A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well guys n girls, I have a problem like most on here. About 2 years ago, I gained a crush on a girl in my class. Well I have retained this crush for the 2 years since I first fell for her and I have never asked her out.This year, I have got to know her alot and we chat almost every day. She learnt I like her just a week ago (Thanks truth or dare) and she remained casual after it and remained talking to me and my friend. I just dont know what to do as I dont know wether she likes me as a friend or posibly more, Shes a highly intellegent, hard working, realy good looking teenage girl and im a resonable intellegent, bellow average looking guy.I realy beleave she is the one for me but so do 2 other guys who look similar to me (One of them is cominly thought of being me and I him) I realy dont know what to do, Im not one for biting the bulit and I am not good in conversations (Im one of thoughes people who listen to conversations rather than partake all the time.Im sorry for the long post but I realy need help because she is on my mind every min of the day.Please help
View related questions:
crush Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, mayhem321  +, writes (30 June 2010):
 Try telling her how you feel, and possibly ask her out on a date. The worst thing that can happen is that she says no. Trying spending more time with her so she can get to know you a bit more.
A
female
reader, raiders  +, writes (29 June 2010):
 You need to tell her you still like and would like to take it from there. She knows how you feel but you never took a step forward so I suggest you give it a try. Good luck.
...............................
A
male
reader, DDOC  +, writes (29 June 2010):
I am guessing that she is flattered you have a crush on her, but at this time nothing more will happen. I do not know if you have a chance with her, but the only way to find out is to become more social -more talkative with her. She needs to get to know you as a person (who are you on the inside). You may see her becoming more interested in you if she gets to hear who you really are. This may take some time. And things may still not turn out as you would like. You are young so do not sweat this.... there will be others. In the mean time makes this a practice round for learning how to talk to girls (and feel comfortable). If it works - great. If it does not work - well at least you had some experience that will help you next time.
...............................
|
