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I just want my stuff back, why wont he answer?

Q.   I have been seeing this guy for about a month but we have only hungout 3 times because he says he always has his daughter. I have never hungout with him on a weekend its always been on a Monday or Tuesday. We always just get take out n watch a movie ...

A.   7 March 2010: Thank you for all the advice!!! I guess I only accepted getting takeout because he would always use the excuse that he was super tired from work n wanted to relax...I guess I was a littl nieve.... :/ maybe ill use this as an excuse to buy new ... (read in full...)

Why are these people angry at me and not him?

Q.   So I hooked up with a guy my friend had a crush on. She walked in on us when my pants were down. I told her I was sorry and that I didn't mean to hurt her. she didn't talk to me for a week but she finally started talking to me again and were trying ...

A.   22 February 2010: You sound bitter. Are you in high school? Or all your friends just a lot better looking than you and this constantly happens to you. No need to talk down to me! I'm not your kid! ... (read in full...)

Why are these people angry at me and not him?

Q.   So I hooked up with a guy my friend had a crush on. She walked in on us when my pants were down. I told her I was sorry and that I didn't mean to hurt her. she didn't talk to me for a week but she finally started talking to me again and were trying ...

A.   22 February 2010: Thanks for all the advice! But I'm not in high school! I'm 26 and so are these girls! But I can understand why everyone thought I was because my situation n these girls is very very immature!!! I personally think these girls had a thing for him too ... (read in full...)

Is it wise to leave my 28 years old fiance for a 53 years old man?

Q.   It's about 5 years already that I'm just attracted to older men.I can not be with young guys for too long.I find them boring,unreliable,hard to deal with... but because of my mum who is so angry at me for loving an older man that she just saw his ...

A.   12 February 2010: Um 53 year old man? Sorry but I think that's a little disgusting. Definitely do not marry him!!! I think your looking for a daddy figure. Have you thought about therapy? I usually date older but no older than 10 years older than me and even that ... (read in full...)

Has he gone off the boil?

Q.   So I met this guy a week ago. We hungout Sunday night and Tuesday night. He's 35 has a 10 year old. He's been divorced for a couple of years. When I left his place Wednesday morning he said he would be in contact soon. Well I know that he does have ...

A.   9 February 2010: Well, I'm not sure what I would say if I did call? Everyone I know has advised me to not call...I just feel like if a guy is really interested he will call and pursue me. I don't like pursuing men because when I have done so in the past it never ... (read in full...)

Has he gone off the boil?

Q.   So I met this guy a week ago. We hungout Sunday night and Tuesday night. He's 35 has a 10 year old. He's been divorced for a couple of years. When I left his place Wednesday morning he said he would be in contact soon. Well I know that he does have ...

A.   9 February 2010: Well I'm afraid to call because I don't wanna seem desperate or like a stage 5 clinger...the last woman he dated was a psycho stalker and I don't want to scare him... ... (read in full...)

A guy wants me to move in after a week of talking.

Q.   I work as a hair stylist and a guy that I have cut his hair for a few months started talking and teasing with me. When he would ask for my number I would not give it to him. I ended up giving it to him and we started texting each other. I was ...

A.   6 January 2010: Dude Wtf are you doing???? He's a loser!!!!! Lose him omg don't be stupid... (read in full...)

Thought I wanted a no strings relationship but only with him...

Q.   Ok so here's the situation. I am recently seperated from my husband, and started talking to this guy at work. He told me he had a girlfriend. So i chalked it up to harmless flirting. After a while the flirting became more serious. I know that him ...

A.   6 January 2010: Move on!!!! You need to see a therapist seriously. Go find a Single guy!!!!!!!!!!!!he has a girlfriend. You wrote yesterday about the same shit. Nobody is going to agree with what you want to do. He used you for one night get over it. Maybe it ... (read in full...)

Is this strange behavior for a guy?

Q.   Im so confused! This guy is so different from every other man ive ever met,and I have no idea how to take him.Ive known him for a year.We agreed to be just friends,because he claims he doesnt want a commitment.This was after we were already doing ...

A.   5 January 2010: I'm in the same boat and its confusing...I'm going to break off the friendship soon. Since I still like him. Why torture ourselves right?... (read in full...)

A guy wants me to move in after a week of talking.

Q.   I work as a hair stylist and a guy that I have cut his hair for a few months started talking and teasing with me. When he would ask for my number I would not give it to him. I ended up giving it to him and we started texting each other. I was ...

A.   5 January 2010: He sounds like a grade a loser. What are you doing??? And what happened with your boyfriend? You dumped him for a loser? Dump this old loser ASAP. ... (read in full...)

Want to have an affair with guy who has girlfriend

Q.   so i am recently seperated from my husband. there is this guy at work and we have been flirting a lot for like the past 3mos. the 2 of us have proven to each other that we are sexually attracted to each other. the other night he invited me out for ...

A.   4 January 2010: Move on!! Your so wrong for getting with this guy in the first place. He has a girlfriend!!! What are you thinking? I been the girlfriend in this situation and she will find out believe me and to think of the pain she will go through? You want to do ... (read in full...)

Does she want another man? Does she want full anal sex, not only finger-play? Will she tell me if she does?

Q.   I have asked for advice before and you all thought I was watching too many pornos. I still have a lingering question, which you all have helped me with, but I have some more on that subject plus some others that have come up. First off, my ...

A.   4 January 2010: Just ask her. If she says no it means no. ... (read in full...)

12 years later I am married but I recently restarted my affair with my ex married lover! Please advise.

Q.   Almost 20 years ago, I was in a relationship that was not good for me for a variety of reasons. I was very young and convinced that I could not do any better so I stayed. I began having an affair with my boyfriend’s married best friend. This was ...

A.   4 January 2010: Stop talking to him! Seriously its not that hard. Your husband will find out sooner or later. Break it off. He's a married douChebag obviously he's not a good person. He's cheating your cheating!!!marriage is not something you take lightly. Stop ... (read in full...)

I don't think he's gay, but why would he look at gay porn?

Q.   I have been in a good relationship with a strong black man for 5 years. He has always been interested in porn, and his brother explained that it was common when growing up because their Dad had tons of porn in the house. I started a high demand job ...

A.   2 January 2010: Only 4 times a month? He obviously isn't getting what he needs from you so he's looking elsewhere.... i would be more worried about his fidelity than if he's gay or not. I think men just like porn period. ... (read in full...)

Should I not read too much into his actions?

Q.   So I was dating this guy for 2 months and he broke it off almost a month ago because I ran into him at a club and I was super drunk and I saw him talking to other women and got jealous and upset called him a few names. I appologized to him but he ...

A.   18 December 2009: Well I know that its ok for him to talk to other women. I was just drunk stupid. And yes we had been having sex. So ok he is giving me another chance than? When should I ask him to watch a movie? Or should I wait for him to ask??... (read in full...)

Will I always be alone without a relationship?

Q.   I’m turning 19 soon, and I’ve never had a boyfriend. I’ve never been kissed. I’ve never been on a date. I’ve never even had a guy express interest. I’ve never even heard rumors that any guys might be interested. I didn’t attend any school dances, ...

A.   18 December 2009: I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 20 and I remained a virgin till than as well. Hell I'm 26 and have had only real relationship. Just be patient. Focus on making some good girlfriends. Maybe start a new diet plan? Workout you'll look and ... (read in full...)

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