My boyfriend wont let me speak to any guys, not even to help out my friends!
Q. Hiii dear cupid..my question is why boyfriends are so possessive..im in a relationship..my bf is kind such a lovely guy..we met online on facebook..he doesnt allow me to talk with any boy..i accept this but there was a friend of mine who want my ...
A. 11 May 2012: Clearly your boyfriend is unreasonable and possessive. I hope you understand that. But, why do you think you have to do something just because he says?? If he 'told' you to do something unsafe or illegal- you wouldn't do it, right? So if... (read in full...)
My boyfriend isn't going to get me a present for my b-day but has money to buy a new game
Q. my birthday is coming up (in two days), and i had some friends and my boyfriend around yesterday to watch some films and throughout the day, me and my boyfriend cuddled and kissed etc.. today, me and my boyfriend were talking, and he said 'i may n...
A. 4 March 2012: Hey, hon, You might be young, but you come across as considerate and mature about this. Personally, I think the key is often to think how you'd feel if the boot was on the other foot. If he's putting off getting you anything because he can't th... (read in full...)
This was a bit vulgar to say to me on Valentines day, should I be offended?
Q. So I've been dating this guy for a few months. Everything has been going pretty good for the most part. Then yesterday, he kind of threw me for a loop. He sent me a text that said "Blow jobs are like flowers for guys on Valentine's Day". I was ...
A. 16 February 2012: Hey, hon, I think that the key thing here is that you don't have to feel obliged to feel anything other than you do. Your own feelings are your's and your's alone. Sure some people would be offended by this, some wouldn't, and I wholly agre... (read in full...)
He said me breaking up with him was the best Valentines gift ever! I know he doesn't want me, but I still feel like I made a mistake by breaking up with him....
Q. Dear cupid i am in love with a guy for 2 years. He knows that and we are in fwb. He is not seeing anyone and im not either. But he never introduced me as his gf. I am his friend, thats all he wanted from me, but i want more. I told him today i...
A. 15 February 2012: The situation might be too raw for you to recognise it, but I think you've taken a step towards recognising and going after what matters to you in life.
You wanted a serious relationshionship; but settled with a friendship with benefits. This mig... (read in full...)
I just get turned off by his double checking the condom
Q. Hi everyone, I didnt know who else to bring this up with so thought i'd see what other people on here think... Basically my partner and I are in a very loving relationship. We both want children and plan to start trying in ...
A. 30 January 2012: It might not be as simple as this, but... if you've talked about starting a family with your partner at length and you are confident that he really does WANT to start trying in a year; could you try to concentrate on him caring so much about yo... (read in full...)
I feel guilty that I don't want a child with my wife, but I might with another woman
Q. My wife is now entering into menopause. We never had a child. We talked about it now and again, but it was never a priority for us. There was a time when she said she wanted that experience, but I didn't take her seriously because - for on...
A. 15 January 2012: Hey, although I don't think what you're telling your wife isn't that far away from the truth, I think you need a frank conversation with each other. What you're telling her about having kids is essentially everything that she needs to know - ... (read in full...)
Getting frustrated with his lack of proposal.....how long were you together before you got engaged? What is the average?
Q. I am rather depressed of late. I am 28, and I've been with my partner for three years, he's 26. It seems that everyone around me is getting either married, or engaged... But me. I am starting to feel left behind and frustrated with my partner's lack ...
A. 11 January 2012: On the one hand, I'd agree with the previous poster that it sounds as though he is getting ready to propose to you. He's all but told you that he is saving up for a ring! But... on the other hand, your comments that you are 'rather depresse... (read in full...)
My wife's friend is marrying my wife's 1st boyfriend and we don't want to go to the wedding, should we?
Q. We need advice. My wife has this good girlfriend that she's known for a few years. We're married 4 years now and everything is great. This girlfriend hasn't been a big part of our life because of who she's dating (and now marrying). This girlfrien...
A. 5 January 2012: People miss events that they really want to attend all the time, for pre-booked arrangements outside of their control, for work/ study commitments, or illness, emergency, lack of money etc etc etc.
Now there's an event that BOTH of you really d... (read in full...)
Am I nuts, or is it wrong of my ex wife to make me a babysitter so she can get laid in her own bed?
Q. I am worried (I guess that is the best word) that my ex-wife is shirking some of her responsibilities as primary custodian of my son. She is a great Mom, but I have been asked a few times lately to take my son and keep him out to a specific time. ...
A. 2 January 2012: Hey, I feel I have to just chip in and support the OP here...
If you WERE a babysitter, then she would NOT be texting you to keep him till later because she was in bed with her husband, it would just be completely inappropriate! The fact that you... (read in full...)
I like this married guy but I'm not sure that I want to be a mistress!
Q. hey, this is the first time writing to one of these agony aunt things so i'm sorry if this is long winded. long story short, a guy i'm attracted to has asked me out. he's cute, funny, intelligent.. everything i would want in a guy but never se...
A. 21 November 2011: Thanks for the update.
Let’s face it- it IS frustrating when we meet someone that we like and they're not available for any reason. But there's so much more at stake here, so well done on you for not taking advantage of the situation and for ackn... (read in full...)
I like this married guy but I'm not sure that I want to be a mistress!
Q. hey, this is the first time writing to one of these agony aunt things so i'm sorry if this is long winded. long story short, a guy i'm attracted to has asked me out. he's cute, funny, intelligent.. everything i would want in a guy but never se...
A. 21 November 2011: You might be young and inexperienced, but you're not too young to show empathy, or to know right from wrong.
I hope that you've asked this question simply because you're hoping that people will tell you to do what you KNOW you should do already.... (read in full...)
Should my husband go out to bars so often without me? Or should he consider me more?
Q. For the past year my husband has been going to the bars with his friends about twice per month. He stays until the bar is closed. I was ill for a few months and never wanted to go out when he asked (not that I could, because we don't have a baby...
A. 31 October 2011: Telling him to stay home all the time too would not solve your issues, it would only give him the same issues that you are facing for yourself.
Try and make your situation happier. Don't try and drag him down with you!
I think you need to focu... (read in full...)
Did I do something wrong by refusing to pay for my wife's new dress?
Q. Hi, I really got to get this out as I don't know what I am doing wrong, maybe there are some factos which I am not taking into account. My wife and I are both young working professionals, my salary is higher than hers by around 30%. We bough...
A. 30 October 2011: Well, firstly- hear, hear to Desirewhitefire's comment!
In looking for a practical solution and a bit of a test;
I actually suggest that you insist upon exactly what you've suggested!
Tell her that you want to pool ALL finances from now on... (read in full...)
Three Ways To Know That Your Ready For A Relationship
Q. Are you ready for a serious, committed relationship now…really? Well if you truly believe that you are, make sure that you have the below tips covered. 1. You’re maximizing your opportunities. If you want to find a mate, then you have to put your...
A. 2 October 2011: Hmm, but you see- I get your point all too well that you see meeting people in the same way you see, and approach job interviews; that's my point. Yes, both involves meeting people, but you could just as easily compare dinner and beverages with your ... (read in full...)
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