if your BF is going through a lonely spell/rough patch/mild depression, it can make things worse.
I think that everyday ... (read in full...)
Too fat to be loved!
Q. I met my boyfriend(ex) over a year ago... we got along very well spent almost every day together talked for hours and hours and never seemed to care about anyone but ourselves. about 7 months into he he suddenly started to pull away and i felt ...
A. 11 November 2010: I ditto the first two agony aunts who responded to you. I would like to add: If he is making you lose your temper, and you feel justified in it, and he uses that as an excuse to not be with you, then it will only get worse in the long run.
I am ... (read in full...)
Should I just settle?
Q. I am 29 and have never been married. I have been involved in a couple of serious relationships, but have never lived with any of my boyfriends. I don't put up with a lot of games or garbage and some call me too picky. I have a full social life and...
A. 11 November 2010: Update:
I dated Mr. Wrong for a year after posting that. I had been dating him July-August 2009 and he broke up with me on Sept 9, 2009. After I posted my question he got back to me and I was such a sucker. The on again, off again bs continued thro... (read in full...)
Dating more than one person at a time? Bad?
Q. I would like some opinions from you guys on how you feel about dating more than one person at the same time... I know there may be cultural differences here - I think in the US it is pretty normal for people to date a few people until one become...
A. 11 November 2010: Dating more than one person is a very personal decision, as you can see from the previous answers to this question. :) What are you comfortable with? Really think about all aspects: time, emotional closeness, cuddling, kissing, sex, etc. Ask your ... (read in full...)
How do you get over someone you truely love?
Q. How do you get over someone you truely love, and have loved for more years than you can remember? I am in love with this wonderful man, but due to circumstances, I doubt we will ever be together. My heart aches for him, he makes me laugh, smile ...
A. 15 September 2009: Dear Anonymous, Thank you for the additional information. How heartbreaking! In light of this, I think patience and mutual respect are the keys. Long distance relationships do work as long as there is a strong level of communication. If one... (read in full...)
I'm scared I won't find anyone to be with!
Q. I am 25 and at the stage where I am afraid I wont find a partner to spend my life with. I have been in four relationships, the first 3 I ended because I dind't see myself with the person and the last 1 broke my heart. Finally when ive been through ...
A. 14 September 2009: Dear Anonymous, I asked a similar question the day before yesterday! It sucks that you feel like this, but in a twisted way, I am glad I am not alone. ;) Here is my question and several of the Agony Aunts' responses. Question: I have a ... (read in full...)
How do you get over someone you truely love?
Q. How do you get over someone you truely love, and have loved for more years than you can remember? I am in love with this wonderful man, but due to circumstances, I doubt we will ever be together. My heart aches for him, he makes me laugh, smile ...
A. 13 September 2009: Dear Anonymous, Thank you for sharing your painful situation. Unrequited love is one of the oldest and most heartbreaking tales. My own heart ached when I read your post. I don't believe there really is an answer. Time, patience, faith, willing... (read in full...)
Should I just settle?
Q. I am 29 and have never been married. I have been involved in a couple of serious relationships, but have never lived with any of my boyfriends. I don't put up with a lot of games or garbage and some call me too picky. I have a full social life and...
A. 13 September 2009: Thank you so much for taking the time to tell me what you think. It helps me organize my own scattered brain to hear what others have to say :) Keeps me grounded.
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What is sex appeal exactly?
Q. I am a bit confused... I think my ex just insulted and complimented me at the same time... He said the reason my relationships never work is because I have to much sex appeal. What is sex appeal exactly?...
A. 11 September 2009: Dear Anonymous,
I had to smile when I read your question - you are absolutely right! He did compliment you and insult you in one full swoop.
But he is dead dead wrong.
Sex appeal generally means that the person is extremely physically... (read in full...)
Is he still in love with her?
Q. i have been with my bf for 2years now i love him alot but i sometimes feel realy small.last year i found out he was cheating on me and confronted him but then he droped the girl and thing slowly started mending.today i was with him then he said he ...
A. 11 September 2009: Dear Anonymous,
You seem to be a very caring sweet young woman. I am sad to here that you are in this situation. That feeling we get when our heart cracks is a million times worse than physical pain. When you love someone, it takes control ... (read in full...)
My friend keeps hitting on my boyfriend!
Q. ive been going out with this boy 4 atleast a month now and my mate has a boyfriend in a diffrent school and she just flirts with my boyfriend alot and me and my b.f talk on msn and he says he doesnt like her shes a dog and stuff but it really p...
A. 11 September 2009: Dear LEH123, Yikes!! What a situation to be in! My sympathies. If you have not yet, tell your friend that her chaser/flirty behavior is hurting you, making you feel uncomfortable, and is not not NOT! acceptable. Focus on how it affects you (Hey... (read in full...)
Please advise on my dilemma - to let go or not?
Q. This is going to be a long one...I thought I'd lay out the background info first, so please bear with me! My girlfriend and I are both of the same age, and have been dating for 3.5 years. It was quite a storybook romance: boy meets girl throu...
A. 10 September 2009: Dear Lostinnocence,
Let her go and move on.
I wish the best of luck :)
Cheers,
Deb... (read in full...)
Masturbation-how long is too long?
Q. How much time is too long to spend masturbating? I have only been recently introduced to it and I've found that it's very liberating and I've been trying to see how long I can "hold it in". I recently spent 2 hours trying different things and it f...
A. 10 September 2009: Dear Anonymous, I think most people try to finish as quickly as possible but there is definitely no time limit. As long as it does not become a problem which interferes with the rest of your life. Just be careful it does not become an obsessio... (read in full...)
Husband who lies and gambles
Q. I am so confused as what to do with my marriage. My husband and I dated for about over 3 years before we got married. We moved in together after a year of dating. After a couple of years I started noticing that our bills weren't being payed on time ...
A. 10 September 2009: Dear Mel,
I am sorry you are going through this.
I agree with Uncle Phil. Confront him on your terms and be firm. If you know any of his friends who are familiar with the situation or mutual friends, enlist their help and have them be ther... (read in full...)
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