Now that we've set a date I'm having doubts!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years now. We started dating when we were 18 years old. We've now been engaged for about 2 years. Recently, we set our wedding date... March of next year. My problem is this: I've always had fleeting feelings of ...
A. 17 August 2009: Why not drop the date of the marriage and break off this relationship.
It seems that you have not been honest with him how you feel and I think you would have a better life if you are not married.
Marriage is long life commitment.... (read in full...)
Should I stay or should I go..I think she's cheating
Q. me and my grl have been together for15 years. ive been laid off for 6 months. money is tight. her 28 yr old daughter and 3 yr old son are living here for free for over a year.i had a drug problem for a while. weve been arguing bout everything and ...
A. 17 August 2009: I think you need to give this relationship space, give yourself a couple of weeks apart, to allow you to recover what is happened and should focus on your addiction recovery ... and when things calm down.
It seems that you are too much stress f... (read in full...)
Threesome turned sour....how can we improve our sex life without resorting to that again?
Q. I seem to be in trouble. After repeatedly cheating on my boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years, we had a good chat and I confessed that it was only sexual stuff and nothing emotional involved and that whereas I never climax with him, I did with the last guy ...
A. 17 August 2009: Somehow I feel since you both agree to have threesome but somehow one of you not fully accept threesome in your relationship (hidden feelings). Your boyfriend seems to love you to allow this to be happen even he did not want it secretly.
But s... (read in full...)
Should I go to the police about my uncle's inappropriate behaviour?
Q. From an early age I was very fond of my uncle . However he used to do things that worried me , he was extremely fond of me is well and kept showering me with gifts . Anyways I thought it was only me and that I must be wrong . I mean he appears to ...
A. 17 August 2009: He did sexual abuse you which means breach of trust and damage the energies (you may not aware of) between each other. He had no right to do that to you.
It still bother you even now. Yes go to police or go to social workers for support.... (read in full...)
How long is sex supposed to last?
Q. probably a silly question, but how long do women prefer men to last in bed??? i suppose l am asking because in myself l dont believe l last very long at all. what got me thinking more about this is when my wife and i had separated for a period, ...
A. 17 August 2009: have you tried tantra sex?
add romatic and erotic sex massage etc...
not hard work really - its easy and longer ...... (read in full...)
How do I avoid appearing to 'try it on'?
Q. Hi, I've just been to a wedding. Over the course of the weekend, I got speaking to a girl, and think I like her. The problem is, at said wedding, in the evening, another guest got rather drunk and caused a rather big scene, after which I ...
A. 17 August 2009: What is wrong with telling how you feel?
Is there a rule not allow to being "try it on"
ask her for a date
ask for going out dinner or walks or cinema.
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Do you think she has feelings for me despite being in a relationship with another guy?
Q. hi there, i am a 23 years old virgin never have a gf in my life, i love women but for the reason which i don't they know, and sadly, they have never entered in to my life. i have been with this girl for more than a year, we have been very close, we ...
A. 17 August 2009: If you want to be with her, you tell her how you feel directly - rather than being guess if she do or do not - waste time.
If she can be able with you, make sure there is no complications like if she is still with other guys... make sure all is c... (read in full...)
How do I stop caring about him talking to another girl?
Q. could some one plz help me.... i dont know what to do i love him but i dont know how to forget all that has happened... i asked him not to talk to this unnone chick but he has not stopped but he say that it is nothing.. i was told to keep faith an...
A. 17 August 2009: Why did you tell him not to talk to this girl?
Do you owe your boyfriend?
He is a human being that do not need controlling or owe to you!
Perhaps you do not trust him more than you thought.
I thought relationships is all about trust... (read in full...)
Can't let go of my ex
Q. I'm in luv with a guy who's 2 years younger than me. I'm working and he's doing his final year at university. He loves me and is everything i'd ever want from a guy. Problem is i still love my ex and i know he still loves me too (he's been begging ...
A. 17 August 2009: It seems to me that you have unresolved issue with your ex boyfriend. It seems to me that there is something you need to find out for yourself.
Perhaps inform your boyfriend (he might be hurt but will understand) that you need a half day out
t... (read in full...)
I feel like a failure because all my friends have settled down but I havent found the right girl yet!
Q. Hi, Quick one for all you aunts out there. Im 29, single and feel like a failure because all my friends are either in committed relaionships or married at this stage. My question is, am I putting unreasonable pressure on myself to expect that at...
A. 17 August 2009: You are only 29 ... many of people do not settle down until 35 or 45.
Perhaps you have a number of life lessons to learn before you able to settle down.
Perhaps you need to make a change in your life to do what you want, rather than follow your... (read in full...)
I want to spend the rest of my life with this woman but I'm afraid of another failed marriage!
Q. I have two failed marriages behind me, the last one I felt railroaded into and didn't have the courage to back out of. I have now met a wonderful woman who has asked me to marry her. I said yes but that I want to wait for a while as I am only jus...
A. 17 August 2009: You have said she is a wonderful woman! do you want to spend with her rest of your life? If so yes then you should do.
Are there any similar patterns as previous two failed marriages? What are the differences between last two marriages and this... (read in full...)
Am I a stupid wife or just an untrusting wife?
Q. I recenty got suspicious of my husband. Normally following business trips over ten years he leaves me to unpack his case and now he empties it immediately and washes his dirty laundry that he never does laundry. Last week I was involved in a minor ...
A. 17 August 2009: have you thought that he might have sex addiction problem and may need to go to group that might help you both out?... (read in full...)
He is starting to be more honest about his sexuality but he still wont introduce me as his boyfriend
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. He is a few years older than I am. Since I was 16 I have been out of the closet. I have fully embraced my gayness. I am in the military and most of the people who know me know about my ...
A. 17 August 2009: Sorry that you went through a difficult time.
What about the truth? Where is honest in this relationship? Where do you want to go? Can you survive with this lies?
I think you have tried your best in this situation but please think about your... (read in full...)
How do I stop my feelings towards this married man?
Q. hi, i like this man whose married and have two kids. and i am jealous of his wife and can't see him with her. i know very well its not her fault but mine and his. even he likes me and we've had many good times together. we still continue to see each ...
A. 17 August 2009: If you want to be with him, why disrespect to wife do not know what is going on.
Why cannot you and him agree to tell the whole truth.
Why cannot you think of consequences - either now or in future wife will find out and will spoil everything... (read in full...)
Has all my talking put him off?
Q. Hello Can i can some peoples opinions please! ok I'll try keep it as short as poss, just wandered HONEST if i have completely ruined all hope!!! I don't know what it is with people i like but i either can't say 2 words to them or i just babble o...
A. 17 August 2009: How come you being blah blah? Are you nervous? Did you tell him that you been nervous and sorry for blah blah.
Be yourself and tell him it is not that normal and you are interested to become his friend, want to go out etc... (read in full...)
Would she respect me more if I just stepped back?
Q. this girl im talking to has a boyfriend.. we talk and hangout a lot. but now im just wondering, would she respect or like me more if i said lets just stop everything and be strictly friends, because she said if anything ever happen she would always ...
A. 17 August 2009: You are right if you ask her to choose between you and him. It could be more likely she may said she will choose him not you - be aware.
Do you know if she have feeling for you? If yes, then do explain that you do value her friendship and woul... (read in full...)
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