Do you think it is just stress? Or could I have some sort of mental health issues?
Q. Hi so i'm having a lot of difficulties right now. I'm in my last year of university and it's tough i've been trying my best and trying to stress as i am a very stressful person. There have been numerous things going on in my life also. Stuff that's ...
A. 5 December 2012: Dear anonymous, You have given a few clues: you are "a very stressful person" and this year you have been up against a variety of stressful situations. So, this could be stress. But unrelenting stress can lead to more serious mental health is... (read in full...)
I broke up with him because of his behavior. Have I overreacted?
Q. Im in college living on campus with my friends in an aparment and I've been in a relationship for almost four years now and I've finally had enough of the stuff that he put me though so I broke up with him. He has almost expected me to be there at ...
A. 17 November 2012: He is a deadbeat. He is a loser and has loved the fact that you have allowed him to run over you.
So now he has lost a good thing. You need to stay strong and keep him out of your life regardless of his threats, innuendos or actions.
You deserve ... (read in full...)
No condom for anal sex? Is it safe?
Q. My boyfriend is my second boyfriend.. I am still virgin... and he is too. At this time, He wish something for his birthday. He wants anal sex :| at first I really do not agree about it but I love him I want to make him happy. I am a little bit ...
A. 13 October 2011: If you are 16 - 17 yrs old.... and a virgin.... I personnaly think that your entire outlook on sex will be forever changed (and not for the better) if you allow this "boyfriend" to get his birthday wish. I, like others, question his virginity, and ... (read in full...)
I think his wife told him to stay away from me
Q. He and I are both married and were friends. I have a strong suspicion that his wife has told him not to see me anymore and has essentially cut him out of my life. She thinks I am a big threat and does not like the fact that he is attracted to me. I ...
A. 13 October 2011: Dear anonymous,
Deep down inside you know the answer. You said it " I am not on moral high ground". You wanted more out of this friendship and this guy, and this guy's wife saw this. A decision had to be made and it was made in favor of fide... (read in full...)
Kisses and being called sexy
Q. I have a quick question.if a guy gives you a kiss on the lips and calls you sexy,does he like you ?...
A. 5 October 2011: He is attracted to you. But "like" is a loaded word (as is love) and can only be commented on after people get to know each other.
But a kiss and describing you as sexy means you caught his eye. This is a pretty important first step towards ... (read in full...)
My wife is not interested in sex
Q. HI, I am 36 years old, married and have three kids, 9, 4 and 3. My wife is also 36 and we have been married for 10 years. We have a nice life - good kids, good jobs, good family support. Due to the kids, we have spent the better part of the last...
A. 4 October 2011: Hmmm. This could be a little complicated. Most women do love sex as much as men. But fatigue, stress, children... life in general can get in the way of a good sex life... for both sexes. A Jesuit priest once taught me this: For a guy sex can take 5 ... (read in full...)
Is this how things usually are? My new boyfriend rarely hugs, kisses and sometimes does not talk
Q. hi i am new to this site but i need some help... i have a new boyfriend who i have been seeing for 5-6 months now, but it feels like he does not like me the way he been saying and he barely hugs, kisses and sometimes barely talks to me. we do liv...
A. 4 September 2011: This situation is not related to you living apart. That is the way he is. This is only going to get worse over time (small things we are prepared to ignore in the early stages of a relationship become huge as the years go by).
So consider find... (read in full...)
She is on my mind every minute of the day!
Q. Well guys n girls, I have a problem like most on here. About 2 years ago, I gained a crush on a girl in my class. Well I have retained this crush for the 2 years since I first fell for her and I have never asked her out. This year, I have got to k...
A. 29 June 2010: I am guessing that she is flattered you have a crush on her, but at this time nothing more will happen. I do not know if you have a chance with her, but the only way to find out is to become more social -more talkative with her. She needs to get to ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I've felt an orgasm yet!
Q. I'm 17 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 2years now. I love him,and I feel very comfertable with him and I know he dies too! I don't know if I've felt an orgasm yet? This feeling when we are having sex sometimes is my vagina throbbing ...
A. 29 June 2010: Have you ever masturbated until orgasm? Becasue if you are not sure that you have had an orgasm... you probably have not had an orgasm. Girls "get there" slowly. It builds and builds and sometimes it reaches a plateau for a while before going to hte ... (read in full...)
He's never lasted longer than 5 minutes! Ever!
Q. My fiance and I have been dating for almost three years. We've been having sex for more then a year and he's still having troubles lasting [as in we've never had sex for more then five minutes, ever!]! WE both lost our virginity to each other and ...
A. 28 June 2010: This is called preamture ejaculation. Look it up. Lots of techniques to help. It gets better as he gets older.... but could take a long while. So the answer is simple in a way. Your boyfriend/fiance (aren't you a little young?) will need to attend ... (read in full...)
I'm lost and destroyed by the lies of our post baby life, but still love her..what would you do?
Q. I am lost. The past two months have been the worst in my life. For these two months my wife and i have not lived at the same place. It was forced upon us. About a week after i was gone my wife just put her fiendness in full throttle. Now times have ...
A. 20 June 2010: She is an addict. And you are not helping her by not standing up to this. You are co-dependant.
Walk away with the child (as long as you are not an addict) and tell her she needs to get her s___ together. Your baby will not have a good life in this... (read in full...)
He wants to have sex with me... to practice!!!!
Q. Hello, I'm a 17 year old straight girl, and recently one of my male friends, who is gay, was telling me about how it's common for gay guys to have sex with their female friends sort of as 'practice'... He didn't directly ask me but I'm inferrin...
A. 18 June 2010: Right. He may be lying. Or he may not. He is a sexual being and some people just want to have sex. With anyone or anything. Please do not go for it. It will ruin your friendship. And it may mess up your self esteem. Step away from the abyss...run!... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned?
Q. In the past couple of weeks I've had an abnormally excessive amount of vaginal discharge. I know that discharge is a normal thing, and I consider myself sexually healthy (I'm not sexually active and haven't had any problems down there), but I've ...
A. 18 June 2010: If you were on antibiotics, this may have caused a change in the vagina's normal bacteria ... and caused and overgrowth of others, or yeast.
Mid cycle (at time of ovulation roughly 2 weeks before your next period) could see increased egg-... (read in full...)
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