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writes:So I was dating this guy for 2 months and he broke it off almost a month ago because I ran into him at a club and I was super drunk and I saw him talking to other women and got jealous and upset called him a few names. I appologized to him but he wanted to break things off and wanted to remain friends. Well we have remained in contact and he took me to lunch today...it was exactly the way it was before between us...he gave me a long hug goodbye and I suggested we watch a movie sometime and he agreed with the idea. Should I not read too much into it? Could it be possible for him to still like me and change his mind? What should I do...I still have feelings for him.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (19 December 2009):
 I agree with the last poster. just take things slow, it may work out in your favor, but it's hard to say so far if he just wants to be civil or more than friends so just take it easy. i wouldn't make any daring moves. i think you learned your lesson about going off on him and know better for next time, so i don't think you need a lecture on that. good luck!
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reader, curious26 +, writes (18 December 2009):
curious26 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I know that its ok for him to talk to other women. I was just drunk stupid. And yes we had been having sex. So ok he is giving me another chance than? When should I ask him to watch a movie? Or should I wait for him to ask??
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): Sounds as if he may be giving you another chance. Perhaps he does still like you.
I have a question for you: why were you jealous of the fact that he was talking to other women at the club? Was he smooching any of them, or just talking? You need to keep in mind that when you date someone you don't OWN them, you know. He (and you) are entitled to talk to people of the opposite sex - and to go out on dates with them, UNLESS you and he are having sex, in which case the expectation is that the two of you are exclusive to one another.
Even so, if that were the case, it still doesn't mean he can't talk to other women!
If you were "super drunk" and calling him names, no wonder he wanted to break off with you! Maybe you should think about controlling the amount you drink, next time.
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