Sometimes when we're kissing he has his eyes closed, which is very odd to me.
Q. I've been dating a guy for about four months now and I really care about him a lot. He tells me he loves me and I tell him I love him. He's eleven years older than me but I don't think that really matters. I love him. I do have a concern though. ...
A. 17 October 2008: Absolutely with you on the one, Deejuliet. It's rather creepy when you have your eyes open whilst kissing. It's like... well, it's just creepy.... (read in full...)
She thinks I'm over sensitive to a lot of things...
Q. So I was with this girl for 2 years, we broke up for 4 months and have just recently started talking and being intimate, possibly getting back together. However there are some things coming up that bother me a lot. She thinks I'm over sensitive to a ...
A. 16 October 2008: TO EVERYONE! Life is a game, but when it comes ot relationships... boy... You have to be aware all the time, anytime. Every action has a reaction and that applies here as well. At first it seems as if you don't know how to be with that person, bec... (read in full...)
She thinks I'm over sensitive to a lot of things...
Q. So I was with this girl for 2 years, we broke up for 4 months and have just recently started talking and being intimate, possibly getting back together. However there are some things coming up that bother me a lot. She thinks I'm over sensitive to a ...
A. 16 October 2008: I feel your pain, buddy
I also am a bit on the sensitive side, but I use to be worse which means that you can improve.
Some of us are like that, but I think that it originates from low self esteem. That damn lack of confidence...
I know why ... (read in full...)
I don't see how I can compete with a friend who's known her for so long and is there for her when I'm not moving back until next year.
Q. Ten months ago I met this girl who was just amazing. The only problem was that we had both just gotten out of serious relationships with people whom we thought we were going to marry. However we got along so great we ended up together and the sex ...
A. 13 October 2008: Pff...
I read through HonningKanin's reply roughly, but to put it plain and simple:
GET RID OF HER, DUDE!
Get some dignity for crying out loud! How can you stand there and be humiliated by some girl?!
Tell her that you hope she finds happi... (read in full...)
Could I ever tell him about these dreams?
Q. So this is weirding me out now. theres this guy on my bus every sunday afternoon. he's quite cute and seems to be my type. (shy, likes books, messy hair, wears hats :D) and for the past couple of weeks ive had dreams about him while asleep an...
A. 13 October 2008: No, do not tell him anything. Follow CONFUSED's advice and get to know the guy first.
I mean... how would you feel if a complete stranger came up to you and told you "I've been dreaming about you for the past two weeks". What kind of answer d... (read in full...)
Okay, got her number, now how or what do I text her?
Q. Okay, I got this girl's number after just asking (still a little suprised at that lol) now how do I ask her out? or what do I text her with? Should I be like I am with my friends?...
A. 13 October 2008: Oh, definitely call, don't text. Mr. Reality Check is right.
Here are some pointers:
1. Game plan! It's very important to have a clear idea of what you two are going to be doing. Whether it's a walk in the park, coffee, lunch/dinner, mo... (read in full...)
Why don't I have a girlfriend?
Q. I am 22 and i have a problem that im trying to do something about. I really want a gf but i have never had one before when ever i go out places or go on holiday i see couples together and i get really jelous and think why is this never me?. I go out ...
A. 12 October 2008: Having the same problem here. I could give you some pointers though. Meeting girls: I'm as blank as a page here. All I know is that clubs are no longer what they were cracked up to be. No matter how hard I've tried, I never really met a girl... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has anger management issues, what do I do?
Q. You know when you really love someone, and you think your boyfriend's freat, but he just has that one glitch that when it pops up, it really makes you wonder if he's going to be the one for you? I have been with my boyfriend 10 months. 99% of ...
A. 12 October 2008: Bad...
I don't really think you can do anything to help him. Just about the only thing that you CAN do is ask him nicely to start visiting anger management groups.
Maybe if you could explain to him how you feel about this and how much you car... (read in full...)
I'm depressed because I'm not in a relationship
Q. Ok i know this is going to sound stupid but over the last half a year or so i have started to get depressed because i am not in a relationship. All of my friends have been in relationships and I have never had one and feel stupid and immature when ...
A. 12 October 2008: Does it matter? How old are you? 14, 15?
Take it easy, girl.
What? You wanna get pumped by a guy tonight? 'Cause at this age I can promise you that's all they're thinking about. I'm not saying that sex is a bad thing, but it can be way better i... (read in full...)
I finished the relationship but now I feel so miserable.
Q. I hope someone out there can help me because I am a complete mess at the moment. I broke up with my girlfriend 3 weeks ago and now I am going crazy, I miss her so much and I'm scared she has met someone else. I'll start from the beginning. Th...
A. 12 October 2008: Ah, man
It's a tough story that one. I know that right now the last thing you want to hear is accusations, but come on! You let her go 3 times...
Anyway, whats done is done.
In my eyes, I don't think she'll have the courage to be with y... (read in full...)
I like my friend's girlfriend way too much.
Q. Hey Well I'm in Love with my best friend's girlfriend - wrong yes. I've known my friend since we was about 9 and we both met his girlfriend and her friend on the internet about 4 years ago. I started going out with her friend (the worst mis...
A. 12 October 2008: Hey dude,
Sorry, but to me it seems like this girl doesn't feel the same way that you do. I think that, at best, you're her friend.
Life's very tough when it comes to love and relationships, yeah.
And there is of course the moral issue you ... (read in full...)
Is my long distance lover trying to distance herself from me?
Q. Hello everyone. Im new here and I've read many articles about long distance relationship which is my problem right now. Well I am a lesbian...and I have a girlfriend who now works in Worsley, Alberta, Canada. We've been apart for a month now. Im ...
A. 12 October 2008: Hey Girl,
New here as well, but I'd like to tell you couple 'o things.
I've had a long distance relationship and it crashed badly. Basically it was all pain and suffering and tons of frustration. So in the end we decided it would be best if... (read in full...)
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